My wife and I are very sexual and we love watching gangbang and mmf videos. She sucks my cock while she watches gangbangs and plays with her pussy. She loves to cum while my cock is in her mouth. We talk dirty and sext while I'm at work and I've told her I've had fantasies of her getting fucked by a couple of other guys and I come home and join in. She has played along in the sexts but she always says it will never happen and that it's just a fantasy. I think otherwise and think she would do it but not sure how to get to that point. Any suggestions?

 

Honestly i think you should respect her wishes with that maybe someday she'll come around and want to do it but let her come to that on her own because if she feels pressured into doing it, It may not be enjoyable for her.

 

Great advice. I don't pressure her and she has come along way. If it happens it happens. If not no big deal but I'll keep trying subtly

 

Find her two men and send them to a hotel while you stay home.

 

She might if you were there.
One each end.

 

I know she might if I was there, but what about him?

 

I've expressed the same to my wifey... she's brought the subject up once... that means she's thinking about it... I'll just wait until shes ready... I want her to do it because she wants to.....not just for me... don't need the backlash of ( well I did it for you).

 

I was meaning if He was there (or is that ze??).
I am sure she would have her pantys off fast if you were there.

 

Thx for the input. She wouldn't do that without me that I'm certain of. I guess I'm trying to figure out the signs that she is willing or not and how to subtly ask if she is considering. How to go about asking without sounding like a pig. Lol

 

Dangerous road

It is a dangerous road you travel my friend. One you can't go back. I was once the same and took the road going on many wild adventures with her. Once she got started there was no stopping either of us. Now, years later, we are separated, yet still friends. I can tell you how to turn her hesitation into wanton desire but it is something you must be sure of cause once you see her taken by another man you will want more as much as she will.

 

Please tell me

 

Yeah.....tell us!!!!

 

My wife and i were always having great sex and we would sometimes fantasize about her having sex with other men. She too, said it was just that and would never happen. She was very introverted, shy and it would take a lot to get her to come of her shell. Sometimes during sex I would tell her how it would be exciting to see her have sex with another man. Not make love, but just hardcore unbridled sex. It would really turn her on but she was always adamant that it would never happen. She couldnt do those kind of things. Then a friend gave me a suggestion and I put the plan into action, taking a chance she would either get really pissed or really horny. My wifes one weakness is and always has been massages. A good massage makes her horny. Most women I have found are the exact same way. So I came tested a few different massages with me being the one giving them to her till I had put together the perfect one in my head. Then i found on craigslist a guy that was willing to go along with my little deception.

 

Heres what I did, what I have done recently for another couple and what you can try. It has worked 100% so far. Get a room. Tell her you are taking her on a romantic getaway to a nice hotel for the weekend. Take her to dinner than back to the room. Tell her you have arranged a in room sensual massage. Make sure you have selected the right guy willing to do the massage exactly as you tell him. Set a hot bath for her, then have him arrive while she is in the bath. When she is done, have her dress in panties, bra and a towel. Have her come out and lie across the bed. Blindfold her. Tell her this is to make it sensuous and the masseuse asked it to be done before he came into the room. Then dim the lights, put on some soft music and have him come in. You sit back and enjoy the show. The massage is to be done in a 5 stage method. Starts just like a regular massage. I can post that if you want. He has to do it exactly like this or it wont get the results you want. With my wife, who had never been with another man or woman, the guy did the massage exactly as I told him to and to my shock and amazement my demure wife ended up having the most hottest sex I have ever seen her have.....with him.

 

Sounds great but my wife doesn't like massages. DAMN IT!!!! Why did you end up getting separated.

 

Over the typical...money. Now, being parents, we get along great. We each have our own lives and sometimes a little more.
What doesnt she like about the massages

 

I can talk from experience as my husband shares me with all his pals - and he has a lot! - and I just know that once your wife gets another bloke's cock up her there will be no going back. I will admit it took a car accident that almost made him impotent to bring the whole thing about for me (see my story re sharing wife with best friend), but as they say, everything happens for a purpose. I love hearing a car pull up outside now, knowing that I am probably going to be fucked with my husband watching and enjoying.

You say she is shy and you don't know how to get her started. I am always naked in the house 24/7 nowadays, and this is an obvious invitation to any red blooded pals to try it on. Persuade her to wear very little, naked is possible but just knickers with bare breasts will do for starters, when your selected pal or pals are visiting. I feel sure she will appreciate their interest in her and things would soon get moving along the sexual lines you want, especially if you cleverly go missing for a short while to allow them the freedom to chat her up!

All men have different kinks , likes and dislikes and so she will have to be versatile and open minded. I used to hate anal, couldn't see the point of it, and it bloody hurt! But now I can tolerate it in a DP so as not to upset his pals by refusing. I know that is not pure anal, but one in her cunt and another in her bum will soon get her going - believe me! And it's a nice BOGOF in these turbulent times!

Be warned though. Don't think you can stick at just one or two pals. Not only will she start wanting more, but as happened with us, your other pals will get envious and start wanting their share of her, and if you don't let them you will soon be losing your friends. If she is pretty you will have no difficulty in getting your pals, workmates, club members if you belong to sports clubs such as snooker, pool, darts etc to fuck her. Try and stick to unattached men though, as married men can have extremely vociferous wives if they find out - and I find single men are more appreciative anyway. Plus, it is not nice doing the dirty on someone from the sisterhood - she wouldn't like it done to her - so don't do it on a fellow female.

I hope you manage to persuade her to give it a go - she will thank you for it eventually. Just a few things to remember though. Let her have the first one or two guys in private though if she is shy of you watching her being fucked, and once she gets used to it suggest you watching. Never EVER show any hint of jealousy at any stage! That will kill it for good! Always be happy about it and show that you are. Talk about it afterwards and get her to open up with full details - she will appreciate your interest in her satisfaction and happiness.

I am always ready to help if you want to chat. Good luck!

 

I love to watch girls playing with two boys....They just seem more naughty that way....and I love naughty girls!!!
I'd love to invite another guy into our bed 'cuz we both get off on the fantasy when I dirty talk whisper in her ear about playing with two cocks........
But it's never happened in reality 'cuz I don't know how I'd bring up the subject if the potential playmate was vanilla and wanted nothing to do with it....
Also...for those who DO engage in MMF....Can the woman ever be with just one male after that or does the eroticism require 2 guys from then on?
I am NOT cuckold but would really 'probably' enjoy a kinky night of sex with my partner and another guy.....