I like raisins

 

I'm too self critical, and never give myself enough credit, I make mountains out of mole hills, small things become bigger issues than the major things.

I'm also resigned to being alone after splitting from my ex 5 years ago, because of those flaws I mentioned above.

 

Care about others before worrying about myself.

 

I suppose so @Cherrypop ... I just think who would want me now lol

 

My big flaw is…..and it’s big. I love porn and desire an open relationship. I no longer am interested in a vanilla relationship. I’d rather be alone and play with other like minded friends. At 63, these ladies are impossible to find.

 

I've been screwed so much in 70+ years, I have a warped sense of humor about EVERYTHING!

 

I like Hawaiian pizza, my Italian friends disown me afterwards.

 

My flaws. I have a bad day and always take it out people nearest and dearest

 

I have great difficulties filtering out background noise or following conversation in many places, unless someone speaks sufficiently loud and clear. In fact, I may be the only one in the room who has no clue what's going on, or being spoke of.

I also tend to be very socially awkward, but a lot less so once I get used to someone.

I also can talk fast and be hard to understand sometimes. Been told I have an accent. I also choose wrong or confusing wording if I feel rushed or hurried. Also, if rushed, I can occasionally get a quick temper. Especially if I'm doing something I already don't wanna be doing. Crowds and maneuvering around them (which I refer to as human dodgeball) also, gets me irked easily at times. (turn one way to walk around one person.....someone else gets in the way, so I swerve around. Then, a THIRD person walking in my path....etc etc. Finally get to my destination, thinking I can relax a second and then someone's coming up behind me looking like they're about to walk over me because I'm in their way.........did I mention that I hate busy/pushy crowds already?)

I also have controversial opinions, and kinks. I don't consider either of those flaws, personally, but others would, and they do make dating harder, if I wanna find someone I can be 1000% honest with, eventually.

 

I'm too much in my own head, and now that I'm pretty much officially old I can't stop thinking about that. The trouble is, inside I still feel young and vibrant with lots to share with the world. I am having trouble reconciling these two realities.
Fortunately there is beer.

 

I lose things. The silver spoon, which I'm not to sure ever existed, I mean there are no pictures of me with it, only bottles. And not having it, sure didn't do me any good.

 

I care way too much about others that just don't care about me!

 

I'm flawless... My momma told me so

 

I definitely have some OCD, and struggle with overeating, and managing 'stuff'. My office is a mess, and I struggle with maintaining order.

 

I put myself last in front of others, in everything.

 

Biggest flaw in me has to be my people pleaser attitude that i still cling to sometimes

 

The kitchen (not carpeted).
The living room (not carpeted).
The bedroom (only one carpeted).
The bathroom (not carpeted).

Those are just some of them.

 

I know it’s not my fault, but my anxiety is a huge effing flaw. It started in 2022 due to a culmination of shitty events and it’s still going strong.

But my anti-flaw is that I don’t let it stop me from doing stuff and I push through. But it does slow me down sometimes.

 

Physical flaw: My tits are too small (34B).
Personality flaw: I go places I shouldn’t go, looking for things I shouldn’t be seeking. I’m a bit of a danger junkie…

 

Mentally I'm all kinda of messed up
I have ADHD, Manic Depression
Physical I have a fake knee and a pinched nerve in my back