When was your first time to do did a couple swap, and was it planned or accidentally?

Mine was with my brother and his wife, it was planned. My brother always had a thing for my wife. I wasn’t really that attracted to his wife but, I mainly wanted to see my wife get fucked!

Everything went as planned and everyone had a good time and we continue doing it for awhile.

that was also the first time she saw me having gay sex, which she totally loved and liked watching.

 

The first couple swap I had didn't go well. My ex- didn't want to do I. It was an excellent swinger party orgy and we planned on doing so with another couple but, I didn't want to force it or out pressure. But we had a blast doing other things like feeling up and groping other couples, and vice versa. But haven't found anyone to do any swaps with since.

 

Actually our first swap was at a swingers party, and we swapped with both the man and woman,

 

First time was pure accident. Where away with the ex and got chatting to an older couple few drinks later playing drinking games in there room and ended up full swap ..

 

Planned. My first wife and I had been having 3-some with one of her co-workers. One day she told us that she wanted to bring her husband in for a swap. I was nervous, even though my wife and I knew we were both bi, she had never seen me with another guy. Little did we know we were being interviewed to join a couple group. It wasnt awkward until the girls wanted to watch us. After about 5 minutes of getting my cock sucked, I was good.... We had 5 great years as friends and after my wife left and I had to leave the group, I still got together with our friends every now and then

 

Ours was planned! We had many conversations about it before we did it. Once we were committed, we joined a swinger's club in the area. The week after we joined, we went to a hotel event the club was putting on. We were the newbies, but everyone was really nice to us and made evening really comfortable. We swapped with two different couples that night and we were hooked.

 

Our first swap was more spontaneous I guess. It was with her sister and her husband . They lived up north and always stayed with us when they came down for a visit. We'd had sex on the same bed on many occassions then one day I was talking with him and just out of the I blue suggested we swap and he readily agreed. We approached the girls and her sister readily agreed but my wife was more hesitant but agreed saying that if everyone else wanted to she would.
It was slightly awkward as he finished with my wife first then kind of left her alone to come over to his wife while we were having sex and began kissing her. Sensing my wifes discomfort I left her sister and moved over to enjoy seconds with my wife. We never did it again or talked about it afterwards but did continue to have sex on the same bed when they visited.

 

Never have, and never will.

 

My first couple swap was planned. It happened in my first marriage. Once my husband proposed me to try it with his friend’s couple. This couple was already known to me, we spent some pleasant time together with them in husband’s company New Year corporate party. Both them were nice and friendly, husband was male-attractive guy, his wife was a nice woman with permanent desire to do something pleasant to her husband. I found that idea attractive, and in one Fri evening we came to their home. Few drinks, nice talks “about this and that”, and finally my husband takes her, her husband takes me, and both new temporary couples proceeded to separate bedrooms. For that time I already had good experience and skills of MFM, so it was not a problem for me to fuck with another man. We undressed, bj to him and some fondles to me, and we began to fuck. He fucked me great, just great, changing positions every time after making me to cum. We did it safe, so in some moment he gave me his cock ready to cum, and I took condom off, sucked him off and swallowed all his load. Excitation was very high, so it didn’t take a long time to recover him rock hard again. After that we did a new round. Then we had some rest in hugs, and after that he said me – let’s watch how are our spouses there. We stood up and proceeded to other bedroom barefoot. Door was open, so we could watch everything. And, it was worth to watch that!.. My husband fucked his wife with all his power, in doggy across the bed, standing on floor. Two already used condoms with wide cum spots around in different corners of bed clearly indicated that time was not wasted here. Her husband and me looked to each other – and wordless joined to them. I wear his cock with new condom, take doggy next to her, and he begin to fuck me in tact with my husband fucks his wife, “thrust to thrust”. She came first, me in a minute after her, it was great. Then we had a joint session, true 4some in one bed. Our husbands swapped and spitroasted us few times more. At the end of that session we all were quite satisfied and just happy. It was a great fuck race with a great finish. Unfortunately, this story had no sequel, next month this couple left our city, and their further way is not known to me. Our couple continued 4some practice, and did it almost till divorce.

