Okay, getting girls has never been an issue for me. If need to be, I'll simply get another if I can't change this girl, who I am really crazy about.

Alright, so my problem is this.. My girl friend is drop dead gorgeous. However, she has a hygene problem, down there.. She is starting to wonder why I refuse to go down on her. I want to very badly, but I just don't know how to tell her. I don't want to be an ass and just blurt it out!

If anyone has or has had this problem, please let me know how you handled this, or atleast how you would handle it. I'd like to continue seeing my girlfriend, but I'm really getting grossed out with her bad hygene. I've never had this problem with any other girl. Please REPLY!

 

When you say bad hygiene, do you mean that she smells or she really doesn't wash herself?

 

Smells, but I think it's cuz she doesnt wash herself or somthing. I've gone down on many girls before, and yeah theirs always an order or scent, but my current girlfriend like fucking reaks super bad!

 

Take a shower with her and doing the washing for her. I mean I know I smell like sweat right now but I'm also 9 months pregnant I try and keep myself as clean as I can but when I was with my ex I could still smell myself all over him after we had sex or anytime he'd get me off.

 

Her problem might not be lack of washing, she could very well have an infection. You could say something along the lines that you think she should see her doctor because her odor indicates an infection. That you don't want to go down on her until she's checked out, because yes...a yeast infection can spread. Either way (if it is an infection or if it's bad hygiene)...she'll get the hint.

 

Thanks for the help! Yeah, I really never even thought about an infection. I will hint it out to her as kindly as I can. Thank you again!

 

I have a bit of a similar problem, except in her case it's definitely not an infection... To put it bluntly, I love her, but when pulling down her panties they are always quite dirty, and not from being wet. It makes me uncomfortable to mention that to her, but I need to eventually. Do you think you know someway to make it easier?

 

Shade, we can be clueless together about our girlfriends... lol

 

wow.

if she's dirty in the way your talking, she's setting herself up for one wicked vaginal and/or urinary infection. Fecal material in that region is a seriously bad idea. I'd approach it from the point of view of a hygenically concerned boyfriend. It sounds gross, but things like wipping front to back, washing herself and changing her underwear daily will go a long ways in helping out your situation and keeping her from developing a nasty infection. Good luck w/that.

 

A surprisingly good post from someone with 11 posts

 

Easy there pookey, I've been here less than a month and I'm trying to keep my posts to short comments or significant insight. No sense in restating whats already been said.

 

I guess, but he reworded everything and gave his own insight with a well worded easily comprehendable statement, I have not seen much of that here ^^

 

Its best to just tell her. I had the issue with my gf for awile and didn't say anything. then she started complaining about sex hurting and it burning when she peed after. I then told her and convinced her to go to dr cause all the symtoms were likely related. She said she kind of felt dirty and scummy from it but it could be a symtom of a problem.So she went to her doctor and found out she had a urinary tract infection. The doctor gave her antobiotics and a single use cream for bacterial vaginosis just in case. Within days she felt much better and smelled and tasted great. Another thing I think helps and the women here can prob verify this is baths. I think a bath a couple of times a week helps things out a lot. So buy her some nice bubble bath and encourage that.