I am 25 years old and horny ALL the time.

The problem is I am so shy and have such low self esteem that I can't even work up enough courage to tell my husband about my over active sex drive.

When my husband and I first met we couldn't keep our hands off each other, but ever since our son was born (18 months ago) he seems to have no sex drive. I mean I'm lucky if I get sex once a week.

I end up masturbating anywhere from 4 to 8 times a day. I cannot fall asleep unless I've got off at least twice.

When we do have sex it is in the missionary position with him on top. I am to self conscious about my body to be on top. I am always thinking about all the other positions I'd like to try, especially doggy style. I just don't have the guts to tell him.

So on days like today when I have the day off and he is at work I sit here on the computer and look at xnxx. He has NO idea that I've ever looked at porn. Truth is I am a hypocrite because I'd get really pissed if I caught him looking at porn.

I need advise on how to spice thing up and get over my self consciousness before my fingers fall off or my "back" massager short circuits.

 

You need to open your lips up - and not those downstairs - talk to him - make time for each other - try experimenting in the bedroom with uniforms etc - but the key thing is to keep trying and talk to each other - don't clam up !

 

I'll be right over to help you out!!

In a way if he is only interested once a week and you catch him looking at porn I could see where you would be pissed.

You really have to work on your self image. Maybe start setting up special nights or dates to spice things up a bit.

Get a baby sitter, dress up all sexy and see if you can spark his interest.

 

If you don't want to keep on masturbating 8 times a day, seven days a week, you will have to go out and have at least a couple of one night stands. Maybe your sex relation with your husband will get better after that.

 

How about this idea: Let him catch you watching porn. Let him catch you masturbating...and just keep doing it. Cum right in front of him, while he watches. He needs to understand what a sexual being you are, and that you will NOT be denied.

 

you really have to get to talking make sure you do it, the talking out of the bedroom when you first approach the subject, why dont you just surprise him when he gets home one day,
do something different, get the kids off to a baby sitter, the last thing to worry about is your looks when you jump him at the door or something like that don't wait for sex take it to him

 

A very good idea! It can really work.

 

solution

:rose:when he is about to come go in doggy style and start fuccing urself . he will definatily go behind you

 

hi sexxy

:rose: i am looking for sexxy girls wanting fun on chat if ur find urself fit for it mail me anything of ur.

 

its kinda sad that people are trying to negotiate cyber in a "help thread" lol oh well....just talk to him...it may be hard for you to do because you are shy about the topic, but once you let him know don't you think it'll be worth it? :rose:

 

Be Adventurous ..........

Well I expect he is a little shy too. Maybe he would like to suggest new things to you but is afraid you'll think he is some sort of perve. So its either boring sex for the rest of your life or be daring and try something new. Why not ask him if he would like to suggest something new that he might like to try? That way you save face and he thinks you are open to new things without you coming across as a raging nympho! Hopefully your needs will be met by his new suggestions. Who knows he might ask you to suggest something new too! Now as far as being afraid to go on top etc just go for it! Whats the worst thing that can happen? If he laughs or is derogatory then you shouldn't be with him anyway! He is proabably a decent bloke who will be turned on by the new experience .Take it from me! He will be more concerned about your pussy sliding up and down on his cock than your cellulite or anything else your worried about! So be adventurous and let us know how you get on!!

 

Yep!

 

do this

When he comes home from work. don't say anything and just drop to your knees and pull his cock out and start sucking. and when you do talk tell him how much of a cock slut you are and you need to be fucked everywhere and all the time tell him you are his whore

 

You have to TALK to your husband.. He wont mind.. He's a guy... Lol

 

i think this the best suggestion here and you should give it a go if that fails do this:

that should get his attention

 

just tell him
open up
get frisky wake him up with a blow job walk around naked
masterbate in front of him
keep porn on the coffee table as casually as a dvd
and stop worrying about ur body

 

same boat

hey i have same proplem only im a male.I think u should let him know and see what happens from their.I have told my wife and to be honest it got me nowhere,but maybe u will have luck! I sit and watch porn look at photos of other women and get myself off every day sex is great we only live one time and it should be enjoyed!

 

Trust me, VERY few men alive would be upset if their wife came to them and said, "I want to try new positions and get fucked like the sex crazed whore I am".

Trust me, he won't be able to keep his hands off you!

 

I must disagree. I know at least two cases, where the husbands never had any sexual discussions with their wives before or after the intercourse, and would always fuck in one and the same position. In both cases, the wives wanted to change the position and talk to their husbands about sex, but never had a chance.

 

I wish my gf had this "problem" - it is actually the other way around for us, and every time I try and get creative I come off as a pervert. I know this was originally meant for a female, but does anyone have any suggestions for the other way around?