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  1. strywriter

    strywriter Porn Star

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    I was looking for story category dealing with swinging or hotwife, I saw the category Cuckold, and that is close but not really the same. I ask because the wife was checking out the story last night and wondered if what she has been doing is all that unusual and she thought maybe we shouldn't be sharing her adventures if people are going to think she is some sort of perverted cheater. I assured her that I didn't think it was all that unusual, certainly not in the 21st century but now I wonder. So, i told her I would reach out to the other writers on here and ask.

    So, is this the sort of stuff we should be sharing???
     
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    1. NCfan
      You have the option to post it as fiction. But form what I read on the sexuality forum here, and in other stories, yours is far from the most unusual situation.
       
      NCfan, Mar 26, 2021
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    2. CaseEcorche
      CaseEcorche, Mar 26, 2021
    3. strywriter
      I told her the same thing, that no one on here knows us, so what's it matter what they think of you, but she doesn't always look at things from the practical standpoint and thought if a site like this, which has some pretty far out categories, doesn't have a swapping or hotwife category, then we must be wierd.

      I have just never really considered putting a label on what she has done and it wasn't until she had several "flings" that we even talked about having sex with other couples, after which we sort of took on the label "swingers" because that's what the other couples we were involved with decided to call it.

      I will consider posting under "Cuckold" because as you said, it is one of the descriptions in Urban Dictionary!
      "Cuckold" A word used to describe a married man who's wife is sleeping with other men.
       
      strywriter, Mar 26, 2021
    4. throatHER
      You're thinking about this way too seriously...lol.
      It's a sex story site.

      A famous porn star once said, "Yes, I'm a slut... but who says there is anything wrong with being a slut."

      If you and your wife are happy with her 'extracurricular activities' then that's all that matters.

      Let her wear her slut cape proudly. I'm all for it!!

      I haven't read any of your stories but it seems you have a following so keep doing what you're doing.

      throatHer out....
       
      throatHER, Mar 26, 2021
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    5. strywriter
      Thanks!
       
      strywriter, Mar 26, 2021
  2. CaseEcorche

    CaseEcorche Amateur

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    Crazy. I finally fixed the themes issue with my Emma story. After an initial spike in both views and ratings, I got a couple negatives, and that's all it took to plunge the ratings. Eh, it's still over 90%, so I won't get my tighty whities in a wad. Moving on with my next work.
     
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    1. CaseEcorche
      An interesting stat: When the story was up with no themes, I had 100 positive and 5 negative. After working with StanleyOG to add appropriate themes, it went to 125 positive and 11 negative. The negative ratings more than doubled.

      Number of views is way up, though, from about 6k to over 12k. So I'll just take my views and be happy.
       
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  3. dlcalguy

    dlcalguy Porno Junky

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    I feel your pain. One or two early negatives can kill a good story. A lot of people don't delve past the first page. Hope your story recovers, but it takes time.
     
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  4. housewife2021

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    I too have experienced similar experiences with my story. We are all different and inevitably we at times challenge some people's views on life and instead of accepting something different their reactions are to vote negative. For the most part I do not think it is a reflection on the quality of the writing but yes it hurts.
     
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  5. strywriter

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    i agree with housewife, I read it and I thought it was well written, although not my sort of thing, but the writing deserves to be recognized. I know for my first story I made the mistake of putting the ending in a separate chapter and without much sex it sort of bombed. But as one of the more experienced writers on here told me, keep writing for yourself, you will get better and if nothing else you will like it!
     
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    1. CaseEcorche
      Funny thing, you start out as a writer thinking you'll write this or that. But you change after a few years and start writing things you never imagined. But only if you don't restrict yourself to writing what you THINK someone else wants. That's a long way of saying, "your advice is sound". Thanks for the support and encouragement, from you and others.
       
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  6. strywriter

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    I posted the second part of our second story and I thought it was pretty hot. But it is tanking over on sexstories.com! Can someone take a look and tell me where I went wrong??? Here is the link below. The title is A Voice from the Past and it is sort of the continuation form my first story, Farewell Lunch.

    https://www.sexstories.com/story/101830/

    Thanks,
     
    1. CaseEcorche
      I thought it went well with the rest of the story. I kind of like the psychological toll it's taking on Diana. Maybe other readers don't.
       
      CaseEcorche, Apr 1, 2021
    2. strywriter
      Thank you, and no worries, she got over it before I knew she was having guilt pains. I am considering take them down and then re-posting them back to back to back so at least they are all up in the same genre. Anyone ever try that so that people can get invested if they want to without looking far?
       
      strywriter, Apr 2, 2021
  7. throatHER

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    @strywriter I will tell you what I have told others in the past. Sequels are a tricky thing. Not every story needs or deserves one. In order for a sequel the reader must be invested in the main character/characters. A plain sex story will not cut it. It has to be a story that has sex in it.

    That's the general rule from my perspective.
     
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    1. CaseEcorche
      Good point. Anyone reading it standalone has no reason to care about the characters.
       
      CaseEcorche, Apr 1, 2021
    2. strywriter
      I appreciate your point, my big problem right now is that we came down this path because we wanted to share some of her naughty experiences, so I don't know how I could write them without them running together. I suppose I could cut some out and change her name, but I don't know how she will feel. have to think on that...
       
      strywriter, Apr 2, 2021
    3. throatHER
      Write them as one story. And let's be clear. No one knows who your wife is. So, does it really matter if you change the characters name to make it two different stories?

      I have skimmed through both of your stories. Your writing is good but the plot is nothing that really grabbed me. A story is much more than being able to put words together it's how those words radiate out and make the reader feel something.

      Yes, the number one person we should write for is ourselves because once you start chasing what you think the readers want is when you lose yourself. But, that being said the words must make the reader want to continue being invested in the story.

