Depends what is expected of a relationship. Can easily become a source of frustration. Sex is more easily excepted by all.

 

I am not a man, but I am an observer of men. So with that in mind, of course there are men who want and need the connection of a relationship. Otherwise so many men wouldn't stay in sexless marriages.

 

The more I care about someone, the better the sex.

 

Yes

 

I absolutely want a relationship. I am much happier when I am in one. Sex is a big part of a relationship to me though.

 

This subject probably played into my decision to nickname myself the vagabondgirl. When younger I thought guys wanted a great relationship. Then as I got 6 years older I realized that men for the most part just wanted sex. The wiser girls stole the good ones and I was left with the bad ones. My parents kept reminding me of my mistakes, how to correct my attitude, and it drove me away from home.

 

Oh well I want a relationship but with lots of sex etc of course lol x

 

Was married for 18 years, prefer just sex at the minute

 

I like being in a relationship. I love knowing who I’m going to come home to at the end of the day. Sex is very important in the relationship but I have to enjoy being with the other person and able to talk with them.

 

I’d love to be in a relationship again. But sex is very important with me. We need to have common interests, as well as our own interests / hobbies.
I need to be able to talk intelligently with her

 

I want sex but not really attracted to men. Can't imagine kissing a man on the lips but want everything else.
I can see why folks CD and role play. You can enjoy the sex in a different mindset and overlook details I guess..

 

I love being married to my wife

 

Depends on situation really

 

I like sex and I enjoy a relationship.
The worst is men that cling to you and won't go away.

 

If I were 30 years younger, I would love to start a relationship with you, but at my age, Im looking for all the sex I can get before I depart this Earth...

 

I think, generally most men are able to separate sex/fucking from "making love" easier than most women.
When a guy gets caught cheating and he tries to defend himself with "It didn't mean anything! It was just sex!" he's probably not lying.
Women are brought up to believe sex is something sacred to only be shared in a loving relationship. Not something you do primarily for physical pleasure.
A guy can be in a loving relationship and still want to fuck his wife's sister.
That doesn't mean he should, just that he wants to.
As Chris Rock says a man being faithful is simply a matter of opportunity. (paraphrased)

 

I definitely want a relationship but unfortunately there is not sex in the relationship so I would say both.

 

I have only recently even had an opportunity to explore the concept of casual/no strings attached sexual relationships, as I was with the same woman since our Sophomore year of high school until we were both 39, and that being my only serious relationship I've ever had.

So I know that I am the relationship type of guy, but I still can't see myself being in a relationship with anyone else for the past 5 years, and I have been really trying to work through that but it's not so easy for me. I can have sex with people that I'm not in a committed relationship with, but they aren't casual or strangers, they are people I've known for years and care deeply about which isn't the same but it does have many similarities to a real relationship.

 

I am not big on one night stands, I would much rather get to know her.
I like the interaction. Excitement of a new relationship etc.
I have only had a couple one night stands - all the rest have been relationships

 

Sex