Recently, I masturbated but I stopped soon as it gets too intense. I cannot handle intense feeling from the stimulation I am giving my clit so yeah anyone got any pointers on how you can handle this? I tried rubbing my breasts and rub my clit at the same time but once again I stopped because the feeling was overwhelming. I really want to have an orgasm just to see what it feels through masturbation but I always stopped midway.

Anyone have any tips? Or personal experience they can share?

All comments and advice will be appreciated!

 

I can help u I will tie u up and lick u until u cum

 

Overwhelming is kind of the point. Simply power through it, ignore the fear and any sensitivity, and don't stop no matter what. Once it happens, you'll understand. It won't hurt you, you'll not lose your mind, and you're not damaging anything. If you can't do that, then take it up as high as you can go, but don't stop, just ease off a little for a few seconds then ramp it back up, over and over. After a few times of that, there will come a point that you can't stop... Then viola! The mystery will be explained.

Hush....an alias

 

If you want to avoid intense feelings why the fuck are you masturbating? I thought that was the point of jacking or jilling off. If you insist on avoiding intensity while masturbating you might try it through your panties.

 

I go with it and enjoy it as it means an orgasm or multiple orgasm is on its way

 

Are you sure the "intense" feeling isn't an orgasm, or the beginning of one?

That sounds like a dumb question but when I started masturbating I was having orgasms for months and didn't realize it, because, well, I hadn't had them before. And I distinctly remember thinking "dammit, I can never keep going after that really intense peak-like feeling." (I did figure it out, obviously.) (And I was much younger then.)

 

So, how did it go?

Hush....an alias

 

Sounds like your most of the way to here u wanna be. It's not going to hurt u if u keep going, that overwhelming feeling leads to satisfaction. That's the ultimate goal

 

it sounds like what guys do sometimes, we edge for awhile till we cum, and when we do it's a big one with a big shot.it sounds like ur doing the same thing u get close then stop then close then stop. so the next time u do it be alone in ur house keep rubbing till u cumm and let it go,you'll prob scream so that's why u do alone to let go in ur room. but man it's the best feeling you'll ever have hun,and girls can do it again and again not like us guys, so go for it babe!! you'll never stop lol.

 

As ridiculous as it sounds (this mainly for the guys), more women than you might expect will until their first time sometimes panic, become afraid, become upset when they start losing control, or find the feeling so intense that they stop fearing lord knows what. I've encountered more than a few women that had never orgasmed even in their 20's, the oldest being early 30's due to those issues (contrary to poor lovers or drilled into them puritanical views). Personally, I'm a firm believer that in such cases having someone help you cum vs. trying to do so yourself makes it easier to finally happen in that they can't or won't quit. Otherwise, some of the suggestions above like not focusing just on your clit, or using your hands are good ones. Humping on something spreading the feeling around a great idea. Past that, I suppose you just have to want it bad enough, and be more afraid of being afraid than what might happen.

Hush....an alias