iv never been with a guy, but i do enjoy wearing panties i have now for a few years.

and why is it so hard to find an opened mind woman that can see past that and get to know me for how i am?

 

Crossdressing isn't gay, it is just an aspect of you. There are many women who may have problems with it but on the same token, there are many who would think it's exciting.

 

your only as gay as you wanna be

if you say your not gay what does it matter if anyone else thinks you are

 

I have been wearing panties for quite a while. Then I learned that the womens and mens bikini cut briefs were identical, but then I discovered that I was really female except in body.. But I dont' think wearing panties made me female, or will make you gay. They are just actually better than the men's stuff. And gee if you like the different looks and colors and patterns, to hell with what anyone else thinks, you aren't hurting anyone, and a woman turned off by it in my book isn't much of a woman, ok not a very broad minded woman, anyway.

 

That would make you a Transvestite. Which is not the same thing as gay, just makes you a tranny.

-S-

 

Which is a good start to gaydom, or gayhood or gayness

 

The only thing that makes you gay, is being gay

 

did anyone else get "The Party Man" from Jackass in their head when they read this? you know, the guy that dances around in the thong...

 

One does not equal the other.

-S-

 

Well, if you aren't gay, and every girl thinks you are, than you're fucked, lol.

 

Hi there. Welcome to the forum. No, wearing women's panties does not make you gay. It's unfortunate that some women can't accept the fact that you enjoy wearing them. It's just clothing. Maybe you should let them get to know you better before you show them what you have on under your trousers?

 

Exactly.

 

Surely the problem is more that he's not fucked.

 

Relax!

It´s not gay, it´s trassvestite or whatever it´s called. Nothing bad at all!

 

you're definetly gay...

 

Gay

It would only make you gay if you were sucking some guys dick while your wearing them...

 

No, it doesn't make you any gayer to wear panties than it makes me gay for liking to wear boxers. As far as a woman to be open minded, you may need to keep looking. Lots of women live in a little box that they want their man to fit into as well. Not many like that around these parts mind you, but, some women can be close minded.

 

Maybe you should go to Personals and check out the "open mined woman"

For the naive and young ones: Transvestite and Crossdressing refers to men who enjoy wearing women's clothes but always think of themselves as men, straight or gay.

Note: All women are crossdressers, they wear pants all the time.

 

..and when somebody speaks with that much authority they clearly are an expert on the subject.

 

Ok, so I've had this discussion on other forums many times, but here goes:

I do NOT understand this obsessive need to categorize and label every aspect of our sexual nature. Honestly, who cares? There are so many dimensions to our sexual preferences, fetishes, interests, etc, that the notion that straightjacket psychological categories like "straight," and "gay" seem to me to be simplistic in the extreme. From a purely clinical standpoint, it may be useful--in a very limited way--to employ such concepts, but to think that they accurately reflect the vast spectrum of sexual diversity that is the human animal is, to my mind, absurd.

I've had conversations with male friends who claim that if a man sucks dick just one time in his life, he's "gay." These same male friends have no problem with female porn stars who engage in numerous lesbian scenes simply doing it for the money. Excuse me, double standard much? Or, in college, if two women get together, they're "experimenting." If two men do the same thing, they're "gay." My point is that these labels and distinctions are often arbitrary and ridiculous. If you enjoy wearing women's panties and find it pleasurable then go for it; what's the big deal? I don't think that it makes you gay any more than wearing boxers or briefs makes you straight.