1. Hello,


    New users on the forum won't be able to send PM untill certain criteria are met (you need to have at least 6 posts in any sub forum).

    One more important message - Do not answer to people pretending to be from xnxx team or a member of the staff. If the email is not from forum@xnxx.com or the message on the forum is not from StanleyOG it's not an admin or member of the staff. Please be carefull who you give your information to.


    Best regards,

    StanleyOG.

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  2. Hello,


    You can now get verified on forum.

    The way it's gonna work is that you can send me a PM with a verification picture. The picture has to contain you and forum name on piece of paper or on your body and your username or my username instead of the website name, if you prefer that.

    I need to be able to recognize you in that picture. You need to have some pictures of your self in your gallery so I can compare that picture.

    Please note that verification is completely optional and it won't give you any extra features or access. You will have a check mark (as I have now, if you want to look) and verification will only mean that you are who you say you are.

    You may not use a fake pictures for verification. If you try to verify your account with a fake picture or someone else picture, or just spam me with fake pictures, you will get Banned!

    The pictures that you will send me for verification won't be public


    Best regards,

    StanleyOG.

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  1. ThaBigBossMang

    ThaBigBossMang Porn Surfer

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    this is weird but I think I understand. thanks for the help people
     
  2. ThaBigBossMang

    ThaBigBossMang Porn Surfer

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    sorry for blowin up the thread. just tryin to post enough times
     
    1. WantSumCandyLittleGirl
      No worries, but you could have used the Forum Games to do the same thing without appearing to blow up the thread. Plus, you might have had some fun.
       
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  3. TonyMichaels

    TonyMichaels Porn Surfer

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    I was in the process of editing a story. I never moved it from "continue editing", but now that option is gone and the only option at the bottom is "Publish My Story". Is there any way to go back to continue editing? Why did it switch on its own? And if I understand this correctly, the story should actually publish in 2-3 days after it has been validated, correct? Or will it show as being validated and wait for me to actually publish?
     
    1. NightWish1910
      Hi TM. Yea it seems to be a quirk of the system. If you go into edit mode more than a few times, the "publish" option becomes the only choice. In my experience, once that happens you are in the queue waiting to be reviewed. If the story is not ready, you can select edit from your "my stories" screen and make additional changes. Each time you edit it will go back to the beginning of the review queue. From what I've seen, a story can take anywhere from 2 to 7 days to be published. Hope this helps.
       
      NightWish1910, Aug 3, 2022
    2. TonyMichaels
      Yes, that definitely helps. I intentionally tried to keep it in "continue to edit" just to make a few last little adjustments. And then it changed automatically. But now that I am aware of it, I will just be more careful to try to get it right the first time. Thanks for the advice. Seems like an odd quirk for this type of site, but I'll just work around it.
       
      TonyMichaels, Aug 3, 2022
    3. TonyMichaels
      One more question. Once they do actually publish, do they send you and email, or is there some sort of notice? Or does it just change from "Edit" mode to "View" mode?
       
      TonyMichaels, Aug 3, 2022
    4. NightWish1910
      No email or notice. It just changes status and becomes visible for others to read. I call it my weekly surprise after I've waited days and then suddenly see one of my stories go live. :)
       
      NightWish1910, Aug 3, 2022
    5. TonyMichaels
      Your awesome. Thanks for all of the help and quick responses.
       
      TonyMichaels, Aug 3, 2022
  4. STDFKR

    STDFKR Newcumer

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    So why do I have to post 6 times before I can load my first story? And how do you post something? Does this count as a post?
     
    1. wolfystyle
      Yeah I didn't get it either I'm not a writer I just enjoy reading the stories but it's driving me nuts that I can't just go back and reread my favorites but hey, when I do get back on being able to save again I'll give your stories a little read :thumbsup:
       
      wolfystyle, Aug 17, 2022
  5. STDFKR

    STDFKR Newcumer

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    Thank you!
     
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    1. WantSumCandyLittleGirl
      There are a couple reasons, and @MarieJames gave you a good one. Another is it ensure you're not a one-hit wonder, spamming the site one day then bagging it for another site tomorrow. If you pay attention, you're only allowed to make 5 posts a day until you hit a total of 16 - which means you have to return. As for the requirement for 6, it's something the Admins chose to get the member to return to the site the 2nd day.

