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  1. flowergrl80

    flowergrl80 Porn Surfer

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    I've made a bunch of videos that are really really hot but no one has seen them yet and i want so bad to upload them for people to enjoy them... But, I'm worried if I put them out there it will come back to haunt me... But it also turns me on to think that someone I know will happen to come across them. What do you think I should do? Maybe make some more but in disguise lol
     
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  2. 1 Toy Maker

    1 Toy Maker Kuns og Kram Smukke Love once found never lost

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    I'll pass on some advice I was given awhile ago.
    "Don't shoot your face."
     
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  3. superguy

    superguy Sex Lover

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    Depends how much of you can be identified.
     
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  4. sotasara

    sotasara Porno Junky

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    PM your email address, I'll show you my video and what I did to let me sleep at night
     
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  5. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    Do the other people in the videos know that you want to upload them? Have they consented to their faces being shown in a porn video online?
     
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      Well then, whatever floats your boat. But nothing on the internet ever goes away. Those videos are going to be around when you're 80. And you have no control over who sees them once they're online - from employers to family members to schools to 4chan to that guy you could love forever but doesn't like internet porn and won't date you.

      Choose wisely.
       
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  6. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    Actually that was good enough to turn into a real reply...

    Well then, whatever floats your boat. But nothing on the internet ever goes away. Those videos are going to be around when you're 80. And you have no control over who sees them once they're online - from employers to family members to schools to 4chan to that guy you could love forever but doesn't like internet porn and won't date you.

    Choose wisely.
     
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  7. dave1955

    dave1955 Amateur

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    Had a female friend who's ex bf did that to her....but u couldn't really see her face....too dark...so she was ok....but never did video again...
     
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  8. coraline

    coraline The Witchy Woman

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    Once it's online it can never be taken off
     
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  9. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    People you know:

    Your parents. If you have kids, your kids. If you have kids, the parents of the kids who play with your kids (and won't let them play anymore.) If you don't have kids - are you ever planning on it? Think ahead.

    Oh, and also if you have kids: Your spouse. Who might want to divorce you and get full custody. "Look at what she does, do you think she's a responsible person that children can be trusted with?"

    Also: Your neighbor. Especially that one bitchy neighbor who gossips to the whole neighborhood.

    Your boss. The mean girl at work who wants to get ahead and will totally blackmail or backstab you.

    What if you get sexually assaulted and go to court? Someone finds that video and brings it into "character" evidence, it works against you. Yeah, a woman's sexual history shouldn't have anything to do with the conviction of her assaulter, but in real life, it does.
     
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      I am well aware of the risks... It could be disastrous! Although I'm single with no children, I worry how it would affect my career. And so that's why I will not post them... I will admit that it does turn me on a lot to think that someone who knows me would find them and get the shock of their life. I do have a good girl image in my personal life:)
       
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      I give up. It's okay as a fantasy. But for God's sake....choose wisely.
       
      VenusInFurze, Dec 15, 2015
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    3. lioni
      Just send them to me and I will watch it and keep it for myself. That way you know someone already enjoyed your videos but you don't take risks.
       
      lioni, Dec 16, 2015
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      Um....sure, "send this video to a person on a porn site that you don't know, there's no way it could possibly end up on the Internet then!"
       
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  10. sotasara

    sotasara Porno Junky

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    This site is nothing if not about exploring your turn-ons.
     
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  11. pappas8

    pappas8 Porno Junky

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    It's sad there are so many issues about just having fun
     
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  12. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    I agree...I'm not pointing out all those risks to be a downer or a buzzkill or say people shouldn't have fun. But I've seen some of those things I mentioned actually happen.

    In BDSM, there's a style of play called PRICK - personally-responsible informed consensual kink. If you fully assess the risks, consider the consequences, and take responsibility for what happens, then go ahead and do something even if it's dangerous....but if you don't think of all those things, if you aren't able to take responsibility for the possible outcomes, it's better to be safe than have fun.
     
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  13. Pomgo

    Pomgo Sex Machine

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    A big sexy mask is the solution
     
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  14. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    It would certainly help. (That wasn't sarcastic!)
     
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  15. shadowfap

    shadowfap Fap Happy Jester

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    As long as you don't introduce yourself, show your face, or have indentifiable tattoos/markings, enjoy yourself.
     
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    1. VenusInFurze
      Yeah, all my comments are contingent upon anything recognizable being visible or audible. There are a lot of things that are visually and audibly recognizable with modern video equipment/analysis than there used to be, though.

      PRICK. I think I'll just leave it at that.
       
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      Are you calling me a prick? I'm teasing, Venus.
       
      shadowfap, Dec 16, 2015
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      It is kind of an awkward acronym!
       
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  16. Luvagobfull

    Luvagobfull Sex Machine

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    If everyone is ok with it and your ok with it, then post away, but remember in years to come and you may have another partner or different lifestyle patterns and suddenly say a mother inlaw, School Authority, your children or what not see them, can you deal with that?
     
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  17. Riskykristi1

    Riskykristi1 Porn Star

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    I worry all the time of things coming back to haunt me. I no longer post pics or vids at all. There are plenty of old ones running around but I look different now and I had always altered my look when in a group setting in case someone sneaks a pic. That was until last year when a family member put a hidden cam in the bathroom. I caught him and deleted and destroyed the card but it looks like he had done this before and posted them. Imagine seeing a nude pic of you that you never knew existed.
     
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  18. springsteen79

    springsteen79 xnxx lifer

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    I know we would all love to see a video of you sotasara.
     
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  19. Rothko

    Rothko Porn Star

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    You may think it hot if someone you knew came across it but the consequences may turn out a whole less hot.

    The thing is once its on line anyone can do anything with it and you have no control. Your good buddy might get an enjoyable shock from it, but what happens when he tells his mate who tells his mate who...and so it goes

    The questions you might want to answer for yourself is: Would I mind if my close friends, family, boss, future boss, work mates and future partner were to find out about it.

    If you can live with that then go ahead an post, if not then perhaps think again
     
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