hey, i just have a simple question...
i have read alot on this site about men being 'totally in love with their girlfriend'

if you love her so much why do you say 'banging my bitch' or 'fucking my girl' she isnt 'your bitch' or 'your girl' im pretty sure she is her own person.
anyway, my question is, from all these people saying these things, are you incapable of having sex or making love? is it all about your gratification?

(for those who dont know, this is a retorical question... and kinda a bitch slap to all the guys out there that talk about women as if they are peices of meat)

pm me if you have 'issues' with me... dont post it here for everyone to read.

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MissElly
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You know i wanna make love to you Elly =] xxxxxxxxxxx

 

already feeling a little better hehe. thanks cam

<3
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can I just do both? I mean, sometimes she's a bitch, and we just fuck, sometimes it's really soft and sweet and it's definitely somethin special

I guess I'm just saying that it depends on the mood we're both in

 

thats fair enough, but what im asking is which you would prefere. also, i know its good every now and then to just fuck, but i was kinda having a go at guys that think its ok to go around in life thinking of all women as biches and whores and sluts. just because testosterone wasnt prominent in the womb people expect them to just stuff their pussy with any cock they can find. its degrading and disgusting.
(i see nothing wrong with roleplay or having sex in all its forms, but i dont class 'fucking a bich' or 'banging MY woman' as sex.
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There are a lot of men who think women are second class and are there for their gratification and nothing else. It is often hard to find a guy who knows how to treat a lady like a lady or a woman like a woman. Advice: Guys if you learn to treat a lady like a lady then you will be far more sucessful in life. Instead of sitting around the on Sunday watching TV and scratching your balls, you will have a lady willing to suck those balls and make you feel good. Remember, you have to make her feel good or she will go elsewhere.

 

brilliantly said
thanks
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it's just how guys communicate with other guys really
I love my girlfriend and I enjoy making sweet sweet love to her and fucking her brains out depending on the mood... "fucking a bitch" as you would say is just a conquestial thing... it does sound pretty amazing at times, but I'm pretty sure every man would rather make love to a woman and have it returned than have meaningless sex.. I would think anyway.

 

Making love to a woman is the most satisfying. There has to mutual satisfaction.

 

I don't use "bitch" unless I feel more dominant that usual. Sure my gal isn't mine but she loves when I'm dominant. Mind you, I don't really call her that because it's a bit too degrading to me. I'll make love any day of the week.

 

I'll call my girl... My girl... because I mean that as she's my girlfriend and not someone else's... But she doesn't belong to me, no.

Anyways, to answer the whole 'fuck a bitch'/ 'make love to a woman', I can't answer that... because straight out 'fucking' is different to me than 'making love'. I'd never call a girl a bitch, or anything like that, unless she wanted me to, or knew I was, with out doubt, making a bad joke...

Anyway, I'd rather fuck/make love to a woman than a 'bitch'. Unless, of course, as I said, the girl wanted me to call her one... After, all, I only live to try and please as best as I can, and if being called a bitch made you happy, I'd hate to do it, but to make you happy, I'd call you one for you.

 

Feel like makin' looooove.

 

Does anyone else feel like there is nothing wrong with calling her "my girl"... my girlfriend loves being called "my girl" im "her man".... lets not go overboard.....as for the fucking comment i dont think it is a statement on how much you care about each other more just a statement of sexual style that night... sometimes i make love sometimes i fuck

count it

 

If it's makeup sex after a fight, it's "I fucked the shit outta that bitch!" If it is our mini-honeymoon that I do with her every New Year's Eve with candles, oils, massage, champagne its, "I made love to her."

 

I can't click on either of those two options.

I'm as interested in committed, monogamous relationships as the next guy. (Well, okay... on this board, probably more interested than the next guy )

Still, every time you have sex with your significant other (be it husband/wife or just long-time, live-in lover in 1-on-1, closed relationship), it's not "love making by the fire." Sometimes you want to just sit her ass up on the kitchen counter and plow her for all she's worth. And I'm not talking about quickies on the lunch break, here. That doesn't mean you look at her as a slut who has only one value.

As to "my gratification," if she wasn't getting off then I would hope I was involved with a woman possessed of enough self-esteem and confidence to say, "Listen, honey, I love a good beast fuck as much as you do, but I need you to do a little more for me." When I was young and inexperienced (19 or so), I had this pointed out to me and have been mindful ever since... I wish she and I were still together, first love and all that... but now I'm rambling off-topic.

In short, for me at least, it's not as simple a question as "fuck" or "make love." There is a time and place for both, without looking at your lover as a second-class citizen.

 

Over the years I've found that the one thing about sex that makes me horniest, and gets me off the best, is knowing that I'm giving my partner what she needs to satisfy her. If I can't do that, I'm not going to enjoy having sex. With most women, most of the time, that means "making love." Once in a while it means "just fucking." I feel like I'm confident enough in myself as a human being to be able to give her whatever she needs.

 

It's not really the words, I think....but the underlying attitude. I know that my man respects me as a person, so whatever he says in the heat of the moment, or whatever I say, for that matter, is perfectly all right.

But I understand where the OP is coming from. With some men, they feel they need to degrade ALL women...and that IS a turnoff.

 

making love 4 sure

 

kimiko i think you got it, in fewer words than i could explain, what i was trying to get at.
calling a girl a bitch in the heat of the moment is kinda hot sometimes, but when you go around all the time saying 'bitches' or 'sluts' just to refere to women, thats just unnecessary.
anyway... i was kinda in a foul mood when i made this thread. lol
sorry if i offended anyone.
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Sweetie, when it comes to offending people, you're not even in the big leagues around here.