I am a bisexual woman. Sometimes I want to have sex with a guy, here lately I’ve wanted the sensuality of sex with a woman. Guys hit on me all the time. I would love to know the secret to get women to hit on me to let me know they are interested. It has been quite challenging to find a woman interested in a little bit of fun. Any advice would be appreciated

 

Are referring to on line here, or in real life?

 

Both actually

 

I am a Bi too. But most times, say 8 to 9 out of 10, I am happy making out with a male. Females come in only in those 1 or 2 chances out of 10, and thats fine by me. But if I wanted more females to hit me up, probably I would emphasise my Bi status more emphatically, by talking about it or mentioning it prominently and with some explanation.

 

Je vais trouver une femme dans le groupe pour bien jouer

 

This is a big problem for most bi females. Most bifems are what is known as a "shybi" They know they like girls too, but are too she or scared to do anything about it. Bi girls don't wear shirts saying, "Hi ladies I'm bi, so come and say Hi." It would be a lot easier if they did. So do what I do, if you "See something, say something" If you see a girl you like, politely let her know. You'd be surprised at their responses. But you'll never know if you don't act.

 

It's just human nature, that's only natural. The women here are still leery about me, can you seriously believe that? And I'm one of the sweetest, totally unrealistic guys out here, and of course the cockiest. But I don't sling bs. And you certainly don't sound like a lady by looking at your posts. Maybe the ladies feel the same?

 

@silkythighs is pretty spot on. It's actually very difficult knowing, but I have found that responses to extra eye contact or slightly flirty compliments can offer a clue to possible interest.
I have occasionally handed someone a note asking if she'd like a drink.
If you're still having problems then follow @hrlv 's advice and hang out for a while in a gay bar or club.

 

Dress the part.

 

Since I've been into women, I can tell!

 

I can understand challenging...waiting for any woman to hit on you...you really need to go to gay bar for that...but then the women hitting on you may not be your type - so a double waste of time, right?
A former bi gf was rather successful picking up single women at popular bars/clubs...just like any guy, looked for attractive, single women sitting at the bar...engaged in small talk, complimented her, defused situation by letting her know she was waiting for her friends to show up and that they were late...bought her a drink if the conversation progressed and if she opened up...she was adept at quickly finding out if the woman was interested... (Yes,, she gave me some great insight...)

 

Choosing bisexuality isn't easy and requires more of us sometimes, the suggestion of going to a lesbian bar could be good if you have one close or just put your interests out there and see who shows interest. Keep on searching for what you want and get out there more into places where like minded people congregate.

 

My gf says, all women are bi, just depends on how many drinks it takes to get them there... Haha

 

All females are just a couple of drinks away from going lesbian

 

I don't know all females, but my experience goes back to my teenager times ...
and then never reached a level like this again :-(

 

I'm so sorry, but i don't kik ... :-(

 

Also if your bi but not yet active, or bi curious and really really want to try it with another female. You can also think about attending a pride festival. You'll find hundreds of lesbians and bi girls there and all of them are very open sexually and readily approachable. But as pointed out, just talking to a girl is the best way to start. Of course you're going to run into a lot of straight females who just aren't interested. You just have to wade through and keep on, eventually you'll approach a lesbian, bi or bi curious female.