If ya do..hit me up. Ur a cutie.

 

Well ty too bad idk what u look like lol

 

Do u have an email address or Kik?

 

I think everybody may be missing the main problem here, which I think I can at least partly relate to. As I got older, and erctile dysfunction started becoming a problem, I got very self conscious. I could get it up, but it didn't stay hard very long so it was "slam, bam, thank you mam" rush to cum before it slipped out. Not very satisfying for either of us. Not wanting to be embarassed by my inability to perform as well as I would like, I started to avoid fucking, substituting more masturbation. I could (and still can with some effort, porn, wild fantasies, and any other aid Icould think of) cum with a soft dick. As things progressed, it took more and more to get me excited enough to cum mastubating: Sick porn, pain, needles in my nipples and dick, etc. I did not do video sexting only because it wasn't available yet, and I would have been afraid of my wife catching me. I finally went to the urologist and got Viagra. After it quit working I got penile injections. Eventually those also lost their effect, and I was having to put stretchy cock rings on after injecting meds into my penis, then only staying hard for a couple of minutes at best. I finally got a penile implant and my problems are solved, long satisfying sex as often as either of us is in the mood.

Bottom line, I think he has an ED problem and is self conscious about it.

 

Never thought of ed..as he is just 40.
But u do have a good point.

 

ED can start any time, even much younger than 40. Looking back, it probably started for me about that age. I am now 65. It kind of sneaks up on a guy. If that is his problem, he is probably miserable with a combination of a high unsatisfied sex drive with the inability satisfy it in a way that doesn't make him feel guilty or betray you. If so, he needs to admit his problem to himself and get help. Any doctor can prescribe Viagra, but if his problem is more than that he needs to see a urologist. He may also need your help to admit to himself that he has a prolem and resolve to get help.

 

She knows the real truth!

 

Ok so I had a long talk with him and he said he hasn't been intimate with me cause he's been really stressed out and the reason he can jerk off to other women over the phone is there's no emotion or intimacy with them it's just a phone but with me there's alot more

 

You need to give him a toe curling blow job suck him dry he will be back for more

 

Hi, I've read through your thread, and I think you should really consider your future with him. To chose talking to other women about his desires and to look at these women in this way, instead of giving you the attention you deserve is disrespectful towards you. It's also cheating. He may not be in a physical relationship yet, but fantasy only lasts so long. Your a beautiful lady, and should be respected, loved and satisfied as you need to be. And if he's not willing to do that anymore, then you should find someone who will. You deserve better

 

Ty for that

 

I would if he'd let me

 

To be honest I never though of that but he refuses to go to the dr

 

Put a parental block on his phone pocket porn. He'll get hungry.

 

How would I do that without him knowin it's there

 

How would I do that without him knowin it's there

 

He'll get the message stronger if he knows it's on there.

 

He'll just take it off if he knows it's on there

 

You can't force him to stop doing these things. He'll just do them behind your back. He's going to have to realise that he's going to lose you if he doesn't start giving you what you need. If he still doesn't sort himself out, then it doesn't leave you with much of a choice

 

That's true and UR right