From Catholic background and looking for very discreet person, open minded,
someone who is retired and at home (always aroused and almost always alone and could possibly be the host to a few nights and days each week if as aroused as I usually am)
maybe a secretly curious and insatiable couple thats also decided that lifes getting too short to not at least spend some time experimenting and investigating things that had been hidden from my male up bringing. For instance , my late wife, who had a very indepth sexual upbringing spent some time convincing me that not only would her tightness feel good to me, but that SHE would enjoy Anal sex immensely, (and extremely frequently from that point) but I had an even more difficult time accepting she wanted me to experience it as well. I had a great deal of difficulty with the concept and I required some "social" lubrication as well as the traditional and at exactly the right moment when she introduced other ways of achieving her point of view, again, my world and my view of it changed dramatically. She was much more worldly as a California kinda Gal than I was as a privately educated and somewhat sheltered country boy but with her she showed me things that I never would have gotten sight of and some of the pleasures that I never would have even given a second thought about and would have dismissed on a faith or principal type of position ended up teaching me that with my trust in her, I have lived a much fuller life! And I found out that some of the most outlandish porn can get its affects to the back of your mind in ways that I am still finding can cause very unexpected arousal and thoughts. The things that I have experienced that I learned about concerning even my very own body are nothing that would make me unattracted to a Lady but I think that I definitely have to follow through on the experiences that I have not had and the world and there are some things that I would like to be able to experience again, some I found were absolutely mind numbingly, life alteringly astounding that are only rarely within my fixed budget. I am fully self sustainable, a property owner and a taxpayer but I do still have responsibilities and I dont plan any near future flights to Maui or a new Corvette but there are definitely times when you have to spend a little bit of time of life in the fast lane or you just forget that you are still alive! And there are also some of those experiences that, with the level of comfort and trust was such that, on for instance was to allow another Woman in our bed and I was not on board with that in the beginning and even though it is clear that it was designed to Encourage me, and not be a manipulation, a sensible and sound timetable of extreme pleasure directed towards me did worse than just make me feel guilty about saying no turned into things like, shes happy, I'm happy, as long as this is the status quo, as long as this is making both of us happy, anything at all , no request to small, we even got ourselves our own little secluded place on the lake so the 3 of us could play and experiment but I wasn't comfortable being touched by someone other than my Lady, but that was exactly what she had in mind and it was actually working and the subject of a 4th came up, my foot went down and despite her best efforts to broaden my horizon, I was afraid. But I was outwardly stunned when she decided to clarify that it was not supposed to be for her benefit , she said,
Well, there are some things that I got and other things that are yours and even though theres no owner guide, we know our own gear.... I still have not crossed that threshold yet. But there it was again... In essence I was being somewhat obstinate and really put much beyond the thought of, that might be interesting...