Is it just me who hates using the terms "bitch," "slut," and "whore?"
I cannot stand the culture of sexual repression and degradation of women. Loaded value judgment terms advance the ideas that women cannot be free to do with their bodies what they will. Choose to be sexually active, get called a slut or whore. Choose to reject the first guy who just wants to get his rocks off, get called a bitch.
This is besides the fact that "bitch," no matter the context, implicates an inferior status, a.k.a. female status, except when talking about a female dog.
I made this post because I see those terms being thrown around a lot and I was just wondering if anyone cares what they imply.

 

I've used the word "bitch" way more often for any reason other than sex rejection.

 

I've never liked being called a bitch. I've never been called whore or slut unless someone was just trying to piss me off because I've never been with a big number of guys, I just prefered to not do that. Not judging anyone who has been. But being called a bitch always really got to me. Not sure why. Especially when it was a guy who I was in a relationship with.

 

It was an example. Woman acting mean/cruel? Woman getting on your nerves? Even prisoners use the term "bitch" to claim ownership of another prisoner.

 

I have trouble expressing anything to female let alone exclaim disappointment, but my mom was on the receiving end of many an adolescent bratty flaming.

 

Only certain friends I call slut or whore.

 

I like it all during sex. Outside of sex I don't mind it as much as I think a lot of people do

 

I only like name calling during a really hot session. I develop a dirty mouth during sexton sometimes and say things like: fuck me harder mother fucker! Is that all you got?!

 

Had a friend call me Daddy. Kinda threw me off at first. Now I call her "Daddy's fav" during rp.

 

Hahaha! I love it. Daddy talk is reserved for rp unless my friend wants to make some heads turn.

 

I like namecalling during sex! sex isn't just physical pleasure, but one of the mind also, that's why we can't live without it, so these thongs help some people reach their max lvl of pleasure... but we are different people with different needs

 

Thank you...thank you. I hate the use of those terms in general and in sex. They are not positive terms but negative, ugly, demeaning terms.

 

As a man, I will add that I do not like the use of these terms either. I think they put down the woman and are used to make them feel less equal and less of a valued person.
It does seem, though, from earlier comments by women, that the words give some kind of erotic pleasure. I just do not understand it and not my thing.
However, if I was with you and you asked for it, I would say them to you. I would want you to be totally fulfilled and happy.

 

It's still not nice. But it's better than being called a cunt.

 

I know quite a few women who have embraced the term bitch they use it to refer to themselves and their friends . Almost using it as a way to empower themselves . "I'm the baddest bitch here don't fuck with me . That kind of thing . All that being said I as a man am very carful not to use the term in a bad way If a girl ask me how she looks I'll say god your a sexy bitch but if a woman I know is acting like a crazy bitch I'm not gonna call her a crazy bitch I'm pretty sure that's how dudes get their wieners cut off

 

An educated mind will always say what they mean and mean what they say, it more depends on the context in which it's used. My wife will say to friends and family "He married a bitch and he loves it" and I do, but from me it's always been an endearing term for a woman who takes no shit off of any man and willing to put people in their place. I grew up attaching myself to girls more then boys all my life from let's say 9 years old and it was hearing them use it that way joking and catty about others that influenced my use of the word. Most of my early childhood influences came from females like aunts, mom, sister, cousins, etc; being inside the circle my take on words like slut and whore may be fitting?

But as it's none of my business unless I was sleeping with them or wanted to and knew their easiness, only then would I say something mostly to close girlfriends that said ten times worse about them. Now what I'll assume of easy women is for my own safety and what I'll call a woman for her pleasure are a whole other story, I believe in having a thick skin for labels that have even been directed toward me hanging around girls and not being a sports fan or wanting to work on cars on the weekend. Having started my sex life in an incestuous seduction I wasn't one to kiss and tell like other guys, I didn't boast or bitch my sexual exploits IE; HOMO?

 

I agree with most on this thread. Reading an account or erotic story to me is an enjoyable pleasure. When the act of love degrades to the teller using vulgar words it just kills the moment. In my mind many a great story have been totally lost to the waste bin because the author showed his oversexed teenage porn junkie woman degrading inner self. Maybe many authors think that attitude will garner a larger readership but not from my viewpoint.

 

Personally for me its only ok when we're having rough sex, other than that we're just calling each other baby or babe.