Ok I know this is a vary vary common question an may be retarded go some so I apologize ahead of time. My girlfriend is 10 years Older than me so I always make it a point to fuck her brains out everytime. Things have always been a success an she can't get enough for the past few years. She is 35 so sometimes her horney ass can be alot to handle an i cum quick. What are some techniques or ways you guys hold yourself back from coming. I used to drink a few beers sometimes when I really wanted to tear that pussy up but no recently stopped drinking. Any advice?? How do you not cum so quick??what's the trick??

 

Potatoes eat lots of Potatoes.

 

Think about something else -- not what you're doing.

 

Get her to give you a blow job first and cum in her mouth then fuck her after you recover then the edge will of been taken off slightly

 

Satisfaction doesn't have to come from penetrative sex alone. There are a whole universe of other possibilities out there. If something extra is needed, I quite like using a tongue.

 

It's your cock and you are in control. Adjust your breathing and the angle of your cock. It may take a little practice, but it's not that difficult.

 

Hun, being ridden is great and is a wonderful finale to sex, but it shouldn't be your main focus. The truth is, I almost never come from being fucked. That doesn't mean I don't love it, but there is so much more.

Spend time on her. Go down on her until she makes you stop. Massage her and get good with your fingers. If you learn to play her body like a musical instrument, you won't need to have great stamina. By the time you get to actually fucking her, her main thought will be making it good for you.

 

I agree with LaceyChains, make her pleasure your focal point. I have tried many things to over come premature ejaculation because when I was younger I had the same problem. Changing positions helped. Also, with me certain positions were less stimulating. For instance, cowgirl. I found I lasted much longer when my lover was in control, plus this position allowed me to stimulate her clit and nipples. Doggy is my weakness. Doggy stimulates me more than any other position and for the life of me, I cant last more than 10-15 minutes. There are several other techniques, I have also heard that masturbating regularly, especially prior to sex, will make you last longer.

 

There are some positions that give your partner pleasure and may not stimulate you to orgasm. I've also found I can remain hard after cuming and continue on.

Have her on top and you stimulate her clit with a finger/thumb or ride your knuckle. Try a 69 and have her suck on your balls and lick your cock and not jerk or deep throat too much.

I've also taken out a vibrator or provided oral stimulation after I've had an orgasm and had a great time giving my woman multiple orgasms.

Don't try to make your body last longer. If at all, try to get that first shot out of the way and then work on keeping your erection or building up another one. And if not, use what God gave you and take care of your partner. Mouth, hands, knees, or break out a toy or veggie and have some fun.

 

slow down and take your time get her all work up then give it to her

 

Go ahead and cum. That way you can just focus on her pleasure while you wait up for the next go.

 

Something about the way you phrased your post seems to give a pretty big indication as to what the answer should be.

• Perhaps you should concentrate less on "Fucking her brains out " and " Ripping her pussy " and more on giving her pleasure through foreplay and focusing on bringing her to the point where even if you do ...fuck her brains out .. she will be good and ready to have a massive orgasm

 

I neve was a friend of this. Why should I have sex with my woman and think about something else? I want to focus on her and nothing else. Don't you think she feels it if you are concentrating on her or why Dirk wasn't nominated for the All-Star-Game?

 

Yup. All that. For my lady, my orgasm is the ending. The finale. So I have to get her to a point where she is faster than me. Doesn't work every time, but usually. If your lady doesn't particularly care for all that, and just wants to be hammer fucked, try the blowjob rout, or go rub off that first easy one yourself. Then you'll be able to beat the shit out of it for however long you want.

 

I agree with some of the earlier responses, just cum! There are many ways to prolong sex. I can cum 2-3 times with my wife if we are at it long enough.
I also like to eat her out, get blowjobs, or switch positions. Changing it up can also give a quick break and prolong your enjoyment!

 

Another tip is for her. If I'm still wanting some loving after he pops, it isn't that hard to bring him back to life. I don't mind sucking a soft cock and he usually can't take it very long before getting hard.
There are other things talking dirty and whispering what I want to him. Knowing where his hot spots are helps. The point is, if she really wants more, she needs to become more willing to lend you a helping hand.

 

You're a beautiful woman LaceyChains...

 

I've noticed that it just takes a combination of practice, mind over matter and I guess proper breathing to "slow your load" down from wanting to pop too early. Learn to enjoy her pussy/body while also distracting yourself - not concentrating so hard on how horny your dick is and how good it's feeling.
But yea, it can be tough sometimes especially when you're fucking a really hot girl or have big ass tits smacking you in the face the whole time, lol

 

Condoms. You always have it in the back of your mind that you might have gone a little too rough and tore through it. So you don't come. Food for thought.