Well safest bet is neither get drunk, it avoids alot of disappointment and regret for both involved. Had a friend who was drunk and hanging on a guy but the next morning she thought he raped her. She forgot giving him consent but I was in the room so sadly, I had to side with the guy.

 

What world do you come from you dumbass :evil:

 

Yhea mi Girl love it when i give her a full body oil massage especially a foot massage she just melts & even fall a sleep...

its a bit hard for me to wake her up after that :twisted:

 

...lol know that one m8 just rub her up for a little too long and bang out like a light... he hee heeee

 

Talk to her.

Its simple but its true (I've found), get to know her, get close to her.. and if you dont know by then, just ask! :lol:

 

I like getting foot rubs. Those turn me on almost as much as shoe shopping. I have a good story about giving a guy a footjob while I was shoe shopping once, if you want to hear it.

 

intelligent conversation

 

The best thing i found is to talk to her and ask her questions during foreplay and let her ask you questions my mrs is really shy when it comes to sex but i found talking goes a long way we have been together for almost 4 years with 2 kids now and before it was just sex but after our second child her sex drive dropped almost to the point i was begging but now thanks to talking we have a great sex life and she's come out her shell alot even to the point i went out a bought a sex toy where as before that would have been a big no no. give it a go you'll both get alot out of it both sex and relationship wise just remember women are not like us men most need to feel loved and relaxed :wink:

 

I agree...talking is one of the keys. And let's face it, talking about sex is HOT!

Do it over dinner, in a nice restaurant, and by the time you pay the tab, you'll both be ready to rip each other's clothes off in the parking lot.

 

Gotta agree with you, Kimiko, but how do you bring it up? In a new dating situation, I mean?

Or even casually once you're in a relationship? If she's not in the mood, she probably won't feel comfortable discussing it.

 

Slowly.. i mean if its your first date don't say anything about sex or past partners unless she brings it up.. she won't get turned on if you start going on about past one nighters or g/f's try not to talk about yourself to much girls like it when your asking questions about them it shows that your intrested, and i wouldn't really talk about sex while eating out if your new g/f is shy then you'll just make her wish she wasn't there.. wait untill you get back to hers or yours (coffee etc..) get her relaxed then move in for the kill start slow they like it slow give her a kiss she how she takes it (her reaction will tell you alot, the more you get to know her the better you can read her signs) then just ask things like how do you like to be kissed? and build it up from there but remember to keep talking and touching asking if she likes it.. try not to come up with "so what turns you on?" she'll just be thinking "great another man that just wants one thing" but if your talking to her and touching her you'll soon see what turns her on (half the fun is exploring)..remember this.. if your pleasing her then she'll open up more and be more willing. but if your idea of foreplay is to stick 2 fingers up straight away for 30 secs then to jump on it without saying nothing then she won't get much out of it and be less willing to do it/you again. take your time and move the speed she sets (if you've just started dating)