We all do or have done things that our lovers absolutely love that we either make us uncomfortable or bring us no sexual pleasure at all, but we do them out of commitment or fear that it might ruin our good thing. So whether it's a new lover or you were to turn back time with your present lover their pleasure aside that you would say "I just don't like ..........? (Anything fantasies, fetishes, positions, acts of pleasure, etc)

 

For me it's toe sucking! It really gets Lil' Donna smoking horny, but I have to be in a certain mindset to enjoy pleasing her with it as it does absolutely nothing for me.

 

Slapping. My wife when really into it for a while would want to to slap her and always harder. I could never bring myself to do it hard at all but would give her a light slap. I hate doing it but I do.

 

My husband and I have been together for several years and I don't currently have regrets, but we are pretty much on the same page when it comes to sex.

 

Ha. Nice one. Just goes to show you, rough sex isn't necesarily a man's thing.
I quoted it, cause it's vice versa for me.
When my girl gets realy into it, in certain positions, she would slap me a little, or pull my hair. Nothing major. I assume she does it thinking I'll like it, because I sometimes do. One of the best blow jobs I ever had was performed by her... with a lot of hair pulling and pretty strong slapping. But it's so hard to time well for me, and to get me into the right mood, I don't think I'd be able to explain it that well (other than saying slap me during) to her, and I don't like breaking the moment during... It's not a big deal and very rare, so I haven't said anything after either.

But I could go without poorly times slaps

 

Anything oral, rimming etc. does absolutely nothing for me. But I will do it if it gives me power or control over them. The control part is the only aspect that turns me on.

Except biting. I love to bite.

 

I don't know if I'm very honest or just very selfish, but as far as I'm concerned there are just so many possibilities, why pretend to enjoy something unless it clicks for you both?
I'm not a big fan of receiving oral or anal. If a partner really loves it (an ex adored giving me oral) then I don't actively dislike it enough to refuse, but my lovers are under no illusion that I'd rather be doing other stuff.
My last lover got off on foot jobs when I was wearing silk stockings. Did absolutely nothing for me and I'd never pretend that it did. On the other hand he wasn't keen on bondage but would tie me up knowing it would make me so aroused I'd shake.
We were both very honest, so 99% of the time we'd do stuff we both loved, rather than just one.

If there's something I truly dislike then I'm never going to pretend I like it. As an example I loathe being on top. I'm too self-conscious and I focus more on the blubber flying than on either my pleasure or my partner's. I'm not going to orgasm, it's going to be absolutely zero fun, so sorry but it's not going to happen. If that's a deal-breaker then so be it, buh-bye.

As I say, honest or selfish, po-tay-to po-tah-to.

 

I can't think of anything. I'm so easy.

 

for me it would be accepting that my partner wont give me all openings. 2/3 of them are okay with prefers 1. would love to shove my cock in her moth and down her throat but don't because it grosses her out and turns her off... i usually fuck her pussy and ten her ass (i guess as a way of dominating her some).

 

I wish I'd told a LOT more people I didn't like receiving oral sex rather than putting up with it all those years.

Some of those people were probably only doing it because they thought I liked it. We could both have saved a lot of time and trouble!

 

I was about to say I must be very selfish but caught 'curiousscousers' "very honest so I'm going with that. I would hate to think someone would appease me sexually doing something they'd much rather not. There's one thing I tried a couple of times too many, strangulation, on request of course, but now I know for sure that's definitely not my bag.

This one amuses me; It so depends on the toes..

 

Hang out with her family on holidays.

 

I love making people feel good. But I've been with a couple guys who weren't into roughness but they did it for me.
One time I made a boy cry because it was too much. . ):

 

Allow anyone to rim me. It's not terrible but 90% of the time it does nothing for me.

 

Would never try strangulation when I already feel that my size and strength with women needs to be controlled.

 

I am highly socially awkward in person, I get nervous around people(blame it on the Aspergers), and the guy I am with is a social butterfly. At home or in sexual situations I am calm but in a crowd I freak out. He still thinks that it has to do with a trauma from my past.

 

I sucked a girl's toes once....didn't like doing it and thankfully she didn't either. Other than that....I'd say the missionary position. It's not that I hate it...but it just kinda bores me. But when the wife and I used to have sex, that was her preferred choice

 

Still is for my wife I'd sign a petition to ban it if I could, except for the face to face when kissing is still the norm.

 

I can definitely get into some biting!

 

I hate BAD blow jobs. Suck my cock with passion or not at all... and no ATM