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  1. Pakupaku

    Pakupaku Porn Surfer

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    Hello. Im Lukas and Im 18 years old (since 2 days :p ). My girlfriend is 19 years old and we are together about 4 months.... She is virgin and Im not.. I accept that she maybe dont want to have sex or somethink but isnt it strange that she never masturbated ? She dont even wants me to do it to her.. Im littlebit nervous b coz I need this and she says she dont.... We are Young!! and we need to use that what we have... I love her and she loves me... I wont say somethink like " no sex ? so thats over".... She says to me all the time... " maybe leave me and you will find somone else which will give you whats you want?"... Its making pissed off... but whatever.

    Help as fast as possible

    Yours Lukas

    (btw. sorry for low english long time didnt need to use it and as you know when we dont doing somethink we forgetting it). Cu.
     
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  2. porter

    porter Basstard

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    Respect her. If she doesn't want to do it and you love her, then you'll respect that and be patient. If you're really that horny, dump her, go ahead and sacrifice love for lust.
     
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  3. Pakupaku

    Pakupaku Porn Surfer

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    Ofc I will respect her... I just want to know is all allwright ... Im lil worry about that b coz later if we may decide to be together for rest of life (i would love to ) it can be hard stuff ;/.
     
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  4. porter

    porter Basstard

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    It looks like everything's fine other than some pressure from you for sex. Don't plan it, just let it happen.
     
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  5. hells_belle

    hells_belle Amateur

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    It will happen eventually if she feels comfortable with it, and you don't bug her about it. One day, she'll just get horny and have to have you. And you'll be happy, and she'll be happy, and then... in the future she won't have anything against it. You just have to let her reach that point where it's what she wants.
    But if you can't wait, then explain that to her- and it will probably cause her to dump you and you can have someone else.
     
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  6. hitmancaper1

    hitmancaper1 Porno Junky

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    i run into this before and what i do is build a emotional connection and also make her work for it cause saying i love you and that she won you and now she will get bored with you do lean back and let her come to you and also talk sexual to her and do it in a comfortable way cause your not getting what you want and thats not cool
     
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  7. Kyriana

    Kyriana Sex Lover

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    GF question

    I think there may be a deeper problem here...I was a virgin at 18 but...I was interested in sex, had gone past '2nd base'.
    If she is saying she wants to save herself then maybe it is just that...which is not a bad thing and how cool for you to be the only man for her...
    In that case, you'll have to decide if you want to wait for her.

    If she is saying, ewww I never want that thing in me, there is a chance she will never be overly sexual and if that is something you want in a mate then....you guys can be great friends...

    Don't cheat...If you decide that you do need sex then ask for an open relationship....it takes two people to make or break a relationship...
     
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  8. DonDillo

    DonDillo Sex Machine

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    She could be a lesbian and just daren't tell you :(:confused:
     
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  9. Pakupaku

    Pakupaku Porn Surfer

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    I thought about it rly long.
    Mostly she wants to get rly close to me after any problems, its "emotional explosion". But no sex. I rly dont care so much about sex now. Im thionking about US as real long to be together and won't hurt her emotionally anyway.

    One time happend I told her that we could get to another step. She accepted that... We went to a rly nice looking apartment (my house ofc not hotel or somethink), watched movie, taked shower. Everythink was rly ok. She wanted to start "1st play" ... ok I thought it will be about 20-40 mins... but 2hrs made me lilbit wasted and power left me... While I were want to get into her I havent "power" heh... After that we decided to do somethink like masturbating her... Classicall postion Im on her and Im pushing my cock up and down on her pussy. She liked it and about 3 months we are doing it.... ofc I never cammed and ended just get wasted again... she always coming to the end... she is not selfish or somethink she now know I cant do it all the time b coz Im human too and have too clean my balls from cum wich is inside.

    All of all PM would be cool too. Greets.
     
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  10. Azurial

    Azurial Sex Lover

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    girls tend to see masturbation as a disgusting act from my personal experiance. i have only had one GF that masturbated.
     
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  11. Pakupaku

    Pakupaku Porn Surfer

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    Maybe. In my class are 15 boys and 19 girls. Eleven of those 19 girls was masturbating and were speaking with me (only me xD so b coz I have good contact with all girls) about sex and their problems... But thats not helping me with mine gf.

    I love her anyway does she wants to sex or not :)
     
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