If you read the profile, I'm Mary and my husband is Jake, we're all about sex, we've been married for 30 years and never had a problem with the other one playing alone, it's all about trust, never lie to your partner or married one,
When we were younger, I was in a lesbian relationship with a girl at college, and he was gay in a relationship with two gay men,
I found him to actually be very attractive and after some time I decided that if I ever wanted to have a child, I would want him to be the first man that I ever have sex with,
Just before graduation I would seduce him all well knowing that he might be be interested in me, so one night I pretended to be drunk when we all went out for drinks after work,
I asked him to please take me home and he did, when we arrived at my house, I asked if he would like a drink and he said sure,
Instead of making him a drink,I go to the bathroom and put my strap on and walk out of the bathroom, when he looks at me I say if I give you what you want, will you give me what I want,
What's is that he asked, I want you to be the first man I have sex with, but I didn't tell him that I wanted to have a child with him,
As it turns out he had never been with a woman before and was not sure
After some small talk, he did get horny to get fucked looking at my strap on, he gets undressed and for the first time I see what I thought was a nice cock and I was right,
He was hard too but I asked him how it wants me to fuck him, without saying anything, he gets on his back and pulls his legs up, give it to me he says,
I lube his ass and put my strap on in his ass, I don't know who was enjoying more, him or me, he starts to stroke himself and watching him do it actually gave me a orgasm,
I continue to fuck his ass till I was spent, I take the strap on off and lay on the bed next to him, now fuck me I deserve it, he tells me that he's never fucked a woman before, he's only been with men, no problem just get on top of me and place your cock by my pussy, I'll do the rest,
He does and I do and now I tell him just shove it in,
As he does that he says to me that it feels just like a ass, I say good now fuck it like a ass too, now I've only had another woman with a strap on fuckin me but this felt much better,
I start to have a orgasm and I think that pushed him over the edge, and he shoots his load in me, but then says oh Damm I'm normally used to fuckin a guy and Cumming in his ass but what if you get pregnant,
I say to him, I'll be honest with you I want to have a child and I thought you would make the perfect father of that child, but I'm not into in becoming a father, I love my life as a gay man,
As it turns out I did get pregnant and we decided in the best interest of the child, we would get married, but agree to let each other enjoy their sexuality, me love being with women and him with men,
After 30 years of marriage we both have come to enjoy both men and women and become swingers,
We know alot of you will not believe this but it's your problem not ours, believers will believe and haters will be haters and only wish they had it as good as we do,
Unless you don't have something nice to say to us then don't say it at all,
We have a gorgeous house with a deck and swimming pool to host parties, and we have a cabin up north on a lake and deck overlap the lake, poon toon boat and bass boat on a very quiet lake, where everyone knows who we are and what we're all about,
We've worked very hard to make friends with alot of people throughout the years, and we trust each and every one of them,
You will never see us hang our heads down and be unshamed of who we are, so if you read our post, feel free to leave a nice comment and leave the bad ones to yourself,

 

I wish my wives had felt this way. I might even still be married.

 

I love this! I wish my marriage had been like this.

 

I admire you and Jake: You are happy, i think you found a good way to live together and love and support eachother.

But, without judgement and positive meant, i am not jaelous. I am married with a woman. We deaply love eachother...yes also physically....and we are both monogaan. Like everybody, we have our differences, problems, sometimes solved, sometimes not, but our love keeps us together.

I cannot and don't want to live like you....it does not mean i live the wrong way, it does not mean you live the wrong way. We both made different choices, that fit our personalities...and both are happy with it....that counts..is good.

let us try to do the same: continue to enjoy life....without judging in term of good or bad...enjoy the differences and love it.

 

It took time an effort for me an my wife to get to the point we are now...we swingers but only with people that we both. Approve of...an do not lie..