Don't forget that little minority group that have a 10 out of 10 selection of options but fail to either rise or sustain erections and can only cum in leap years.

 

I find it so sad that the majority of very low scores by men are because they say their wives want sex rarely, if at all!
These wives should be grateful they have husbands who want, and are physically able, to have sex with them.
As the highly sexed wife of a husband who was rendered totally impotent following a bad car accident I would love to be in their position.
Instead, I have to be satisfied with being shared with my husband's pals, whilst my husband gets his pleasure from watching me being apparently 'satisfied'.
We are making the best out of the bad cards fate has dealt us, not satisfactory by any means, nor is it totally 'satisfying' - you see - there's no LOVE involved.
Yes, I get the orgasms and climaxes that my body craves, but there's little foreplay, minimal cuddling and kissing, generally just "wham, bam, thank you ma'am!
I agree it is better than nothing - but how I crave to have a husband who could give me what I want by HIMSELF - with love, caring and thoughtfulness!
The wives of men who have given zero or very low marks to the poster's question should be thankful for their hubby's needs - not respond by being cold and frigid!
I sometimes despair of my fellow sex!

 

The only shortcomings would be my own. Therefor, it would have to be a 10, only my own failure to take advantage of what is offered and available to me limiting me. Then again I'm not ridiculous in my demands either. I don't insist that some supermodel that I will never meet screws me or that the entire Marine Corps has a mass bukkake party on me all in one night, or that magical unicorn stallions bang me from each end at the same time. That said, my dissatisfaction comes in the form of jading. So things that should thrill most anyone don't me for one reason or the other. Yet that is simply how it is, so I enjoy the best of it, make happen what I want that hasn't, and don't worry about the rest.

As to the suggestion that coming here implies a lack of satisfaction, for me doing so is my down or break time. Here I can discuss what I know best, yet relax and not feel compelled to do.

Hush....an alias

 

I'd say about a 5. My hand takes pretty good care of me :/

 

6 or 7. I need to get off about every other day, but we have sex like 3 to 6 times a month. Which is on the high side of average, from most large studies I've seen, so I can't complain. And I wouldn't be happy if I never got myself off alone, I think everyone needs that. Also, I never push for sex at all. We're a very easy-going couple in all aspects of our lives, so we don't push each other for anything. But when it comes to sex, I could probably do with being the big bad wolf now and then like when I was a horny teenager.

 

My rating is 9.7

To state that anybody with a high 'satisfaction quota', which you don't apparently have, wouldn't be on this site because it is only for "jerking off" is openly stating that that is what you do.
Like @Hush I don't come here to get satisfaction, or to jerk off, I am on here to attempt, unsuccessfully up to now, to find that missing .3.
That missing .3 is not due to any lack of enjoyable sex but because I (unlike others) acknowledge that I don't know everything about sex and thought that I might learn more on here. Up to now all I have discovered is that there is a very high proportion of members who cannot read (multiple threads on same subject) , or write, possibly because their (@OmiOmy please note spelling) mental capacity is limited due to incestuous inbreeding, with fathers/mothers/sisters/brothers/cousins.

 

You said it all right here, it gets relegated to something one person has to do usually with no explanation or at least a reasonable one of how it got there? even though around you everything else money, love and life is intact. Though it would seem like just doing it covers it, it becomes evident to the one your doing it for and becomes a point of contention for both many times unresolved? I'd rate mine a 6, good when it's there just tired of chasing it!

 

Zero.

 

If you are 5 and up, that's extraordinary.

 

It's a 10. I must be that rare man that has a wife who wants it all the time, and then some. Almost every single night. And then a few go arounds some of those nights.

 

Four

 

Very satisfied.

 

If I were not rapidly approaching 80 and with a prostrate problem I would safely say 9 to 10 because that's where I was. Now the answer has to be zero. If you've got it don't waste it. For some of us it won't last forever.

 

mmm a 6 when i want it a 7 when she want's it lol

 

I've traded quantity for quality and still have more sex than anyone I know well enough to know how often they get laid, so I'll say it's a number greater than 9 and some Sundays, it pegs the needle.

Sex is like skydiving. It's a lot of work and it takes a commitment. No one ever found themselves in a plane with no door and a parachute on their back, by lucky chance. If you want to jump out of a plane and hope to survive, you have to plan ahead. You have to be there on time, and have all your stuff in the right place. It will be over a lot faster than the prep time, so make it worth it.

 

i don't get my cock sucked enough,my girl does not like it,my wife before loved to suck and swallow i miss her for that

 

I believe that if you have to beg your partner for sex then it's better for you to just pleasure yourself.

 

This is a very sad thread for the most part. Congrats to those that feel they are completely satisfied. And my apologies to the ones that are not. I think rating it is not fair to ourself or our partner. So i will just say i try to give 100 percent to assure that my partner is satisfied. I try to keep things interesting and offer it even if not asked. Cause that is what i feel as a woman i should do. Is everything perfect every time? Do i feel I'm matched completely with my efforts? No not all the time. Are we completely on the same level sexually? I would say probably not. But do i try to make him feel bad for me having such a huge sexual appetite? No i couldn't do that. I just try to make the most of things. I try to enjoy the nights i feel he's on board with me. I try to spice things up or suggest something flirty or fun. All we can do is try and try again. I mean isn't something sometimes better than nothing?? Is it fair if one seems more into things than the other? No probably not. But people's desires and needs change sometimes. And for some those needs and desires just get stronger. I don't think we should feel bad for that either. Nothing is wrong with being sexual.