Thank you both, I am doing well.

Slipslop, I will be posting more photos when the bruising from exercising fades. My camera picks up any little miscoloration so the bruises will look crappy. No worries though, by the time they fade enough, I should be posting more and looking great.

 

suck off bitch,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

 

hun u got me going nice pics

 

Finally someone with a decent amount of common sense. Some idiots will never change.

 

This is my first post,I may be new here but it's the same old internet forum, a good thread ending up with pointless arguments, it's not a political thread, so hostile negativity is needed here like a hole in the head,, believe me it will ruin your forum.

 

Well, welcome to the forum, the best way to avoid the drama and pointless fights is to pay no attention to them. I seem to be a magnet for drama it's not unusual that my thread has so much of the fighting.

 

Glad to hear your exercise regime is going well FG, like the groovy new avatar too , and that you're planning to get a bike again...the only *real* barrier to eating healthily is time - shopping around for reasonably priced good food, preparing it...

One way tho' to cut the budget on food down a little is if your local supermarket reduces the price of produce that is near or on it's use / sell by date is to buy it (even better, near the shops closing time as they'll cut the price further in my experience) and use it immediately.

Take care of yourself, and I'll look forwards to your new pix...

Peace, Love and Jelly Beans :rose:

 

love mature fat women

 

Hey FG. Have a good weekend!

 

I only get to go shopping twice a month and don't get much a chance to shop around. We pick a store and stick with it because our ride refuses to drive us all over town. You would think if you were paying the son of a bitch an arm and a leg, he would at least let you go to another store if the first one was being ridiculous. Yeah, the barrier for eating healthy is cost for me. I am some how doing it, just making all the foods my family raised me on and changing the recipes so they are even healthier. For example, my family loves chicken and rice... today I made tabouleh and grilled chicken. I only ate half a chicken breast and filled up on the tabouleh itself. Tomorrow isn't going to be as healthy but still better than fast food. I am making steak in a wine sauce and parmasean potatoes.

The time it takes to prepare the meals isn't a problem for me. Since I don't work outside of the house, I can cook for hours if that's what it takes. The only thing it cuts into is my exercise, painting and writing time but I can work around it.

 

I'm writing this after readding some posts in here I can not understand why people think fatties are different

Sweet I like you because you never hide about you

And I'm also fat but I like every one

 

Thank you, I for years hid from everyone, letting their petty meanness keep me from growing as a person. I have changed though, I realized I couldn't hide from the world forever and if the world wasn't going to change, I would have to change... not to suit the world but to make close minded people change their view on bigger people, even if slightly.

I have never hated anyone for their looks, jealous yes but never hate. I have found reasons to like most people I ever meet. I have admires all sorts of people, from thin to fat, young to old, men or women... all colors. I guess I am weird, I do my best to find the beauty in everyone.

 

You're incredibly beautiful. Don't let anyone tell you different!

 

Hi babe, good to see you still working on things. I had a little milestone on the forum today, described in L.

I have never hated anyone for their looks, jealous yes but never hate. I have found reasons to like most people I ever meet. I have admires all sorts of people, from thin to fat, young to old, men or women... all colors. I guess I am weird, I do my best to find the beauty in everyone.

The above describes me too, dear one.

 

You can choose healthier food on a lower income. If you go to the produce section in a supermarket, you can get vegetables and stuff at an affordable price. The main cost really is time, in spending time preparing the food, and learning recipes and things.

The lower calories which over time help to drop weight will also lower the metabolism. Carrying around fat burns extra calories, meaning people tend to eat more. Carrying around less means that you don't have to eat as much to survive, meaning you can spend less money on food.

Lower metabolism also means less free radical buildup over time, and the higher antioxants in vegetables in things can also help out in reducing the stressload from the radicals. This can pay off in lower medical bills, less stress, etc.

Medical conditions can decrease one's energy, make it harder to cope with stress, give more pain in the body, increased appetite, difficulty with impulse control, that kind of stuff. I would not see it as an absolute impediment, but rather, something that increases difficulty and requires a stronger personality to fully deal with.

I like to think about the future, when we finally find methods of curing the illnesses and problems that impede us, just think of the rich persons that will be uncovered, who became stronger in the process of dealing with them? It'd be like a blind person who gets their sight back or something.

I would recommend a robust routine of squats and lat pulldowns.

 

The problem with fresh produce is it needs to be properly stored, as that I am having to share the refridgerator with my in-laws, I can't store as much as I should. As I said before, I have to shop for 2 weeks at a time, that's quite a bit of food to have to find places for. The other problem is I have the choice of 2 stores to shop from, one has okay prices on produce but ridiculous prices on the meat (chicken, turkey, and fish is what I buy, I rarely buy beef or pork). The other is ridiculous in the produce but good prices on meat. My husband is a meat eater, he prefers his meals have meat in them so cutting meat out of our diet is near impossible. I buy as much fresh food as I can afford to store, we rarely eat fried food as that it makes me sick to my stomach and now never eat fast food.

As for the exercise, I go for walks daily now and IF my body is holding up, I will do other exercised but I have a bum knee from an injury as a child. While I do walk every day, I can barely stand with any weight on that leg until I can bear the pain. I know losing weight will ease up the pain, thus why I push myself to do that walk. My doctor keeps telling me not to push myself so hard, if I am hurting, then rest. If I stopped everytime it hurt, I wouldn't be getting healthier. I have set my mind, I don't care if I die of an asthma attack (triggered by pain and bad city air) or end up crippled and unable to walk, I am going to keep going until my body gives out. I have fallen more times than I can count due to my knee giving out, I have collapsed on the ground, not able to get air into my bruised lungs.... I am not going to give up... I am not going to stop until I hit my goal weight of 220 pounds. The lowest I am going is 180, my doctor says I shouldn't go that low even but we will see.

One day, science will find why it's so hard for some to lose weight, they will will find a way to help individuals like me. After all, for 20 years, I have been trying to get thinner... granted, I have only needed to actually lose weight the last 16 years.

 

Hi FG. I like the way you look, you have a pretty face. :rose: Hope you can keep up the exercise regimen you've been doing.

 

does her lack of health/lack of physical attractiveness not suggest to anyone that maybe this is a little fucked up??

has it not occured to you that maybe YOU people are stupid/ have rediculous perceptions of beauty for being attracted to such extremely obese and revolting looking people that are essentially walking time bombs??

stop encouraging eachother to remain a picture of ill health and repulsiveness, then trying to convince yourselves that the whole world is on your side and that you are the normal/ intelligient ones. in reality you know that you retreat to what is pretty much some sad little support group for intensely deluded fat people every day just to reassure yoursleves that you don't need to change what you look like because there are weirdos out there who fap to giant roles of fungus fertiliser...

for the sake of your own health, everyone, you need to get out of here!!!!!!!

congrats on trying to lose some weight

 

Why are you on this thread, you should just bug out. You aren't going to make any friends on the forum with that attitude, pencil dick.

 

why is everyone on this forum so retarded and immature???

you're so brave calling me names over the internet. forum ballz is what you have. but in real life you are a cowardly fatty with no self esteem.