We have some fun butt plugs and beads we use on her but, haven’t adventured into playing with my ass. You guys ever swing? Or do cucking? Or keep it to kinky ass play and toying around?

 

How do you spell Bologna ?

Baloney or Bologna?

 

My bolony has a first name its O s c a r, my bolony has a second name its M a y e r...put them all together ya have, balony Oscar balony Mayer Weiner, that is what I'd truly like to be, cause if I were an Oscsar Mayer Weiner everyone would be in love with me!

 

We’re looking into the swinging scene right now. Seems like it’s a better fit for us and what we may be interested in doing. Although I find some of the cuck porn hot, it’s not something I believe either of us is into in reality. We would never want to leave the other unsatisfied, or feeling degraded or jealous, nor do we have any desire to play without the other present. So up to this point, it has been just our singular kinks that we’ve been exploring.

 

Well if you wanted the funny answer, I believe shy guy answered it best lol.

Seeing as though that particular style of meat originated in that region of Italy, Bologna would be the correct spelling.

 

Rip my inbox.

I want the both of you to take turns riding my face and cock. Pretty please?

 

That’s great! I would love to get my lady into testing the idea of swinging or at least some room sex. Let me know if you find a fun swinging community.
Thanks again!

 

I will!

 

Love your idea here for a thread. We often find ourselves in the position of being the couple who have lots of experience when we visit lifestyle swinger clubs or meet couples out. It seems many are really new and although adventurous they have thousands of questions. We find we usually enjoy answering and although we all have different likes, desires and kinks it is always fun to discuss the lifestyle. I don't want to steal your thread idea or copy it but I would love to answer questions like this in a thread versus all the PM's we get with loads of varying questions. Glad we found your thread here.

 

I’m glad you found us too! 99% of all the PMs we receive are answerable here and we always request that the sender just ask us on our thread. There is literally nothing that can’t be asked and answered here.

In regards to swinging, we haven’t done it yet, but we talk about how we want to go about it, where we’re comfortable and uncomfortable and what our hard limits are. Knowing exactly what we’re doing before taking that first step is essential and above that even is good communication. Knowing us, we’ll fit right in and quickly become veterans. I’m mostly looking forward to the friendships we develop. We don’t trust easily and there are so many attractive things about the lifestyle that make us smile, nervous yet very excited to explore.

 

You are correct that anything anybody would ask can easily be answered in your forum here. So many of the questions I get are the same. I try to take time and respond but sometimes my time just is too short and I miss many people. Of course some messages I just delete when I see them, but that is a part of a site like this.

I wish you both the best in the Lifestyle, it can be a fun, fabulous time for you both and it can definitely lead to more intimacy, honesty and communication between you both. My husband and I can have conversations about topics and desires that most people say they could never divulge to even their partner. I think since our involvement in the Lifestyle we have become closer and know more about each other than we ever imagined possible.

It sounds like you already know that communication is the key, we have met so many couples that end up having problems and when we talk with them the one single denominator is always an open line of communication. There are nights even with regular partners that one of us is just not into it, you have to stop and always ensure you are both on the same page and have the same wants and needs. Don't ever take one for the team! We both have in the past and it is not a good thing. We meet great amazing people but at the end of each night we go home together and we sleep together. I can have sex with lots of other men and some ladies but I can only make love to my husband.

We have been in the lifestyle and swinging for over twelve years now and we have good and bad experiences. We have learned a lot and when you look over all of it, it has been a fantastic journey that only gets better with time. Let us know if you have any questions on your journey. We can't tell you what's right because that is only discernable by you as a couple but we can tell you our experience.

 

I agree with every word you said!!

Just the feelings we have gotten from simply talking about the Lifestyle has already brought us closer than we could have ever imagined. We’re certainly happier, more intimate, honest, open and every other conceivable emotion has just been enhanced in such a higher and better level. The sex keeps getting better and better too. We’re both very eager and excited to start but we’re also taking baby steps because moving too fast I think could end badly.

Would you mind if we PM you? I have some questions as I’m sure my wife does as well and I think she can also benefit from speaking with an experienced female. I don’t wish to discuss some of this in public

 

On a side note: You seem like a very caring, fun and happily married couple. It’s people like you that has drawn us to the scene

 

Damn, to bad this is going private, sounds like a fantasy in the making!

 

She should give you a rimjob

 

I actually did that a couple of nights ago. It was my cum though

 

It got me hard again in about 30 seconds!

 

Hi guys,
Just out of the blue, I was wondering something,... if ya dont mind I ask,...
given your penchant for an active and impromptu sex life, do either of you take steps to prepare for any unexpected sexual activity...do ya carry something like a 1st aid kit for sex,....
.... a sex aid kit,... with vibrators, dildos, ropes, lube, condoms(for other people), etc..toys you would usually use but in a travel version?

May be ya were at a hotel somewhere or a secluded field and one of ya said, "Damn, wish I brought that ribbed thing", it'll be convenient to have essentials already packed in the car, no?

 

Oh, almost forgot... @alla Adagio, do you wear underwear?