Hi, i hope im putting this in the right place but i'm new to posting here.

So the situation is, ive been with my bf for nearly 2 years now and about 6 months ago we decided to have a 3some, we talked about it alot before hand and hooked up wih a mutual (female) aquaintence who we don't see very often (just incase things didn't work out). Everything worked out great and we all had a good time.

Now, about a month ago i was chatting with a male friend and 3somes came up and he said that hed like to try it, then he suprised me and said that hed prefer mmf instead of ffm.

Since then i cant get the idea of having a 3some with him and my bf outof my head but im worried that my bf would be more inclined to get jealous and start worrying without cause as id never do anything without him. Also I don' want to risk spoiling either my relationship or my friendship.

Should i try asking my bf if hed be up for it, i suspect he probably would be (he's bicurious) but risk him getting paranoid if not or should i just try to forget the idea?

Any suggestions/advice welcome.
Thnx HHC

 

Sorry about the long post.

 

Just ask him. You dont have to tell him you have someone picked out, just ask him if he would be into it.

 

You did it with a girl. What's the problem with a guy joining the two of you.

He doesn't have to get involved with the dude. As long as he's cool with the dude and you having sex it should be all good.

If he finds out he's into dudes when it happens. So be it.

I've been in a few MMF's and never touched the other guy. The girls had a great time both times and so did we. No harm no foul.

 

Scotty and Reg are right. You MUST start with just asking him. If he is not at all into it, you will know. But YOU said he is bi-curious, so he probably will be interested. The only thing is the choice of guys. Don't push this other guy on him. Take your time and talk it over. If THAT 3-some is the right one, it will happen. If not, there will be others.

 

mmmm, go for it hun, it's fantastic

 

it seems as you have gotten some sound advise,,,,so ,,you need to jump into the fire with both feet and have some FUN,,,,,,,and emily ,,is there any thing you have not done yet ????

 

Animals, children, scat, hard bondage, and S&M.

Otherwise I think I got most of it covered.
Life is to short not to have a good time.

 

what will you and i do on that list:rose:

 

Question is: what have YOU not done that's Not on that list.

 

I am shy,,not done much,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,HHHHEEELLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPP

 

Ok I knew this would happen, The above things I HAVE NOT DONE, don't PM me for details about things I HAVE NOT DONE.

 

Hey

HEY happy do you mind letting us know how it works out ???

 

Looks like we're a perfect match

 

dont rain on my parade,,,,,,,scottystevens

 

I think ill ask him next time i see him, im mainly worried though if it does happen that he might be more inclined to get jealous or worried since he is a good friend of mine but not his. I dont want to spoil anything betwen us.

 

,thats the spirit,,,,, good luck:rose:

 

You're right.

Just suggest a threesome with a bi guy---like me.

 

Meh. I'm glad that your threesome has turned out so well. I advise you to listen to the others and just ask him. Be honest and open, but don't push it.

Speaking from experience, It can be heartbreaking to watch your lover fuck someone else with your "consent." If he sounds worried about it make sure you talk about it thoroughly.

 

go for it