My husband and I both love cock. We have had many 3sums, but never any that were good for us both. He is always looking on websites for the perfect cock for us, while I like fucking friends. Our last round of 3sums I found very deeply satisfying. My husband, however, is now left with jealousy issues on top of not having all of his needs met. This last guy was his best friends nephew and the only one I ever initiated. I found the young man very attractive and practically begged him to let me fuck him. I have now fucked him 4 or 5 times, but only finished 3 times. All the strangers we have fucked were awful, tiny limp ducks attached to yucky people. I liked fucking the same guy over and over, but I wished he wasn't so straight. My hubby seems to think that we should only fuck strangers. What do you think?

 

Strangers keep things plutonic.. friends make things comfortable. . At first... alternate between the two

 

Do you like his choice in friends

 

Sometimes. I don't know how many of them I would actually want to fuck. And I don't know how I would feel about it if they were a bi friend. I have no way to compete with a man.

 

I'm curious as to the answer of that question myself.... So, do you? Or not? Doesn't really matter now though anyway, huh?

 

Yea right every thing youdo only yo can do dictate the situation

 

I think if there are fears of infidelity in the relationship then you folks are not ready to be fucking anyone out of it (the relationship).

Hush....an alias

 

Who you want to fuck and who he wants you to is irrelevant as that's your choice, strangers are best due to the degrees of separation but it sounds like this agreement is falling apart. If you two want to still be together after this I would seriously stop what you two are doing, until you can make certain decisions as to if you two should still continue playing together or if you two are mature enough to handle playing separately. Whatever you decide it's your relationship?

 

I think you guys ought to have a proper conversation about what it is you actually want sexually, and I'm not just talking about 3somes. It doesn't sound like a very healthy or balanced arrangement right now and seems like things will get a whole lot worse if you continue down the path that you are on.

 

The two of you are married and not on the same page. It's time for a serious conversation right now before this whole situation explodes. Not to say that you cant keep playing but not to say that you can. You are holding a lit match and a gas can in your hand right now.

 

I travel a lot and I have found hotel bars, hotel pools and workout room are prime places for singles and couples looking to experiment. Not long ago was in Atlanta hotel workout room in thin sleep pants (commando of course) , first a guy came in and was checking my semi hard outline then a little while later his wife came in. A little shy conversation about swinging and it was on. People get bold in their own homes but more often when they are away from anyone who might know them. It's the look on their face as they are checking you out gives away something is up.

 

Friend

 

strangers

 

Strangers have worked best for us. If you get together often enough they become regulars ,but never some one in the same social circle.

 

Strangers work for us and I do not think you will ever find a competition situation as bi male and straight women or bi women provides a different experience for the bi male then that offered by the bi male, obvious but
Not sure how one broaches the subject of, would you fuck us, with friends?

 

I'm in the same boat. I can't have sex with strangers. I need some kind of connection, even if just casual knowledge, like a friend or coworker. If I've never met the person, i just can't be myself.

My wants a female to join us and eventually a couple.. But she says nobody we know. That just makes things so much harder.

I've had sex with a bunch of friends in my time and never had it affect friendships. Both male and female. I've told her this, but her ex and her had 3some and had problems with the 3rd wanting more and with HIM wanting more.

Many people can't handle adding another, JUST SEX turns into more naturally. The question is, would you rather fuck strange people when you don't know where they've been, or fuck friends who you know better and are more comfortable with, yet taking that risk. They know you, and are attractive enough to agree to the sex, you just can't know if MORE could develop in their minds.

Hard choice definitely. I have a very good female friend right now, whom I've already had sex with years ago ( friends then, friends now, it didn't change us) who is willing to join us, but my gf isn't too keen. I love my friend, not in love at all, i could never be in a relationship with her for certain reasons, and same for her. So WE know nothing would ever come of it, but my gf is sceptical.

It's all about trust.... But even then.......

 

Trying to get wife up for a stranger she likes the idea just
Not sure about doing it only had tits felt a couple of times
So far

 

Why not find a stranger online, but before meeting, ask to see his erection on a live cam, so you can both decide whether to meet - just an idea to avoid your obvious disappointments up to now