Its kinda true you have a better chance talking on like fb or a normal chat room if you want more of a chance at normal conversation.

 

Ha thanks. She probably goes to bars wearing a crop-top and complains that she can't meet a good guy.

 

It is nature. They are adult.

 

I agree with rothko. Not all of us are like that. The woman would have to start it before me. Sex site or not. No need to be rude.

 

I go to nude outings and swinger events. THEY don't even talk the way some of my messages are written. We have pleasant conversations, often of sexual nature, so this being a porn site is not an excuse.

 

Precisely this.

 

IT'S ALL IN THE SEPARATION

There's a gap between sexual expression and sexual maturity, which has nothing to do with age or experience! Most expressive guys are like a shotgun, if they scatter wide enough they'll likely hit "something" unlike the sexually mature who is a sniper who knows what he wants, how to get it with the patience to wait till "just the right time."

 

There are guys who are able to talk, even talk about sex, without the need to randomly mention such things. Just for the record.

 

Hey now!! I am nice in chat!! *innocent look*

 

The guy was giving YOU the signal about what HE wanted to talk about. He just saved his time and yours by pulling the trigger. You should thank them. Time is precious.

 

Well that's a bit offensive.
Isn't that just a little bit on the over-generalization side? I don't think that I've ever asked anyone on this site to put anything of mine anywhere.

 

If you are a girl on a porn site and are chatting with men are you sure it takes three messages before they suggest that you open your holes for their cock? Wow, I didn't know any wouldn't on the first message.

Why is it? That is how men are built. Our balls ache constantly and the key to relief is spelled "p u s s y"

 

Most of the answer is already given: you're on a porn site, a sex forum and the guy on the other end is chatting to a guy who has a facial cumshot as his avatar. Then, finally, a fragment of the conversation that you're giving, completes the picture.

Supposing that he's telling you the truth, he'll probably horny as hell typing with one hand only. Now we guys may be right that we're not always talking out of our dick, but when we're with the hardon in our hand, we mostly are. I think most guys get the guts of starting chatting with you when they're so horny that they can't think of anything else. And they're probably assuming that you're in the same mood.

 

In my opinion artep is talking about a pretty self-selecting sample of men here.

Men who jump straight from an opening line into expecting graphic sex chat will be like that with every woman on here, all the time.

Other men, who would respect her space and chat without expectations are by nature more circumspect and possibly even shy.

So while I don't deny there are loads of chancers here (after all this is a porn site) there are more reasonable guys than her pms/chats would indicate.

 

it has more to do with sex having a taboo nature. It's to be spoken of in private, in the shadows, not open at all. So it's up to people to figure things out on there own mostly. Then it's movies, exaggerated stories, porn,urban legends,traditional misogyny and all sorts of worse ways than talking and teaching that are most men and women's guide into sex.

I'm not all that special, or at least I don't think I should be. I just figured out listening observing, and talking openly and with an open mind has much better results in getting a woman aroused and better end result when things do progress than " scoring".

 

Thanks, couldn't say it any better.

 

i dont even know how to PM yet, please help???? but no not all men are like that, this may be a porn site but they are still ladies and we should respect them, all of them. i love ALL women.

 

Takes time for some of them to warm up?