When I was younger I used to play around with a couple of friends and I must say that I do enjoy sucking a nice hard cock.
Sometimes I do masturbate to gay or shemale porn and looking at a guy masturbating does get me hard.

That being said, I would never ever kiss a guy. Even just thinking about it, repels me. I usually consider myself as a straight guy who likes cocks. Am I the only one?

 

I'd rather suck his dick. IDK why that OH YEAH I HATE FACIAL HAIR

 

Not into kissing but a guy can pull out his cock and I will get right down on my knees without needing to be told.

 

A once regular friend would only let me kiss him when I was sporting a beard. He had no such reservations when I sucked his 8" cock

 

Suck his dick plus I get his baby batter

 

Kevin: I'm not interested in guys but hold a gun to my head and tell me to choose, I'd choose kissing a guy.
I could close my eyes for a few seconds and tell myself it's a woman I'm kissing.
You've got a guy's dick in your mouth, it's hard to pretend it's something else.

 

rather suck his cock any day

 

Same here!

 

My desires with guys, in order:
1)Receiving anal sex
2)Giving Anal sex
3) Giving a blow job
4) Kissing a guy.

Maybe with the right girl in the mix, I might start with a three way kiss...

 

Blow him

 

I think it has to do with where you are on the spectrum of sexuality.

like I would technically say I’m Bi because I have no problem sucking a cock, getting my cock sucked by a guy, fucking a guy in the ass….

But I have never seen a guy and have been like “damn, I want that” just never. I have had a few guys kiss me. It felt like a warm wet garbage bag. The same guy 69, it was passionate and explosive. I have never felt romantic feeling for a guy. Just good friendships. I’ve had a few guys try to treat me like a “boy friend” or like a “girl friend” and it just felt completely uncomfortable and wrong. Which is what I imagine girls go through when their guy friends start to hit on them.

A 3 way (two guys and a girl-shaky H) felt super awkward because I knew the other guy didn’t want to have anything to do with me. Not touch me, didn’t want me to him. It didn’t help that I knew I’m in the real world and my inner circles. I ended up not being able to even keep it up long enough to stay in the game. I had to pull out every lame trick I had just to keep her half way satisfied. Poor girl.

A different 3 way (two guys and a girl) she had us start off by both of us blowing him and then rotating who was getting the double team oral pleasure every few min. It made the whole situation super hot. Soon every free hand was doing something with hole or toy or what have you. Nutted 3 times that night and I learned what Benewah balls are, and why the feel great.

But I would never publicly, in my family, friend groups, work, or other circles declare that I am bi. It creates a very different view of what other think, and how they perceive me.

If I were to openly say I was bi I would not only be changing a lot of their view of me. But It would also be changing it to a common view point to is not aligned with what I actually am. Their perception would be so far off from reality, they would be expecting abc, so they will either walk on egg shells or be surprised when they see xyz.

Out in the wild, when people don’t fall into the predictable behavioral patterns or “easily labeled groups” you become unpredictable. No one likes unpredictable. It puts them at risk in to many ways.

I also think Thats why a lot of the public doesn’t like the idea of gender being a spectrum. I think they get that sexuality is a spectrum. Everyone and their mom is either gay bi or straight. But after that you have to ask what kind. Leg man or boob guy. Do you tight bods or thick and curvy. Muscle men or dad bods. Top or bottom, leather daddy, or daddy role play. A tall and a short, bear and twink, butch and lipstick. On and on and on.

but with gender, the idea for them that it’s a spectrum just comes more difficult. To them it’s very polarizing, “it’s either to the left or the right.” Like your flipping a switch. I’m sure more exposure will help with that with time.

Labels are hard, I don’t even like the label Bi for myself because I clearly don’t like men romantically. I don’t like kissing them. But I’ll have sex with them, not all, I have Preferences.

The best term I’ve heard, and I’m not even sure I’m using it right, is hetero flexible.

Maybe that could be a fix to some of the gender spectrum issues. Introduce and define more words/terms to help people understand better. That way they can have more safe and predictable interactions.

shit I rambled… sorry

 

With sex, you can be emotionally detached from the act. It's just getting off.

Kissing another man is a step too far, for some guys, strangely enough.
I think there's an emotional component to kissing, so it can be harder for a guy who thinks of himself as straight (but likes cock) to accept that.

 

I quess from the time I lost my anal virginity I have always been attracted to men, now some men I'm just interested in giving a blowjob and swallowing their cum, and that's normally bisexual men and that's all they want, but when I'm with a very attractive gay man or even men, I don't hesitate wanting to kiss them, that's why I look for gay men to have sex with, they are totally into having the sex and are extremely passionate about it,
Just try giving a blowjob and not swallowing his cum, but give him a kiss and share it with him, it's truly heavenly to feel the cum in both mouths

 

If I'm choosing between the two I'm sucking that cock...and swallowing!

 

I Can kiss a man, some guys need it. Sexually that it. But if it’s someone I know in my circle of friends, who then wants to become a sexual partner… no. It has worked the other way. And out sider has fucked his was into being a regular friend. But the closer we are as friends. The less sexual stuff that happens…

weirdly enough I have one friend I’ve known my whole life. He has blown me For over 2 decades and he has kept the secret. About 10 years ago he came out as gay. I was a little confused because I’ve watched him fuck women too. But he said nope, I don’t like women at all. I was like ok. I get it… mostly. He kissed me once, but never again. It felt so weird. But him blowing me felt fine.

 

Blow. I have no desire to kiss a man. I’ll lick his asshole, but I won’t kiss him.

 

It just depends on the moment for me. If im topping I would rather not kiss. I have met with guys that just wanted to get sucked off or fuck my ass. Usually because wife won't let them cum in her mouth and surely wont swallow or let him fuck her ass. If im a bottom and I get really into it and Im in missionary with legs wrapped him as hes fucking me there is nothing g I like better than to have him kiss me as he is fucking me. Just depends on the moment and who Im with at the time.

 

I loved Kiss to my ex bf and I've never sucked his cock but I would want suck one

 

Definitely suck... N also balls deep n preferably... Actually DEFINITELY be shaved... Balls ass n ass crack... Better for giving/getting rimjobs with no hair