My best friend just spoke with me about joining him and his ex-girlfriend for a threesome. I told him that I'm all in and now I'm trying to get it all straight in my mind. We have all known each other for twenty years and I know she wanted to do something way back when, but we just didn't ever get it on.

Now, here we are years later and I've become more open minded and my friend has not. Let me explain, I'm a bi-guy and my friend is very opposed to any bi activity, even though we have had lots of threesomes together.

Here's what I'm thinking.... I think I will talk with her alone and see if she would like to do stuff with me and a few other guys. That way I can satisfy some of my wants, now just need to find some bi guys that will play !!!

 

Your friend is being honest with you.
The first mistake most people make in opening up their relationship is NOT setting the boundaries before the clothes come off.
Has your friend ever expressed interest in having bi-activity with you in the past? No? Then why would he be interested in it during a 3-way?

Why not have the 3-way he talked about and then see if she'd be interested in exploring other options?

 

That's not what he is saying...He is talking about snagging this gal out from under his friend's nose to get her to hook up with him and other guys.

Let me ask the OP this, "'why' do you have to have a woman with you just so you can do things with other males?" Do you feel it keep you from turning gay or what? That is not asked as a slam, as I have actually had clients that did exactly that.

Hush....an alias

 

I was gonna phrase it diferently, but essentialy I wanted to ask the same thing as Hush just did...
Just fuck other dudes and leave your friend and his wife to what they want.

P.S. And just how the fuck is that guy your friend, if you want to get his wife to cheat on him? WTF? How is that a "friend" of yours?

 

The key to a good threesome with a couple is to respect their boundaries. Always remember, you're the third person. If you want to have a bisexual threesome, find yourself another couple that's into it.
As for the suggestion to have a threesome with her and other men, I'm a bit confused by the original posting. You say: his ex-girlfriend. That means, are they somewhat a couple or are they not? Add to that, he's your best friend. That means, I think, that depending on what these two still have together, you might try and arrange things but not behind your best friend's back. If he's okay with it, that's another story.

 

Your friend knows that you are bi?? !maybe he wants to do something with you after all of these years and this is his way of bringing it up. Or maybe not.
If the female is his ex and you have all known each other for years then I would think that she would be fair game as a fuck buddy.
In any case if you go thru with it it tell him to watch out for friendly fire!!

 

What a best friend you are? Maybe if your best friend decide to get married, your best friend will ask you to be his best man. What makes you think his girlfriend wants to get into a threesome with you and watch you blow a guy? I feel so sorry for you, that your friend won't let you blow him. So use his girlfriend to get back at him. He deserves that for not letting you suck his cock. What a prick.

 

Me too.
Been planning one for over 20 years.
I will get there someday....

 

A lot of assumptions going on here. First of all he's married to someone else and this ex said she's be willing. Yes he knows I'm bi and he has told me that she is willing to try anything. We have been sharing women since high school days, a very long time ago !!! Including our wives at one time or another !!! And to Hush, I like both !!!