      Just a few thoughts for your next piece of material
       
      throatHER, Apr 3, 2021
    4. strywriter
      Thank you. You make a good point in that my wife would still see her adventures in writing, even if they are smaller stories. I will give your suggestion consideration.
       
      strywriter, Apr 11, 2021
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  8. HollowHeart

    HollowHeart Porn Surfer

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    Can anyone help: I posted my next story lyesterday but its stuck in Edit mode and I cant open it or delete it. when i click on the edit button i just get forbidden. It doesnt have the view option of my other stories?
     
    1. strywriter
      Yes, apparently, the administrators hold the story until they can check it to assure it has no underage sex in it and then they post it or reject it. I am relatively new at this, but mine have been posted within a three or four days. And as it says on the page where you post it, once you post it, you cannot edit it. To edit it, you have to remove it, edit it, and then put back with a different name.
       
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  9. strywriter

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    The third part of our story is now up on sex stories side sexstories.com/story/102031/a_voice_from_the_past_part_3.
    So far so good, but only 7 people have rated so we will have to wait and see how well it does in a week or two.
     
    Last edited: Apr 14, 2021
    1. CaseEcorche
      I thought this part worked really well.
       
      CaseEcorche, Apr 20, 2021
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    2. strywriter
      Thank you, I am going to post part four tomorrow so it should be up in a few days. I was pleasantly surprised that even part 2 is up to 90%, and I wanted to thank those of you who may have helped it!
       
      strywriter, Apr 25, 2021
  10. Cazmodius

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    Would it be appropriate to post a poll question here in regards to writer vs reader preferences?
    I see women write from the male perspective, but not many makes who write from the female perspective. Do readers order one gender or thre other?
     
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    1. NCfan
      I have stories told by a woman. Male perspective is easier for me of course.
       
      NCfan, Apr 20, 2021
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      I agree with NFfan below..
      I think women readers have a preference of a woman author because of the perspective etc... assuming the gender of the author is correct...
      but also add into the mix that different genre readers have differing preferences.
      Some genres seem more sympathetic than others...
      Some genres carry more trolls than others distorting reading figures and scores..
      hey ho the life of an author.....
       
      Nellymcboatface, Apr 21, 2021
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  11. NCfan

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    I don't think there's a problem with a poll. One reason it's difficult to tell is that not everyone posts AS the gender they really are.
     
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  12. strywriter

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    Hello, Mrs. strywriter here, and although I like stories that are from the female perspective I also like the opposite! I think guys think, act and write dirtier than women do and sometimes I am in the mood for smutty, dirty sex; other times for soft, passionate sex.
     
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  13. DirtyOrator

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    I’m new here, still trying to figure out how to get the permissions I need in order to post …. Almost anything lol. Apparently, I need to make 6 posts in a subgroup, sub thread (?).

    Years ago I was on the “Experience Project” (EP), I had a handful of stories posted there, I’m hopping to be able to repost them.

    I really hope this post is the one that gives me the permissions I need lol
     
    1. NCfan
      It's a slow process. Keep posting on the various forums when you can and you'll get there.
       
      NCfan, Apr 23, 2021
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    2. strywriter
      Yeah, the easiest thing to do is just go to the sexuality thread and make comments about the various subjects. It doesn't matter whether they are witty or even on point, just make a comment and it won't take you long to get permission. Let us know when you post so we can check it out!
       
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  14. DirtyOrator

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    Thanks for the advice.
    I dusted off the files yesterday, it was like reading them for the first time. After rereading them, clearly I need to clean up the grammar. The stories held up, but man my spelling is awful. lol
     
    1. strywriter
      Believe me, I know what you mean, I have edited mine several times and there are still mistakes, no doubt, but all we can do is what we know.
       
      strywriter, Apr 25, 2021
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  15. White Walls

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    Hey all,
    I'll be posting the rewrite of my fantasy/erotica adventure here. If you're interested in the finished product, you can get it for free at Smashwords. Sidenote, if anyone wants a professional-ish book cover done, I am open to commissions. Photoshop has been my main hobby since losing interest in writing erotica.
     
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  16. DirtyOrator

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    Advice Needed
    I tried to post my first story yesterday (5/10/21). I knew that it would not be published immediately, that it has to go through the check out process. I did expect to see it in the "My Files" list, but it is not there, it seems to have vanished. The last time I saw it, I hit the "save" button. I had a couple of errors, one was something about a token, the second said my synopsis was to long. I edited the synopsis, on the second try the error was gone and so was the Token error. They were replaced with "Name already used." I was trying to get to the edit screen when the story vanished. Its not that big of a deal, I have it saved, I just don't know if the is "normal" or if I need to repost. Its my first story, I don't know what "normal" looks like on here yet.
    I'm leaning towards reposting but I don't want to get slammed for "spamming the forum" with the same story....
    I'm VERY open to suggestions
    Thanks!
     
  17. Payne_Hall

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    There’s nothing useful in this, but a friend was singing Bob Rivers’ Dirty Deeds Done With Sheep and I thought of you guys.
     
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    1. NCfan
      I thought it was all about goats here? Who brought in the sheep?
       
      NCfan, May 12, 2021
  18. DirtyOrator

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    I just submitted my first story here. I know it will be a day or two before it is published, will I get an alert or do I need to keep checking back?

    Thanks
     
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    1. NCfan
      I'm assuming you mean on sexstories.com? You'll need to go check. Hopefully it's in before the weekend as nothing happens on Sat/Sun
       
      NCfan, May 12, 2021
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  19. Nellymcboatface

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    Well done on your first, as NCfan says, sexstories can take a few days but not over weekends... Keep dropping to check, no ...
    you won't get notification.
     
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  20. DirtyOrator

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    Thanks - I hope it makes it before the weekend
     
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