Im in a relationship, the sex is great, and plenty of it. But we don't live together so there are sometimes a few days when we don't see each other. Masturbation isn't the same, I have a hard time staying hard and I'm not nearly as turned on. Watching porn helps a little but in reality I want her.

Anyone else go through this?

 

My wife works twelve hour shifts on a weird schedule ( two on two off three on three off) so on the long weekends she basically comes home and sleeps, which means i jerk it alot. No it isnt the same.

 

A few days? Jesus, tough it out!

 

be glad...too much porn works the other way...you do not want to go there

 

Masturbating isn't the same, you're right. I'm in a relationship and we live together, she's my wife. We see each other every fucking day, 24/7 because the bitch doesn't work. I'm not nearly as turned on anymore, watching porn would help, but in reality I want her to get the fuck out of the house, or at least stop pounding on the bathroom door asking me if I fell in, or coming into the bathroom to take a shit when I'm trying to rub one out in the shower, my prick actually goes limp. Masturbation isn't the same anymore.

 

Shit Jack! That brought a tear to my eye.......then I laughed and laughed!

 

Request an instructional video from your partner. Never done it myself, but a friend of mine's wife commutes between here and Japan, and I know she sends him little sexy videos for him to jerk off too. It really just keeps the sexual tension alive until you can see each other again, and gives you something so you don't get too frustrated.

 

What a fantastic idea!

 

Guys who are often not at home can always cast a clone replica of their dicks to give to their wives. Am afraid it is not possible to make a clone vagina, but do try this.

 

You diagnosed the problem: You don't live together.
Can you change that?

 

Thanks for the advice!

 

Not at the moment unfortunately.

 

I feel for you mate, and a lot of the suggestions have been really good, especially asking for her help while she's gone. I can't speak for women, but if my girlfriend or wife told me "I really want to masturbate when you're gone, but nothing gets me as turned on as you do," it'd be one of the biggest confidence boosters ever, and I'm sure she'd be happy to make a video or two, or maybe a few pictures. If you're both free while you're away from each other, maybe try skyping each other or sexting over facetime, so you can both enjoy each other's "company" for those lonely nights. I bet if you just talk to her about it, you'd be really surprised at her reaction, and I bet it'd be even more positive than you think

 

If the complaint/observation here is that your solo orgasms are less enjoyable because you're now getting it real...
Option 1. Go back to the single life.
Option 2. Treat your solo's as the completely different experiences that they are. Use them to explore fantasies and discover things about yourself. Include your partner too. Its allowed.

 

Haaaa... noway! She comes in and stinks it up in a foggy bathroom... thats fucked up. You have one bathroom? She does it on purpose, they do that ya know... same as not shaving the beave for a few days...

 

I like it when my wife stinks it up. But then again I'm a real sick perv.