I've shared many times my history of being seduced by my older cousin Jeannie when I was younger and when I think back to some of the stories I've heard for some their first was scary such as it was for my Lil' Donna. Given she remained a virgin until she was 22 and basically ignored sexual talk and innuendos around her to deny any indication of her hidden sexual thoughts or feelings, she cried the first time we made love stating, "she felt dumb not knowing anything of what she was expected to do?" Some beginnings caused a stir in curiosity or lust for the more unique adventures, for some their beginnings were so awful it made them turned off thinking sex was supposed to be painful and/or riddled with guilt and humiliation.

When I think back my cousin was so cautious as to warm me up through dancing, kissing and other facets reminiscent of date sex while letting me read my uncle's Penthouses and Playboys for inspiration or excitation. Sex was introduced to me step by step and became such that I knew early on I would be a one woman man rather then a Dangling Dick Vicious dipping my cock in anything that came along or even actively pursuing sex. How did your first time affect your sexual outcome so far?

 

I could write volumes on this. In short, my first time was nowhere near normal and I attribute my issues now with what he put me through.

 

My first was with a very experienced girl who taught me a lot about a woman's body and the different ways to make her feel good. That she brought her younger sister into the mix a few times fixed my mindset, always be caring and attentive but never totally exclusive. My wife and our mutual GF seem to appreciate that.

 

Unless it's just to hard to share I'd love to hear some excerpts that you endured here or in private, a great part of my choice to help counsel young people isn't the good stories as much as the pitfalls so that I may say "It truly can be worse!" I respect your right to privacy if you choose not to at all, I hope you've found some peace since then though?

 

Well didn't have much to rate my first-time to other than expectations of such, in reality it was when I was 17 and she was 20. Mind it was not a disappointment but somewhat bewildering all the same.

 

Similarly with my cousin while we were fooling around she asked if I would sniff her panties with her in them, which I don't think she knew what she was asking for either? Anyway one time after she threw her panties haphazardly on to the lip of the hamper before a shower and something compelled me to sniff them on my own and I'm sure it was the catalyst to my panty fetish.

 

Hiding behind forum rules Milo!!

thinskin

 

I'm always in plain sight and you know that, I sent a P.M. to you

 

Let me iterate that this was in no way to attempt to harm, coerce or make anyone relive horrible events such as rape, molestation or any sexual activity forced upon them. I meant it to be more about our firsts by choice and to anyone this may have harmed or hurt in anyway I sincerely hope you accept my most humble heart felt apologies.

Sincerely, Milo

 

my 1st time didn't go well, could barely get my bell end in her...
the 2nd girl i went with, she was a bit looser. i class her as popping my cherry, instead of number one

 

Let's just say the end results are....
I don't trust men who are trying to be affectionate.

I try at times to enact my revenge on men in certain sexual scenarios.

It is realllllly herd for me to reach a climactic state and orgasm.

Normal sex does not appeal to me at all to the point where my kinks have grown to an extent that I hide my self from coworkers and have few friends in my new home town and only one knows my preferences, otherwise I hide my sexual dysfunction and the only people who know me intimately (other than the one) live several hours away and know little of my public life.

My personal and my public life are polar opposites and can't exist in the same space.

 

You have "one" and here in lies the answer of calling it a dysfunction? I've been sexually active with only one women, not by marriage by far that very imperfection she has or will ever have in beauty, mind or body is introduced slowly through the progression of time. Both of us with innumerable flaws if we allowed it to let us think less of our bad experiences which we have both experienced, that's why if you have even just "one" it's enough to build a bridge to your inner beauty (flaws and all) Think about it?

 

Well I'm still with her I guess you could call that an effect.

 

Mine goes back to when I was younger. I had an girl who was 5 yrs older then me tie me up & took a very long time working my cock from pain to almost climax. This went on for quite some time but when she let me climax the combination of the pain & climax had me in estacey. She was grooming me to become her master, After several months inflicting pain & pleasure on me I was informed that she was training me to be her master & do to her what she'd been doing to me. This is how I got into BDSM & been in the BDSM lifestyle for 56 yrs> I'm Living the dream!

 

I had similar. Was a mistress from across the street who ironically was my mom's friend. I was a freshman in College still living at home and would often take on odd jobs for our neighbor. I was seduced into a normal sexual encounter with her. After a few times of this she started to introduce me into the BDSM world a bit more. I was her Sub for about two years until I entered the Army. She walked me down MANY interesting paths, water sports, pegging, being fisted. I learned how to be a good little ANAL sub for her. When I came back from the Army we reconnected and that is when she asked me to switch the roles a bit. She had said I had grown up and it was time for me to become her Master. It was fun and indeed has made me into what I am now. Very much open to almost anything and a true switch.

There is other issues that I can share but they happened when I was under age and thus NOT allowed on this forum. Those and the above history have indeed made me who I am sexually now.

 

In this case I've just used Younger, no reference to exact age.

 

By one I mean I screwed up and got fully involved with someone in my new home town. She knows a lot of my history and has been with me to several of my night out trips and was willing to participate in my sexual lifestyle. The bad news is we are not on speaking terms and I fret every day of the information she possesses. My saving grace is she is a popular preachers kid and has as much to lose as I do. I take great lengths to protect my reputation when I eventually succumb to my inner demons.

 

My first true intercourse was kind of OK but not a knock my socks off best experience of my life. I liked the girl, but didn't really love her as such...
I could have stayed with her awhile but she played me....said that she was pregnant because of me....Just to get a reaction....
Talk about a downer then....I was anguished for a couple weeks and then she said she wasn't really pregnant....
Needless to say....I then dropped her like a bad habit!
Experiences after that were a LOT more cautious....And I loved the girl after her even though we only lasted a year....sigh...
But Jenny still holds a special place in my heart...and always will....