Now I am sure this has been asked before but I couldn't find it. I have never done anal and would like to my gf has and isn't the biggest fan. The other night we had a talk about it again that she started. Which ended up saying that she doesn't want to because my dick is to big and it would hurt to much. Now know matter how much I want to I don't want to hurt her. So my question is to you ladies or guys I guess is my cock to big for anal. It is 7.5 long and around 6 around. Thanks in advance the resin I ask is because this is bugging her more then me because I am lets say not as experience as she is and she is always worried that she isn't going to be enough. May I note that she is wrong on that and I have told her. Sorry for rambling tell me what you think I should do or not do.

 

Tell her that you will use lots of thick lube and stop at anytime it gets to uncomfortable.

 

Tried that

 

Where her down with begging? lol... Reassure her that you like her just the way she is. She doesn't want to so you have to accept that or get it else where. Why not find a courtesan who will do what you seek discreetly and then there is no issue as you get to try it.

 

Because that would be cheating and there is no way I would ever do that. My main question is the size of my dick a actual reason she wouldn't.

 

It is a personal preference. Every woman is different.

 

Well, there are ways to help it yet the point is if she is saying it is too big, then she has already made up her mind and that is that......IOW, even if she does give it a go she'll be so afraid that she'll clamp down to a point that it will be impossible/hurt. Now you can try the route of gradually escalating size of toys over time (numerous sessions, not in one sitting), yet I have the feeling her decision is a final one. To press it over something that will be so much less to you than other forms physically is a sure way to tax the relationship.

Hush....an alias

 

That's kinda what I was thinking.

 

I used to often say no to things and if my bf's didn't push my boundaries I would have never found out how much I liked stuff.

 

Tell her you'll buy a dildo the same size as your cock and let her use it on you first. Tell her to fuck you like you fuck her. Its only fair.

 

No, your cock is nowhere near too big. It may be too big for her and her lack of experience. Start with fingers or small toys and lots and LOTS of lube and go slow. Only she can set the pace so don't be too pushy.

 

If she's made up her mind than you might be kinda SOL but if you asked her a few time in a row and still she said no drop it for about 6 to 8 months don't even mention it becues if you keep bugging her your relationship will not last too long maybe over time she might be willing to try if any thing start out with fingers my wife was like that for the first 3 years or so after we met it just took time and then she was willing to try (she tired it with me and was not a fan) but after years went by she was willing to try it again. Just ask her to try it once with her but if she says no then you I would give up for a wile asking her.

 

That's kinda what I have been doing she is a fan of getting her ass fingered

 

Just be patient and work up in size slowly. My cock is around the same size as yours and my petite asian wife said the same thing at first. Work with toys, getting bigger gradually, and open up to the ides of letting her play with you a bit too if she asks. I find that a few glasses of wine also helps the mood because it helps them to relax which is very important during anal!

I also agree with dropping the topic for a few months or longer so she doesn't feel pressured. This is the route I went and now my wife loves anal when she is in the mood for it. I don't think I can make her cum as hard vaginally as I do anally sometimes!

 

May I politely volunteer my tongue, fingers and little peanut size pecker to get her used to male insertions?

 

Show her this video where the girl (quite the trooper) takes double anal and double vaginal by 6 men repeatedly. After watching that she might think your one cock is an easy walk in the park.

http://www.xnxx.com/video9387288/kagney_linn_karter_gangbanged

 

That was amazing!

 

I know.....

 

I love that video!

 

LOL ya it is a good one.