I'd like to open the floor for a candid discussion regarding differences, or similarities, between sexual fantasies for men and women. It is my impression, generally speaking, men fantasize about scenarios they wish to fulfill...I haven't heard a guy ever say otherwise. However, the same isn't necessarily true for women. One popular, or unpopular subject depending how one looks at it, is the subject of rape. Many woman have rape fantasies, but don't wish to actually become a victim of rape. I find this intriguing and would love to read what thoughts or opinions you all have on the subject of sexual fantasies

 

I fantasize about raping a woman who fantasizes about being raped.

Ok not really... I'm really just too nice to find that exciting.

 

LOL!....

Well Not that I'm particularly proud or feel good about it, but I've fantasized about raping a woman before. Not that I'd do it and it's certainly not something I'd wish to fulfill.

I suppose in that regard, I have fantasized about something I don't wish to fulfill....oh no! Does that make me gay? LMAO

 

ROFL! I was going to make a thread about that very same thing.

 

Very interesting topic! I think you might actually be on to something there. I know I have fantasies about things that I wouldn't want to actually experience as it would either be too painful or too awkward, and any fantasy that my hubs has told me about sounds like something easily fulfilled and that he'd love to make happen.

 

I have to say most all of my fantasies have been about things that I would and have taken steps to live out . Now that I think about it I should probably get more creative . Ok here goes I'm gonna fuck beyoncey

 

Yeah.....guys are simple beings.

....most of them anyway ;-)

 

Exactly one of my points. However, it's not the same for women!

In regards to your new list topper, well done! Set the bar high! Otherwise, what's the use in trying?

 

Mine are mostly things that I actually want to happen, although I may turn out not to be quite as much of a pain slut as my imagination makes me. (Don't get me wrong, I'm a pain slut, but breast skewering is probably left as a mental image rather than something I actually try.)

 

A fantasy I've been having with increased frequency is public fucking. Sneaking away to the bathroom, pressing her up against a tree at the park, alleyway romp.....yeah I want that!

 

I agree. Public sex is such a turn on. Just thinking of scenarios gets me going. I love the idea of getting fucked with a strapon in public. It's one thing to be caught fucking, it's another for a guy to be getting his ass fucked in public. LOL

 

MY MOST UNIQUE FANTASY

Would have to be the combination of finding the right words and timing that my wife could dig deep and express all of what she's imagined she would want sexually. To be totally candid whether they were fantasies that could happen or not, it's more common for me to imagine new fantasies then act them out to her surprise which she's derived pleasure from most of the time. Insight into what she thinks deeply and her ability to share them without feeling guilt or shame would be amazing!

Such as I think that if she felt better about the way she perceives the way she looks and her physical limitations were more of a motivation to get in better shape (not be a better shape, I love all of her) then the possibilities of sharing her with another man would've been already in the planning stage.

 

A lot of my fantasies involve various scenarios as well as being stimulated visually - sounds weird but having the fantasy but also looking at it in the 3rd person (if you know what I mean).

 

A man wants every woman to fulfill his one fantasy.
A woman wants one man to fulfill her every fantasy.

 

I hope you two do have that talk one day. Just be careful what you wish for. Sometimes some things are better left unknown...depending on who you are

 

Oddly, I know exactly what you mean ;-)

 

nicely put, but I agree more with the second statement. I want my wife to fulfill all of my fantasies.....oh no! Does that make me gay?!

 

Thank you all for your responses. Guys, prove my theory wrong. Do you have a fantasy to which you have no desire to fulfill? Ladies, please feel free to weigh in as well

 

I have a Mother/Son fantasy but I don't want it to be with my actual Mother - just someone I call Mother (do you get what I mean - again, lol!!).