my girl and i just started playing with the whole dominate submissive thing and we need ideas on what she can do to humiliate me with the exception of taking on another lover, all other suggestions welcome, thanks for the help

 

Well she can dress you up in grlie things for starters. Make you masterbate in front of her girl friends, make you beg before she allows you to cum,make you worship parts of her body. All sorts of things. Male Dom or FemDom,its the exercise of power that makes it hot, and humiliating. Lick her feet, her ass, eat your meals from a bowl at her feet.

 

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Very interesting...

 

is there anythign that u have tried or made someone try that you think would be good

 

i like to have my control taken away from me. (although, i do need the security of knowing that the person who has the control is someone i trust, and that i can use a safeword if it becomes too much.)

this can be done mentally or physically. one of my friends is very much a dominant, and he only needs to speak for me to snap to attention and start getting wet. however, i do love losing physical control through bondage. control can also be shown, for example, by the loss of clothing for the submissive while the dominant remains clothed.

one of the best parts for me, about losing control, is that i can completely let go. i don't need to think or worry, i simply respond. in turn, i can let my body do the same. i can react strongly and wantonly, and do things i normally wouldn't - if i let go, and lose control, i find freedom.

then, it can go one of two ways. maybe i don't know what is going to happen, and everything comes as a surprise because i'm blindfolded or simply not expecting anything... for example, being tied up and left for a little while, and then suddenly, an ice cube hits my skin - the sensation is intense. or perhaps i've been told what will happen - that i'm his slut, his slave for the day, and that i have no choice but to walk around naked all day with a plug in my ass.

humiliation is a powerful psychological tool. i get hot when i'm called a naughty little cock slut. or whatever you wish being forced to do things while naked/stuffed/bound has the same effect. consider objectification as well...

sensation play and pain. *considers* a light touch might not seem like much, but if you're ordered not to move, and to be silent, it can reach entirely new levels. right now i am imagining myself being tied to the chair i'm sitting in, bound tightly enough that i can't move. i am also blindfolded. hands drift across my body lightly. i can't respond and it's absolutely maddening. i begin to struggle a bit, and the hands, once gentle, now yank on my nipples. a quick breathy gasp is pulled from my body. then, i feel something icy cold drifting across my body. it runs over my nipples, my thighs, and then it is nestled against my pussy. i want to pull away and scream, but i cannot. if i yell, i will be punished. suddenly, something hot falls across my skin, making me whimper. wax. when the wax eventually falls upon my nipples, i cry out. his voice reprimands me. i am going to be punished. some of the ropes are loosened, and i am free from the chair. other ties are added, and now my arms are tied behind my back, and my legs are bound together. i am ordered to crawl out of the chair, and then across his lap. while i struggle to do so, he admonishes me for not moving quickly enough. once i am finally settled across his lap, he caresses my ass and i fear for what is about to occur. he calls me his pet, and tells me i've been naughty. a large, lubed, rippled plug is eased inside my ass and i can feel it stretching me. i moan, and he replies with a "tsk, tsk, little one... because you cannot keep quiet, i am going to help you." a gag is placed in my mouth and the strap buckled around my head. my cunt is dripping. after a pause, a hand comes down unexpectedly strong across my ass, making my body jerk.

...yeah, something like that.

 

You guys would be great as prisoners of war. I should think that you all would look forward to captivity. Hate to judge but it all is a bit too bizarre.Different strokes for different folks to be sure.

 

if you hate to judge me, then why are you doing so?

there is a difference between surrendering control to a person or persons you trust, and having it taken from you. there is a difference between being spanked or flogged, and being beaten. if i am treated a certain way by my dom, he/she is doing it because he/she knows it will please me, and i submit to please my dominant. a rapist rapes only for his own sake.

if you don't understand what i like, i understand and accept that. i don't understand plenty of fetishes myself. but i will only criticize a person's sexual desires if they appear to be illegal or unsafe. BDSM practices often seem extreme, but phrases like Safe, Sane, and Consensual exist for a reason.

If you're going to be this ignorant, please go away.

 

any specific examples of what she could make me do or do to me? As many as possible please....

 

I think your desires are very erotic and beautiful. I would enjoy "playing" with you. Teasing you. Making you my little cum slut.

 

My wife has me get naked an on the floor on my hands an knees, then I've got to follow her around like a pet dog. Then she'll tell me to be still, an make me watch her get the strap-on an make me beg for her to use it on me. Some times she gets back behind me an I get ready for her to fill my ass up she'll get a whip I didn't see an all of a sudden I fill the whip slap across my ass.

 

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