Silent and otherwise, that pretty intimate place we're in during sex can quite easily loose some lust appeal if you can hear your own moans (I mean groans) and nothing else, as easily as the moment can be ruined by a bad case of verbal diarrhea (something I've never suffered with), never mind the facial contortions.

One ex of mine would only ever say "oh my goh, so gooh, oh my goh", needless to say that became very irritating although she had no reason to lie of course. It's a very delicate issue to approach with any partner and in this particular situation there were other problems anyway, of my making for sure.
I also remember some chatty female friends from old laughing about someone I knew, because apparently he cried out "sweet Jesus" repeatedly as he came.
Maybe silence is golden after all.

 

I've just posted but I have to say that the squelching sound from a wet pussy can be incredibly arousing and is something that I listen for when asked what is best for uploading (just a pay per view thing a friend does).

 

I have a hard time even trying to be silent. In situations when i need to be during sex. Making sex sounds and love faces is just natural to me.

 

that can be your opinion,there is no right or wrong but I like hearing that moaning telling me I am doing it very good

 

Wow, are you confusing being a Dom with being a killjoy?

 

My ex used to look at me weird when I watched while going down on her trying to figure if she liked it.

 

My wife is not silent at all. She gets very vocal in bed, which is kind of a turn off. Hearing her grunting, moaning and yelling, Jack hurry the fuck up and cum already. If she would only shut the fuck up I would. Sometimes silence is golden.

 

No I am not. Thank you for making sure. I said nothing about dominance within that though so I don't get where you got that? Maybe it was you assuming... Tough thing assumptions.. Almost always wrong..

 

Talk dirty to her and encourage her to talk dirty to you. I find that usually helps to liven up a woman in bed. At first she will probably be really shy and embarrassed but become a lot more comfortable with it after some time. I got a woman to start talking dirty to me and she went from a pretty boring lay, too a wild ride. She was pretty quiet too, but the talking made her pleasure sounds a lot louder.

 

HAHA..that was great made me giggle

 

My wife has never been silent in bed or any where eles she never shuts up even talks in her sleep & & Mumble's while sucking cock & has muffled conversations while eating pussy!!! Silence is a only a found memory for me you lucky bastard!!!!

 

Lucky you

 

Yes it is babe. A total two way street.

 

Is there any heavy breathing or anything like that?

 

Talk to her, I once had a mistress who wouldn't make noise but I could tell she was having a good time. Her problem was one of embarrassment when an old lover use to point out she was too loud she'd eventually learned how to go completely quiet, he was a controlling asshole!

 

With as much respect as I can muster; This random 'off the wall' idea that is part of your repertoire is not automatically the answer to every woe and foe in a relationship. How pathetic does a man need to be to reach the opinion you had of him in the first place?