      You do realize, you do NOT have to submit your story to the stories.xnxx.com site - you can just put them here, in the Forum >> Sex Stories thread. You'll get quicker response and can use the thread to fine tune the story before you submit it to the other site.
       
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  6. paddler20

    paddler20 Porn Surfer

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    I have to admit as a first-time writer this site has been very frustrating. I've submitted 5 stories in a series for publication and only one (the third story in the series) has been published. The other four are trapped in the status "Edit mode" even though I clicked the Publish story drop down box. Naturally the story is getting killed in the voting since the preceding chapters have not been published. It's been 8 days since the first story was submitted. Any idea on how long it normally takes to publish?
     
    1. WantSumCandyLittleGirl
      It depends on where it is in the queue. I would have recommended you submit Part 1 and wait for it to post before submitting Part 2, but… being an engineer, I tend to be logical like that.
       
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  7. paddler20

    paddler20 Porn Surfer

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    @WantSumCandyLittleGirl Silly me, being new to the site, I assumed stories would be published in the order in which they were submitted.
     
    1. NCfan
      They are, EXCEPT.....Part one could be temporarily blocked by the admins due to content. You can explain these, or make a change to make the story acceptable. However, in the mean time, Part 2 could fly through and be published, much to the confusion of your readers. It's happened. That's why it is suggested that you wait until a chapter is published before submitting the next.
       
      NCfan, Aug 5, 2022
  8. The_Aurelist_Cynic

    The_Aurelist_Cynic Newcumer

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    Question, I'm about to post my first ever sex story, it's not yet finished and I wouldn't want to post all the chapters before I publish the full Ebook. I have a patreon page tho where all the chapters are posted. Is promoting your patreon link in the story text when you post it allowed, or is there another way to promote it? Or is it completely forbidden. Just asking in advance. Thank you.
     
    1. WantSumCandyLittleGirl
      I would NOT recommend it. Site admins frown on advertising other sites that might be considered competitors. Patreon isn’t really, but… why take the chance?

      Also, if you want feedback on the already written segments, post them here. They go up immediately and you don’t have to worry about down voting.
       
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  9. The_Aurelist_Cynic

    The_Aurelist_Cynic Newcumer

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    Thanks, I'm trying to be respectful and not break any rules, though I didn't see anything specific in the rules section. I can understand the stuff about competitors that's an obvious one. Would it be ok to just say "you can follow me on my page for more" without mentioning patreon or posting any link? The Patreon link can be found on my profile anyway if anyone cares to look into it, plus it's under the same name as my username here.
     
  10. The_Aurelist_Cynic

    The_Aurelist_Cynic Newcumer

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    That previous comment was supposed to be a reply to you sorry. The UI here is such an eyesore I'm still new and learning
     
    1. WantSumCandyLittleGirl
      No worries. Next time, though, to return a reply to someone who replied directly to your post, just hit Comment (this is one). Using +Multiquote just copies the original post, not the Comments underneath.
       
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  11. TonyMichaels

    TonyMichaels Porn Surfer

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    Like an idiot, when my story finally posted and started getting read, I accidentally deleted the first chapter. With my bad eyes and the small type, I thought it said details and not delete. Moron, I know. Two chapters posted at the same time. Since I didn't want people reading the second chapter without the first, I deleted the second chapter as well. I sent a request to support to see if they can restore them, but the support screen doesn't look like it actually sends anything. Is there any way to have them recover the chapters, or should I just start over and repost them?
     
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    2. SquattingEagle
      You could try the internet archive's wayback machine. They periodically backup the internet, so if your stories have been available to the general public for some time, chance has it you can find a copy in their archives.
       
      SquattingEagle, Aug 8, 2022
    3. TonyMichaels
      Appreciate the advice. I should have been more clear. I still have the story, so it isn't an issue to repost and start over. I just wondered if Support could actually reverse my accident so that I didn't have to start over and lose the 'reads' and 'votes' that I had already received. It had only been posted for a day, so it isn't a big deal. Just a waste of a week from my carelessness.
       