 

In the years when we did our threesomes, we did one couple swap. We met through IRC chat, in the early days of internet.

The couple wasn't really a click with us. We did swap and fuck together, but just once. I think a threesome has a better dynamic.

 

My then wife me my friend and his wife all went out of together the girls got drunk and ended up going down on each other and from that it got started I wasn’t a big fan of swapping if we was in the same room but he would go to my house with my wife and I would go to his house with his wife I was more into that

 

Ours was sort of spontaneous. We hung out with three other couples all the time and had played all the strip games we could think of with a lot of fooling around and one night it was guys against girls in some card game and they won so they got to decide what they got for winning. They talked among themselves and then announced they wanted to swap partners for the night. We drew cards to see who would go with who and then we went home with whoever we drew. I drew April and although it was a little awkward at first once we were naked and I took her in my arms things smoothed out and we had a fun night playing.

 

My wife is never up for it. I really wanna try but don't want to be unfaithful

 

Our first and only full swap to date was completely unplanned, unprepared, unprotected and all manner of unsafe.

My GF at the time (now my wife) was out clubbing with a girl she knew thru her brother and the girl's BF. The girls started getting frisky with each other at the club and decided to continue the after party at the other girl's BF's house, which is when I joined them (this was her first time meeting the guy and my first time meeting either of them). Drinks were had by all and we all went to a big bed to get some sleep late at night. Next thing I know, the other girl is standing up on the bed gyrating and stripping off her pants, then launching herself at my GF and stripping her off as well. I didn't know what the boundaries were until the other girl literally grabbed my hand and put it on her tit, but after that it was a free for all. Couple of hours of absolute raw passionate sex with both girls, ending with me cumming twice - once in my GF, the second time on the other girl's face. Highlight of the night was after I came the first time, when I was catching my breath between the two girls with one of their tits in each hand.

As wild and surreal as it was, a couple of things marred the experience for us. One, it turns out the other guy had whiskey dick so when he was with my GF there wasn't a whole lot of action happening. I didn't know this in the moment, but at one point my GF asked me to join her and because we'd never been in this situation I didn't know how to ask the guy to swap again (until he said 'let's switch' 2 mins later, leading to the mother of all facepalms for me). My GF took the delay as a sort of rejection and her mood nosedived in the latter part of the night. We ended the night well past sunrise with my GF weeping, voices raised, glass shattering (the other couple got into a heated alcohol-induced argument) and us making a quiet escape to process what had just happened. After this experience, we dabbled with meeting a few other swinging couples in our city but it never went beyond having sex in the same room and felt kinda forced, besides. Eventually we just walked away from that scene and would only actively consider it if there's a really strong connection with another couple. Having said that, the memories of that night have forever been committed to the wank bank!

 

Our first swap was planned. We started our extra fun, after the kids had got older & the wifes libido returned.
We had 3sums & the first mff was with wifes workmate, who was up for anything & everything.
After about 4 or 5 different 3sums, they arranged a swap with the workmate & husband.
We had same room fun & then seperate. And still have fun now years later.

 

Numerous times.
One one occasion it was not planned but the subsequent times were.
My partner (unmarried) and I met a married couple at a function. He had slept with my partner before (as teenagers) and things got interesting as far as his wife was concerned - she asked him if he would fuck her again if he had an opportunity.
He said he would - but only if she agreed. She asked me if I was interested in fucking her - I have never knocked an opportunity like that back.
My partner said it would be fun to compare the past and present - with him.
It was an interesting reunion for them and great fun for us. I was not her second lover - by a long way.
After that we had weekends together enjoying swapping partners for some time.

 

My first bf we were 18 he wanted his neighbor so we swapped the hubby was 60
And not a hot 60 he was built like Donald Trump we fucked thankfully he came in about 30 seconds

 

Our first swap was spontaneous. My bisexual wife got contect form dating site for female. We met that person she come with her male friend.
After couple of drink we invited them to our home . Things started I was kissing my wife new female friend and his man kissed and make out with my wife , we all four had nice time .

 

In swinging it was easy to swap partners. In everyday life I always had trouble getting gf's to agree to swap.

 

I go to swinger parties frequently... I am never part of a couple when I go....