Aren't most of us curious? Sex is sex, whether it's with another man or a woman. The feelings you have during that relationship, I think, are what identify you as straight or gay. Of course now that I said that, I think if I was having sex with a guy who was a best friend I might feel love for him as easily as for a woman I was with. Don't really know.

Another interesting question for discussion... Does it really matter if we kiss another guy? Why is kissing and holding hands considered so much more intimate than sucking or fucking? I think about sucking a cock or jerking off with another guy and I think it would just be natural if I was sitting next to this guy and had one arm around his shoulders and one hand around his cock that I would pull him to me and kiss. Of course that would lead to me dropping my head a bit and sucking him.

See, I guess I have thought about this.

 

Life is to experience everything

You will never know until you try it. I rarely think of sex when I see a guy - much the opposite when I spy an attractive lady. But, sex with a man is just about as good - unique in many ways. What if you wait until you're too old to find out that sucking a stiff rod is about as much fun as licking a juicy pussy.

 

ive thought about sucking a cock. im not attracted to guys, just their cocks, but curious to try it, or even sucking 2 cocks and having hot cum shot on my face and mouth.

 

i've fantasized about it getting my dick jerked first time around by a guy, and maybe get sucked if i liked it or not, but i don't know if i'd let a guy fuck me, i would probably prefer to fuck him...but don't know if i would actually do it...the wife and i talked about it too...she would make me suck her strapon and then fuck my ass...we'd watch some gay or bi porn sometimes too but i don't know if it'll ever happen...

 

I am absolutely straight, but sometimes I imagine myself fucked by a shemale or a guy.

I can't think myself kissing a guy though.

 

I've had a couple experiences with guys, Ive sucked a guy off while messing around in a threesome, I've had a guy suck me off in a club, and once at a party I actually fucked one of my male friends in the ass (he asked me for it). Ive never dated a guy or anything but the idea of fooling around with guys turns me on for sure. I really dont think that I would like to be fucked in the ass, but I dont think that I would be against doing it again in the right situation.

 

I've never experienced it, but when I'm hard and horny, my mind easily slips into thoughts of being with another man, holding each others cocks, sucking each others cocks, and maybe fucking one another.

I'd try it if it was the right situation i'm sure. But after I cum, the thought is quite gross to me..

 

im bi curious at the current time if you wanan cyber to see what its sounds like and if you might like it let me know

 

I guess the way I feel about it is sex is all about what feels good. I can't even imagine myself kissing a guy or having a relationship with a guy. Fortunately my wife and I have a very healthy and experimental sex life. And while I have had the occasional fantasy about sucking a cock, or being fucked by a guy, I love my wife unconditionally and the fact that she is open to satisfying me with a strap on whenever I ask for it, or that she finds it totally hot if I fuck my ass with a big dildo only makes me want her more.

And I love pussy too. The smell, the taste, the sensation of fucking my wife are insanely hot. As many have stated in one way or another, your life isn't a dress rehersal, its the real thing. So if you are curious, give it a try. Don't worry about dealing with the stigma of classifying yourself as gay, bi, straight, or anything inbetween. Simply consider youself sexually active and open to try whatever turns you on. Enjoy.

 

mr. happy is cool. only diferrence is, though my wife is somewhat open and has performed a few things to satisfy those needs, she is never really enthosiastic about it. needlass to say she hasn't real ended those desires in me. not that i think she really could.

 

Fake cock

If you have a gf and still want cock, you should try it with a fake one. Buy one and play with it, it will have double use for you and your gf. If you want to be serious with your gf or wf stick with the fake one, do not gamble your relationships.

 

I've kinda coined the term "cocksucking fetish" for this. I'm the same way. I'm not attracted to men, have no desire to be in a relationship with a man, etc. But I've given my fair share of blowjobs and swallowed my fair share of cum. I just absolutely ADORE sucking cock. I wish I could do it more.

 

Same here. Well said.

 

curious but havnt acutally done it

 

i have a girlfriend and would only want to be in a relationship with a girl wouldn't want to kiss or do any kind of lovey kindda stuff with a guy. but ya i'm the same i fantasize about sucking cock,could be from watching porn and associating blowjobs with women(tried watching gay porn out of curiosity but didn't really do it, has to be a girl giving it in porn. well thats just me)would only enjoy i think with a girl involved aswell i think 1 on 1 with a guy would wierd me out, lucky for me my girlfrind likes the idea even thinks i should get my ass fucked as i like when she put her fingers in me,with this said nd nothing really holding me back still haven't tried.it one thing to fantasize another to actually do!

 

Kissing a guy

Kissing a guy is a lot like kissing a girl/woman. I used to not like the idea of kissing a guy, then one time a good freind of mine accosted me and planted a big ol' liplock on my lips, and he tasted good. (didn't smoke cigs). I ended up kissing him back, with a little tongue also. Kinda turned me on, too. The point being, is that when you're intimate w/ anyone, man or woman, you've entered into a relationship of sorts.
No need to be uncomfortalble about it. Just keep on keeping on the way you were before anything sexual happened between you two, or three or four. One of my favorite fantasies, involves men only. You're still people, and outside influences, like 'what others think' is bullshit. :rose:

 

If you like being with guys on occasion go for it. The one thing that holds people back from doing what they want are labels. I have on occasion gone down on guys and hd them go down on me and found it enjoyable. I once went down on a guy in front of a girlfriend and had the BEST sex ever.

 

Wow, it's great to hear so many share similar views... "cocksucking fetish" makes sense. I've actually always wondered what the term might be (always thinking of "penis envy"...but that's a different thing all together).

A question for those of you (men) who fantasize about cocks only: how do you go about pursuing those thoughts? Do you go on craigslist? Go on gay personals or chatrooms? Do you have friends you can go to in the time of need? And when you go to these places, what do you find yourself looking for?

Personally, I tend to be looking for a cock that has similar characteristics to my own: bigger than 6.5", great looking head, shaved, circumsized, and attached to a dude who isn't overweight, lol.

I scour Xtube to find jerkoff videos of dudes with similar cocks... and prefer the vids of guys cumming slowly, i.e. when it pours out rather than shoots or sprays. Not sure why this is...but...it is.

 

Straight

I am bi and I love it. The best sex I ever had was with my second wife, the second best sex I ever had was with my brother. The 100 0/0 straight or 100 0/0 gay guy is extremely rare. Most of the responders here admitted they had gay fantasies; then they said they'd never act on them. I personally am about 30 0/0 gay and 70 0/0 straight. I ove gay fantasies, but most of my experience is straight. I have refused gays; the only reason I would ever refuse an attractive straight relationship would have been because of my wife (Now deceased)

 

im definitely bi curious. ever since i started watching freaks of cock video i've been obsessed with it, i would definitely suck it off(i know it's fake) ever since then i always try to watch interracial porn.