      TonyMichaels, Aug 9, 2022
  12. CheerfulTurquoise

    CheerfulTurquoise Porn Surfer

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    I'm a bit confused about posting on sexstories.com. I posted my stories there and put them to publish but they are both still in Status: Edit mode. Is it just a matter of waiting for them to be validated?
     
  13. NCfan

    NCfan Porn Star

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    Yes it can take 2-4 days. Longer over weekends.
     
  14. CheerfulTurquoise

    CheerfulTurquoise Porn Surfer

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    Alright, thanks!
     
    1. WantSumCandyLittleGirl
      Keep in mind, you can post them here (in this thread), too. No wait on publishing.
       
  15. TonyMichaels

    TonyMichaels Porn Surfer

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    Is it fairly common for new stories to receive immediate negative votes. Maybe from some writers trying to put down others to avoid competition or something? This is my first time posting a story. I have no delusions that I am the best writer in the world, but I have read a lot on this site and there are so many "highly rated" stories that are just terrible. No storyline, no character development, and hell even most of the time full of simple spelling and grammar errors. So I don't think I am self centered in saying that I really thought what I wrote was pretty good. The first few chapters of my story just posted a couple of days ago. Almost immediately, the first 11 votes were negative on each chapter. Despite there being so few reads initially. So like 11 votes out of the first 50 reads were negative. I know the vote rate is extremely low. So that seems unbalanced. And hard to believe that so many people had such an initial bad impression. Since then, the votes have gotten some positives, but still only coming in at about 20-30%.

    So my question remains, is this normal to get an immediate negative reaction mostly from trolls and just people out to put down for its own sake? Of course, none of the negative votes have actually left a comment or constructive criticism. Just quick negative votes. Obviously, I will continue to wait and see, but it's hard to not be disappointed by such an underwhelming response after working on this for months.

    Any feedback/experience would be appreciated.
     
    1. NCfan
      Unfortunately this became common practice the past 6 months with changes made to supposedly stop spamming. Instead is seems to suppress positive votes so that you end up with more stories in the 80-90 (and lower) range.
       
      NCfan, Aug 13, 2022
    2. TonyMichaels
      It's definitely frustrating. Since that initial round of negative votes, all of the rest have been positive and the number is going up. The average is up over 60% for the most part now. But I am sure it has slowed readership, which is unfortunate. I find it odd that of the 4 chapters that I have posted, Chapter 3 only has half as many reads as the other three. I can't figure out why anyone would read the first 2 chapters and then skip the 3rd, and then read the 4th.

      Appreciate your feedback and I am curious if any other writers out there are experiencing something similar.
       
      TonyMichaels, Aug 15, 2022
  16. TonyMichaels

    TonyMichaels Porn Surfer

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    I posted recently too. Several times. I find they come out on the 5th day generally
     
  17. Frolic

    Frolic Amateur

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    Just got this message when trying to post a thread:
    You do not have permission to view this page or perform this action.

    Did I do something wrong. I have posted two other threads today with no issues.
     
    1. NCfan
      I see you have three new stories posted. Maybe you tried posting them too soon one after another?
       
      NCfan, Aug 14, 2022
  18. flamingmnky

    flamingmnky Newcumer

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    Glad you did, have enjoyed the story even if it was problematic to post. Apparently I can no longer send PMs since I haven't posted enough on the forums just votes, comments, and PMs on stories in the past. But definitely good to know if I get around to ever writing anything myself that there is a delay.
     
    1. TonyMichaels
      It's pretty easy to get 6 posts out there so you can submit stories and send PMs. There are a number of "game" threads that you can add to easily that qualify. Glad to hear you enjoy my story and there will be more chapters coming soon. Please feel free to follow me and send me a PM after you get certified. I would love to get some real feedback.
       
      TonyMichaels, Aug 29, 2022
    2. flamingmnky
      Guess needed a comment vs reply lol. One biggest critique of this site is their UI is clunky.
       
      flamingmnky, Aug 29, 2022
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    3. TonyMichaels
      Couldn't agree more. I find it hard to navigate. Especially between the stories list and the email system.
       
      TonyMichaels, Aug 29, 2022