This is for general discussion. Not flaming, no judging, rather intellectual, rational thought.

The stage: the babysitter comes over to watch the kids, she's 14, 15 tops. Shes carrying a small child maybe a couple of months old. She's cute as a button with developed tits and a tight ass. You assume that the child is a sibling but learn that he's her son.

You give instructions and head off to poker night. When you return home she's laying on the couch, your kids are in bed and her baby is snoozing in his carrier. Your alone and she starts flirting.

The discussion: Does the knowledge of her being a mom, and the initiator of the flirting create a disregard for her age?

FM

 

For me simply put no. A child does not change a girls age.

 

No it does not.

The facts are she is 14 or 15 and therefore legally speaking you could end up in a whole heap of shit if you decide to pursue things.

Disregarding what the law has to say it would be down to your own moral compass and state of hornyness I guess. At 15 and if she had already had a child of her own there could be little doubt over sexual maturity or her sexual status but even if she flirted it would seem like taking advantage.

Personally I wouldn't want to go there

 

well knowing some of this stuff. I'd state the fact that she is still an adolescent. She's not 16 yet or 18. She is still not of legal age. I would love to say go for it but law states that that is considered statutory rape.. Just because she has a child doesn't mean she is now game. She's not.. Sorry man good luck in the near future! but don't go for her. Flirt yes but only innocent flirting! don't go full on flirt, you know?

 

I hear what your all saying. And for the record the staging is 100% hypothetical. In today's age with so many teeny bopper mommies and girls that want to get pregnant at 12-13 y/o I figured I'd put a spin on it and see how older men / women with children see these young moms. I figured some would see them as stupid children, others in a sexual nature.

I'm not old per se at 29, and find myself in situations where younger teens are tryin to get in, teen girls coming on to grown men in order to score booze or weed. But the concept still applies would a 14-15 year olds status change in your mind simply because they've had a child?

For me it doesn't change, I won't say that The teen flirting or occasional young crush doesn't boost the ego. But the hands off rule applies.

FM

 

This is a very good question.

The answer is 'No' + 'Your ass will land in jail'; but it is a good question.

 

Answering a slightly different question . .

Sometimes changing the question a bit can give a new perspective of it. Think of this scenario . . .

There is an adult woman, more than 21 years of age, who is in a vegetative state. To have sex with her is a form of rape. But let's say that someone else does rape her, she gets pregnant and she successfully gives birth. Does this mean it would be all right for you to then have sex with her since she gave birth? In your mind can you see her as NOT being in a vegetative state?

Your question pertains to a girl who is underage. No matter what happened to her in the past, as of today she is still underage.

 

If she's underage there's no question: Leave her be.

 

Well......she is underage.... So back off.... U dont wanna end up in jail

 

The pure fact of child does not make that hole a Go zone!

 

You bunch of pussies. I would try to talk the teen mom into helping me rape the vegetable woman and we could turn it into a threesome. What the hell, it's not like you get a chance to do that every day.

But, seriously, good question. I know a teen mom and she has flirted with me a time or two. She is still with the baby's dad who is only 17, she's 16. I have thought about time and time again. I have never been totally alone with the girl yet. I would like to say I wouldn't do it but, I'm not sure. She is a very cute girl and I have had several fantasies about her. I know her parents wouldn't give a shit because she lives with her boyfriend and his dad.
That would be tough call if the day ever really comes.
I would rape the vegetable lady though.

 

Disregarding the legal implications, and the morality of fucking a 15 year old (which we've all beaten to death on other threads) I'd say most teen moms have enough fucked up drama in their lives already without worrying about all the shit that would result from every married old guy they babysit for thinking it would be ok to try to put their cocks in them. She's obviously not "sexually mature" psychologically, and she's already shown some pretty poor decision making skills when it comes to getting dicked. Probably best for all parties to walk away and forget it.

 

Definately the fact she 14 - 15 years old

 

The first thoughts here may be the law or God mine says,"An emotionally fragile teen with nothing to lose?" At best she blackmails you for a year to feed and clothe her kid or she feels special and falls in love with you? Now your open to the law, your wife and anyone she may benefit from telling the story to destroy you unless, you show love back( While twisting the knife further!)

 

At a distance!

To answer your question, let me put it this way, please...

If this teenager has given birth, no matter how experienced with kids she may be, she would NEVER have the chance to babysit MY children!!!

If you know her, and/or her family, and they have financial problems, and you, on the other hand, can afford it, give her some kind of allowance, with no strings attached!

If that "little" woman was stupid/perverted enough to get pregnant, she is (or should be!) far away from your home!

Put a distance between her and your beloved ones!

 

no

remember..15 WILL get you 20

 

These responses are great, their all over the radar and I like that for once a discussion hasn't spiraled into a flame fest.

Ok, let's twist it up a bit. Remove all flirting and sexual connotation. This child is now your niece or little sister. Is she allowed to babysit your children? Is she allowed to be around the babies father alone? Should she be allowed to continue a physical relationship with the baby daddy simply because it's already started?

For me, once I got laid for the first time at 12-13 I turned into a little man whore. I figured I knew everything and was hooking up with a 19 year old on a daily basis. Do I assume that this girl would feel the same way about sex at her age as I did when I was young? Does that change the scenario at all knowin that the adult in he situation was having sexual relation with grown omen when they were in they're early teens?

FM

 

The jail time is the issue.

And the fact that I am married.

And the fact that I like men.

And the fact that I'd have to train her (if she was of age).

And the fact that, oooohhhhh just ot many facts to make it worth the effort.

And back to jail time!

 

If she 16 its debaitable, if shes 17 FUCK her

 

I never condone sex with an underage participant. Too much to lose.