lol dominatrix.

I think i read somewhere that your sphincter muscle is what controls the pleasure or pain of anal sex. If i recall correctly, it's different for each person, so while your BF may be turned on by it, it could be painful.

It's not gay, necessarily. If it's pleasurable, it's just another sex technique.

However, full penetration and playing around with it are two dif things. One fingertip in, for me, causes this really really weird, yet desirable, sensation for me. Makes masturbation better, imo.

 

I think he's right. It's pretty gay.

 

why do you think its gay?

 

I believe men aren't suppose to take it up the ass. It's a sex act that women and homosexual men engage in. I'm not a women or a homosexual so I can see her b/f's point.

 

Lol, you don't have to take it up the ass. Stimulating your anal cavity can increase pleasure, regardless of sexual orientation. It's not strictly gay, if you like it then you do. You don't actually have to take 9 inches in your ass for it to be fun, lol.

No is "supposed" to have anal sex. We are supposed to have vaginal sex to reproduce, but anal sex has no function other than pleasure.

 

not comfortable with people near my ass i tryed a but plugug a few times but didnt enjoy it

 

My gf often will insert a finger or two into my ass while she is going down on me, at first i was hesistant but now i quite enjoy it when she does it as it adds an extra pleasurable feeling while getting a blow job.. Occasionally she uses a dildo while going down on me and semi fucks me in a way until i cum but as yet we havent tried her with a strapon. If it was to come up i would probably be open minded to it as it is still my gf that im making love with and receiving the pleasure from..

 

not into being humiliated and called someones bitch but i love it when my wife puts a finger or small vibrator in my ass. wouldnt mind the strapon if she wanted too. ill try anything twice:excited:

 

FUCK YES IT IS AWESOME! too bad i dont get it enough from the wife i used to get it all the time and I REALLY got off on it... but then the wife stopped.. i think she thought I may have been bi or gay or something

 

ok

i like the feeling
of female tongue in my ass!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Sometimes I have such a fantasy but I've never tried this out. After reading all the post, maybe I'll ask her the next time .

 

well as a stright guy. no thts not gay. and no thats not uncommon. i too like it when i get fucked up the ass by my partner. she is awesome at it and knows just what to do. as of your bf he is either too closed minded or he is hiding something. if you really think having attention paid to your asshole is hott wait till after this weekend when my partner {female} and i have our "porn nite" there should be plenty of pix to be posted. eXXXtemely hott.

 

so anyway. there is nothing like the feel of your partner touching, licking, even sliding in a dildo into your ass. if thats how close you and your partner are than there is nothing wrong with it.
so i say.no mater what 2 people do in the privacy of their own home do, its all for plasure. dont let closed minded people judge you for what that dont agree with or hide from. anal sex is enjoyible no matter what.

 

Ive tried to get my ex to use a dildo on me. She has used her finger before and thats great and i really don't understand why she thinks using one is any different. but truth be told i really want her to strap up and fuck me. ive been wanting to find someone willing to do it for a long time. Because i think it would be great but i've never had it done. How do i find that kind of girl?

 

I would love for my gf to use a strap on with me. She thinks anal is gross so i dont see the ever happening.

 

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I told my ex that i bought a strap on minus the dildo. She said that she would buy a didlo and use the strapon on me . All i have to do is eat her pussy. I love eating pussy. This should be easy.:excited::excited::excited:

 

I love it whenever I can talk my wife into using a strap on on me and there is nothing Gay about it as I know its a woman back there andthat turns me on I have tried on purpose to see if I was maybe bi or something else by thinking of it as a guy back there doing me and had to stop the act right then and there from continueing as it made me feel sick!! As long as its between 2 people and u both agree dont worry or care about what anyone else thinks!!!!

 

Nooooo! Not gay at all! what happens in the bedroom with your partnet stays in the bedroom! I love my ass played with in all aspects.

 

I think you ought to look for another boyfriend.