I have read studies where men wearing rings are hit on more than those not. A married man is seen as stable, desireable, and for some women the fact that he is already in a commited relationship is good, because he isn't expecting another. Plus some women are just plain bitches to each other.

 

Piggit, yes I wear my wedding band.....I wonder my eyes to the beauty of all women!!!! As I feel and believe the woman/female is the best bit of "ART" to be

 

I have also heard this and it surprises me while it doesn't surprise me. I immediately look to the hand of any guy I find attractive. Tho why I bother is beyond me.

 

This is very interesting. Given the current divorce rate in this country, though, the idea that a married man is somehow "stable" seems a bit far-fetched, to say the least. From a psychological perspective, though, I can understand the attraction.

 

I can imagine a married woman finding a married man the more attractive option for cheating, but as a single woman it would be the death of me.

 

Not that I unfaithful, but from the married male perspective, a married woman is safer than a single woman.

 

Oh of course she is!!! Equal stakes. But emotionally, it is just as risky.

 

As a single guy, I'll have to admit it: as a fantasy, the idea of an affair with a married woman intrigues me. I'm not sure why, unless it's the illicit nature of the whole thing. That and the fact that MILFs are hot!

 

You're so naughty. Not all MILFs are married tho, so that's good news for ya.

 

I'm not quite married... let's just say that for the g/f and I, marraige is a formality!

When the wedding ring comes along, it'll be on a chain round my neck. She had a ring from ages ago that she gave me which I wore round my neck, but in the middle of our two week break-up, it got lost. I was heartbroken, oddly enough. I still miss it, almost a year on.

Oh, look, 1000 posts.

 

Orion you are song writing here I think. I just wanted to make sure you knew that.

And most people don't have 1,000 significant things to say.

 

Why thank ya my friend! I know you're just being nice.

How's life?

 

Sorry I didn't get here sooner. But the lost ring symbolism was touching, and I liked your thoughts on committments.

Life is good as we say out here and I'm still having a ball.

And I probably should have mentioned a long time ago on this thread. I'd come here anyway. But since I'm away from home and all that I know and love, this forum has been a God Send to me.

I've never had more spare time on my hands, been more alone, or further from home than I have been for the past 10 months. You'd think I'd notice that but I don't. Instead I just have a lot of fun and excitement.

NOw when I do get home or get with my family, I still check in on the forum but like most of you, I've got better things to do in the real world.
At least sometimes.

 

A ...... never mind the post above. Wrong thread.

 

Yep I wear one - only take it off to play cricket.

The wife hasn't taken hers off since the day we married 17 years ago.

 

that is so true iam pissed i threw mine out cause i turned down alot of pussy when i was married dam that pissies me off cant belive i threw it

 

You can probably get another for $10 if you think it's worth it. Of course, then you might have to make up a wife. And some kids. And then risk falling in love with someone and being stuck in a lie.

 

Is anyone aware that there are 3 rings involved in being married????

1st off you have the engagement ring

secondly you have the actual wedding ring

Finally after the wedding you have the suffer ring HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

But really I wear mine 24/7, my hand feels weird if I don't have it on.

 

I have been married two 2 times,,,

And I always wore my ring,and believe it or not,I was totally faithful to them both,,the only reason we split ,was due to my drinking bouts,,which have been over with for 9 years. and I admit ,when drinking I was a complete asshole,,lmao

 

Congrats on 9 years of sobriety!!