I met this girl about a month ago at a party we talked for a while and then her and her friend endend up leaving the party with me and my friend.(not to mention this girl was extremly fine!!!). we walked them home basicly and i havent seen her since. I have been keeping in touch with her somewhat through facebook and i have texted her a couple times. I want to hang out with her again but am somewhat unsure how to go about it. (I just got out of a relationship that i was in sence i was in the 8th grade so am new to the dating sene.) I dont realy even know her at all and was wondering if should just ask her on a date or try to meet up with her at a party, call and talk to her first or what? Just looking for some advice
Thank You!!!

 

text and ask her out on a proper date

 

Since you already have communication going through facebook, that is the perfect opportunity to ask her out.
If you know of a party or event coming up that is a safe endeavor that you can suggest. Otherwise just come out and ask to go out with her somewhere. You are talking right now there must be some common interest that you can exploit.

 

someplace where you can talk. bars and clubs are bad, cause you're shouting, so maybe dinner. ask her what she likes to eat, and suggest a restaurant that fits her taste. the second date is always easier, then you can go to a comedy club, or bar, movie, etc. but for the first, pick a place where you can talk.

 

Don't write her a letter anyway

 

Text her and ask her out. Hahahah!

Another great example of modern romance

 

i didnt mention that i have initiated all conversation but she seems to be enthusiastic with her responces. And its been about a month sence we met, Did i miss the window? i think she liked me tho she told me i was qute and nice . i guess im just being a pussy but thats not to foward to just ask her out??

 

i am in a similar situation, the last time i went out w/o a girl was 8th grade, and ive been doin other things science. what is the best way to ask a girl out, just flat out ask " u wana go out w/ me or, is there some other, better way

 

i forgot to add, i have a chance of going out with another girl that goes to a school about 20 min from mine. anyone have any advice on that?

 

i didnt mention that i have initiated all conversation but she seems to be enthusiastic with her responces. And its been about a month sence we met, Did i miss the window? i think she liked me tho she told me i was qute and nice . i guess im just being a pussy but thats not to foward to just ask her out??

 

Ask her out. If you don't I guarantee you'll miss the boat.

 

This is excellent advice! I suggest you follow it.

As for how, I suggest you simply say what's in your heart. While it can be sweet to be asked out by someone tripping over words, the truth is confidence is sexy. A simple "may I take you to dinner?" could be all that's needed. Of course, that's probably not normal language for you so whatever comes naturally.

 

texting/AIM is always good. you have time to think and less likely say someting stupid. technology is so awsome

 

Don't Do It Over The Net!

 

i texted her today, she seems like shes interested. should i be worried ab out being like over attentive you know the old saying "girls want what they cant have" or is that just a load of shit

 

You might want to rein in your excitement a bit, but not so she thinks you're uninterested. Don't try to figure out what she wants ... be yourself, because the minute you think you've figured it all out, you'll find out you're wrong.

Game playing doesn't pay off in the long run.

Have fun!

 

whats romance??!! thats not what i was looking for on this site.....

 

Write her a poem that asks her out on a date.