I guess I really do not read that much into it. I come here to express my opinion and feelings towards sex and sexual relationships and feelings and welcome all responses. I do not really care who is a woman or not since this is more of a fantasy land for myself personally.

 

It doesn't ruin my fantasy but I notice that most of the women on here sound fake.

 

Oh no they do not! You're not going to be very popular with that attitude.

 

Umm... and you're normally so bright. Two bold statements there. Anyway, personally I don't pretend to know anyone at all and I've been asked to lighten up. So, I float away in peace.

 

Your right Mr. White they are too preoccupied with racking up numbers which the only one I've ever worried about is who I was with at the time. Except for mistresses who knew the score and sex was the only worry for me with them!

 

I know it's hard to imagine it, but I was influenced by women, raised by them and held a 90% rate of friends all girls growing up. I can still at 47 count my total of guys who were real friends on less then two hands, I was surrounded in an inner circle of women and girls so when I say I understand them I do. This isn't to say I agree with them or relate to them in all cases, but they made me a man worth marrying with true respect for the majority of them.

 

Honestly, I just thought of this, and if I am wrong, this is just my opinion, but who cares. For me being on this website is for two things. One to play with people who I will never meet and indulge in fantasies together which for me it is irrelevant if they are lying or not. The second is to either dispense or receive feedback on a situation or idea I have, which some of the time is unisex. And even if it is not, if they have something good to say, who cares if they are a different gender than they say they are.

 

That's not hard for me to imagine at all. I wasn't questioning anything that you know about women, I have no reason to doubt anything you have ever said about yourself, I'm not a sceptical person. I simply think you made bold assumptions about other men. I'm not the only one here that for one reason or another, has overlooked the fact that some male members masquerade as women. I generally make a concerted effort not to be too overt about my lifestyle because not everyone could understand and most would certainly disbelieve, but I'm surrounded by women and many seek council from me (heaven help them eh).

In my defense, though many of my friends have breast implants, I know just enough to be sure they're definitely not men.

 

You know, I've always liked the name 'Sukki'...

 

95% sounds high to me, It cant be anymore than 90% men on this site.

 

You mean there are girls on this site??

Thinskin

 

There is the ratio of women to men here and there is the ratio of women interested in any particular man.

Let's say the actual ratio of straight/bi men to straight/bi women here is actually 10:1. Since women tend to be more selective (both the real world and online) than men, that 10% of female members are actually interested in talking to a relatively small proportion of the male members (if you pardon the expression).

If a man expresses himself well and uses good grammar and imagination he might get the attention of 90% of female members leaving the remaining men to complain there are even less women around than is actually the case.

 

I am sorry but that is SICK and this person should be put in jail. Maybe this is why I don't visit sites like this much anymore. Too much of this stuff!!!!

 

It is sick, but this kind of elaborate hoax is very rare. I have many people online who have become longtime friends. When you meet someone new, it's not difficult to tell who is real and who is pretending. It's the same as the face to face world. Everyone has met a former Navy Seal, or a woman who was a Rockette, and after talking a while, you realize they are full of shit.

In my experience, the true online frauds are about half men and half women. I've never found a woman who pretended to be a man, but women can construct elaborate fictitious identities, and have relationships with several men at the same time.

 

I can't do all this alone! I see ulterior motives every day of my life, yet here, aside from petty attention seeking, I don't get it. If I'm the only person that would kind of like a little understanding, so be it. I haven't lost any sleep so far on this but...

So, I call upon all male members that have chosen to represent themselves as women. Without any wish to 'out' anyone, is it possible to enlighten weird folk like me?

 

It is okay if you think it is ok. Most of us here just want to experience an orgasm and who or what does not matter what makes it happen.

 

errrrrrm...... I dont know how to break this to you my friend but........

 

I'm not convinced by the 95% figure. There are a lot of members in an apparently very popular site, so assuming all the guys aren't closet Bi, it presupposes that there are sufficient genuine woman on the site too.

That said there are a disproportionate number of guys on internet forums who pretend to be woman for some reason, so I can well believe that the numbers arent equally weighted

 

Sorry you guys ... tales, not tells. I said I'm sorry, ok?!

 

I'll ask. Why do the actual women have little interest?