OK...I'm just gonna cover the basics so everyone is up to date...and then I'll reveal what my game plan is and all the good stuff.

For the noobs...

I've tried all I can to get him off that game and have sex with me...walking around naked, giving him blow jobs while he's playing to distract him, wear sexy lingere, beg, push my bearly there boobs in his face, grab his cock, turn the comp off(gets mad), claim I'm going to find some guy who will do me, masterbate in front of him, send him links to porn vids from this wonderful site, etc.

He's 28, has two kids and we've been together for going on 4 years. We both love each other, I'm still attractive after 2 kids, no he doesn't like fat chicks, no I'm not gonna cheat on him or cyber with anyone(sorry thats just sad), he plays counter-strike, and no I'm not going to reveal his name on the game so u can tell him to fuck me, and it's not just about sex.

His game is not on a disk, he bought it online, I have thought about putting a password on the comp so he can't use it, we both are good in bed, and none of u have said it yet...but he's not gay. My dad's gay so he would have told me already. And I have seriously tried to talk to him about it, and we only end up arguing.


I appreciate all the help, advice, suggestions and such. We actualy got in an argument about it last night and nothing productive came from it, we slept apart. UPDATE: Today he actually surprised me by having sex with me twice, before he started his game...to shut me up I guess...but I'm not complaining

 

Well, although I have never considered myself to be a "gamer" I do love going outdoors and fishing, or hunting. And when it isn't hunting season, and it is not the right time to go fishing I like to sit down and read (for hours). My girlfriend of 4 years has expressed to me that I don't spend enough "quality" time together (and she had wanted to have sex a lot recently and I was "too busy"), and that when we are together I am either cooking, reading, or watching t.v. When she brought this up, I was in the middle of a book and pushed her away. The next day we went to the gym together and she brought it up again when I was lifting and she was on the bike. We talked about our situation and we pretty much came to the consensus that we were stale and had to work this out. We decided to do fun things together like playing card games or dumb wii games that she likes and stuff like that. And I have also tried to do more "sweet" things to try to spice up our love life and make sex more enjoyable for both of us. This is my story. But what I will say for advice is that if both parties aren't willing to compromise it won't work. Now instead of waking up every morning at 5:30 I stay home and make breakfast in bed for my girlfriend. And instead of doing work all the time when she gets home she tries to fish a little bit sometimes. It is all about compromise and doing something you both enjoy and this will lead to a better sex life in my opinion. Things have been great since and I hope this helps.
Oh, and by the way, if those eyes that are on your profile are yours, all you should have to do is make him look into those beautiful eyes and you should get whatever you want ;_

 

thanks for the advice...I'll have to find something we can both do together that we both enjoy...and yes those are my eyes

 

ummm...dress up as a sexy CT, grab a fake Steyr Aug, and do a sexy dance for him?

 

No problem. Keep us updated and... Wow, he is a lucky guy to have those eyes staring at him, make sure he remembers that

 

You need a new fiance.

 

Thats not right. Unless you have had some bad experience with video games and your significant other, there is no reason to say that. It is not constructive at all. All relationships go through bumps and "love" is hard to find. Maybe that is what it will come down to, but never quit anything worth keeping/ doing.

 

Have you tried throwing the breaker? I mean it would piss him off but you would have his attention

 

yes it is.. im hoping they make a second one for 360. thats the only game i play... do you??

 

Has he ever played a game like that before?If not, it's just something new and enjoyable to him.Eventually he'll get bored of it and move on to something else.(hopefully you)

I'm the same way..I played a game once like all day for a month or so..now it's one of the most BORING things EVVEERR.

 

but in all fairness i would never pass up sex or when hes in the mood tell him your not and dont feel like it since you tried so many times to basically give it to him and he refused. or you could simply hide his game console or the game, till he gives you what you want. lol

 

Honey, CCS is probably the only game Im reallly obsessed with anymore. But i'd turn that shit off for you. Come on over. :wink:

 

Without meaning to sound crazy (sounding normal doesn't exactly come naturally lol), perhaps you're trying too hard?

It sounds like you're getting more and more frustrated and trying more and more, and perhaps that makes him think "why is she always like this" or similar. And maybe you need to be a bit more subtle for a little while and let him do his thing, then try pouncing less often?

Its probably not that great an idea, but maybe something to think of if nothing else is working

 

Yes darlin', most guys would be banging your box in a heart beat. Any man who choses a video game over pussy has a serious problem. If I were you, I'd go out and find me some strange dick!

 

I really don't get that shit, like at all. I don't want a chick to be naggin me all the time, or being too needy, but even basketball isn't more important to me than sex. I can play ball anytime I want, especially if it's on a schedule, so I would much rather have sex.

 

he actually use to be worse then me....and then I dunno what happened. I'm still the same way I was from the beginning...he thinks he's getting too old...he's only gonna be 28...and I'm 22...would that really make a difference?

 

Is it possible that right now, he's seeing you as a mom, and not as a sexy girlfriend? Maybe he's just going through an ebb in his sexual desires and your demands are pissing him off.

Whatever the case, it doesn't sound like a recipe for a good, healthy sex life. I hope you two can discuss it without it getting pissy.

 

you are boring him. i'm gonna talk straight and tell you stuff guys are afraid to say.

he's probably fucked you 6 ways from sunday and twice on the weekends....you may be losing the appeal. you are no longer a challenge, too predictable.

what you need to do is stop asking. stop being too easy. ignore him. act like sex is the last thing on your mind. never bring it up or mention it. stop giving in. make him want it. wear sexy clothes and walk around the house like he's not there.

make him jealous. tell him about the new guy at work who keeps hitting on you. even if you just made that up.

always seem occupied doing other things. take a shower then towel of infront of him while talking about something else.

buy a dildo. go out with your girlfriends


soon he'll be all over you like a cheap suite.



NOTE: I may be completely wrong.

 

nope, you're not wrong

i've found the best way to get my hubby's attention is to put on a short skirt and a revealing top and fix my hair nice and put on make up and then say i'm going grocery shopping

 

...and then come home with your hair mussed, your lipstick smeared your skirt wrinkled and no groceries...