I have a serious question, & am looking for some feedback. I've always understood gay, (or that part of bi) as the "attraction" to the same sex. Not necessarily how you like sex, but who you're attracted to. However, the one other person I've shared this with has disagreed with me on the definitions. I am happily married, am attracted to women & not in men whatsoever. However, I do like anal play. I like having dildos, vibrators, & various other toys in my ass. I often wonder about the feel of a real cock in my ass or mouth, but the thought of another guy, is revolting. My fantasy is actually to be taken by a BEAUTIFUL she male/tranny. One that you cannot tell by looking at the face or body that she has a cock hidden away, that is the only way tho. So, since I like anal play, does that make me bi, or since I have NO attraction to men, am I just kinky, but straight?

 

- bicurious
No bears; twinks only.

 

Every one looks at things differently. There are one's that think blowing or jerking off another guy makes you considered bi. I look at being bi is finding both sexes sexually attractive. Fuck labels. Do and try anything you want. Your life. And it's short.

 

curious to me means u think about it but don't act also even if u try it and find u don't like it

 

Ditch the labels and live by your own definitions. If you're not a attracted to men, then you aren't, but don't limit yourself to obeying a single set of constrictions just because of the vague words others use. You're attracted to women, but you're thinking of a nice cock, there's nothing wrong with that. How do you get a woman and a cock? Transgendered woman. You're not bi, or gay, or confused, or whatever else someone wants to throw at you. You are just you, and fuck the labels.

 

We know as men that there are certain aspects of sex that are taboo (or so we are led to believe) and considered by some as gay, but truth be told we know that our ass is fuckable and cock sucking are there. Anally we can explore on our own thanks to dildos which is neither gay or straight it's just another way of pleasuring our bodies so why not, if however we wish to be in a position of submissiveness to feel "the real thing" or want to know what a cock feels like to suck on we're curious. The rest comes down to how we are judged if not by ourselves then by others and truth is it's the natural inherent nature in all of us to explore sex to greater or lesser extents, homosexual acts unfortunately come with all those stigmas. That women seem to have a much easier time with it is due to a greater percentage of the population believing that lesbian sex seems more natural and appealing, but true homosexuality and bisexuality would also mean you could be romantically involved with either of those sexes naturally without force.

The labels will always be there to the narrow minded assured that life is in black and white, sexually I choose "grey" as a way of saying I don't know what I'll be into, why I'm into it and I don't question how I got there just as long as I have made that decision and in no way harm others or myself by doing it. If it takes a man finding a tranny to get over the stigma of a cock with a woman's body then good, make that work just as long as at the end of the day you are satisfied with your choice don't let anyone tell you it's wrong. Sex practiced responsibly is our right to pleasure that is only confined if we choose it to be and it has some very strange twists that make it more interesting then almost any aspect of our lives, so close the bedroom door and explore.

 

I feel exactly the same, tried guys a few times now, does not work for me, but would definitely try a beautiful shemale.

 

First off, in my opinion, bi"sexual" refers to sexual attraction. With that being said, heterosexual, bisexual, homosexual are all artificial labels some old geezer wrote down in some dusty book nobody reads. I enjoy sucking cock as much as eating pussy and I don't give a hoot what other people want to label me as. I just like to have fun. And sex, lots of sex