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  1. sackboy

    sackboy Porn Surfer

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    ok so long story short i ahve been dating a girl for 11 months now almost 12 and all of a sudden tonight she confeses that she doesnt feel comfortable stayign the night at my place anymore. what do i do? she said that instead she would go home at night and then coem back in the morning. i dont know what to think or how to act. please some real true advice would help thank you.
     
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  2. SilverLycan

    SilverLycan The XnXX Alpha Wolf

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    let her do what she wants, dummy.
     
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  3. sackboy

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    well i appricaite the help but the dumym wasnt really needed but ok. but see its a trend with her, it seems the more i let her do waht she wants the more she thinks she can get away with its hard to explain. she jsut keeps donig things to fuck things up on purpose it seems and keeps tellign me to jsut deal with it and be happy.
     
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  4. Peter Rabbit

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    You should probably slit your wrists, that would teach that uncarring whore!
     
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  5. bousch

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    tell her, bitch your not going anywhere get in the kitchen and make me a pie!

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    I have suffered for the love of my country
    i never agreed with the campaigns i was
    involved in Bosnia, Kosovo, Afghanistan,
    Iraq. these places are forever etched in my mind
    the worst part of being a soldier is you cant
    choose the wars your country fights you wear
    the burden for life

    Ode To A Dying People
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OP3rK...eature=related

    The Snow Fell
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    Tomorrow Belongs To Me
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    The Road To Valhalla
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     FREEDOM (WHAT FREEDOM)
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  6. sackboy

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    ok i dont think im getting real help here sorry for bothering you guys. jsut a young confused guy sorry.
     
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  7. bousch

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    if she cant cook trade her in and trade her in now,


    [​IMG]
    I have suffered for the love of my country
    i never agreed with the campaigns i was
    involved in Bosnia, Kosovo, Afghanistan,
    Iraq. these places are forever etched in my mind
    the worst part of being a soldier is you cant
    choose the wars your country fights you wear
    the burden for life

    Ode To A Dying People
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OP3rK...eature=related

    The Snow Fell
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YX-F6...e=channel_page

    Tomorrow Belongs To Me
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYldM7lOkn4

    The Road To Valhalla
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GG9TzyO4CWw

     FREEDOM (WHAT FREEDOM)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QiSJ8nCUams
     
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  8. Lioness

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    The more you LET her do what she wants?? Boy, aren't you generous!!! She has a free will and can do what she wants. I think you're going to be looking for a new relationship soon.
     
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  9. bousch

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    ok some real help, the girl dont want to be with you, when she leaves your house...you better go see what shes doing, i doubt she is sleeping.there is a reason she dont want to stay the night with you all the sudden..

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    I have suffered for the love of my country
    i never agreed with the campaigns i was
    involved in Bosnia, Kosovo, Afghanistan,
    Iraq. these places are forever etched in my mind
    the worst part of being a soldier is you cant
    choose the wars your country fights you wear
    the burden for life

    Ode To A Dying People
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OP3rK...eature=related

    The Snow Fell
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YX-F6...e=channel_page

    Tomorrow Belongs To Me
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYldM7lOkn4

    The Road To Valhalla
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GG9TzyO4CWw

     FREEDOM (WHAT FREEDOM)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QiSJ8nCUams
     
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  10. sackboy

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    thats not what i mean. like we will ahve plans jsut say to go out have diunner and a movie then after dinner she would jsut be. ohh well my mom called and she wants to hang so im gonig to go out with her ok. that kidan thing i know she has free will as do i i understand that.
     
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  11. sackboy

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    thing is its true she really does go with her mom it jsut confuses me and now shes donig this its just making me more lost.
     
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  12. SilverLycan

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    Ah, now that you've explained things I can give you a real answer.

    First, you're gonna have to risk losing her.

    Second. Lay ground rules to get her to quit fucking around. You two need to come to an agreement as to what's okay and not okay. How would you describe her attitude about things? Mature serious person, or kinda flakey?
    If she's doing things to fuck with you and you don't like it and she's ignoring your attempts to communicate you should probably just cut your losses and move on. A relationship can end at any moment, even at the advanced stage you are in.
     
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  13. Lioness

    Lioness A Fun Flirty Frisky Friendly Felion

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    Well, to me it sounds like she's gradually putting distance between you, but it would be considerate of her if she told you beforehand that she's made other plans afterwards instead of just springing them on you suddenly.
     
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  14. sackboy

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    well sometimes its mature serious and sometimes i think shes 12 and she thinks we havent been dating that long so she thinks we arent in advance stages. we try but her way is tryign t otake me away from my family. i live at home with my younger brother and mom im gonig to college right now so its hard to pay for my own place. but she says if her parents let me sleep over there then that would be ok with her and that she rather me spend all my time over at her place because shes not comfortabel at mine, thing is i asked her why and what we can do to fix things and she doesnt even know why she isnt comfortable.
     
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  15. sackboy

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    it jsut ameks no sense cuz when she used to sleep over and spend 1-3 nights never more we would have the best time ever like nothing could stop us, so i never saw this coming i thoguht everything was ok but now she tells me that she feels forced to sleep over and thats why she never said anything cuz she didnt want to lose me. im jsut confused.
     
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  16. bousch

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    empress lenie would have some REAL advise for you, silverlycan thinks he is al knowing, but he is an idiot trouble making drama queen.. i will send empress this way you need a womans point of view and she is very knowledgeable and nice

    [​IMG]
    I have suffered for the love of my country
    i never agreed with the campaigns i was
    involved in Bosnia, Kosovo, Afghanistan,
    Iraq. these places are forever etched in my mind
    the worst part of being a soldier is you cant
    choose the wars your country fights you wear
    the burden for life

    Ode To A Dying People
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OP3rK...eature=related

    The Snow Fell
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YX-F6...e=channel_page

    Tomorrow Belongs To Me
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYldM7lOkn4

    The Road To Valhalla
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GG9TzyO4CWw

     FREEDOM (WHAT FREEDOM)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QiSJ8nCUams
     
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  17. Bukkake Bunny

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    Sounds to me like you two don't have a very healthy relationship. Maybe you should just let her go; there are plenty of other women out there.

    Also, this made me laugh out loud.
     
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  18. sackboy

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    ok thank you and sylver i thank you aswell. you all ahve been helpful in some way.
     
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  19. SilverLycan

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    Is there a problem with you sleeping at her house? You'd get to know her family, and she wouldn't have to feel homesick (it's possible she's feeling that way).
     
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  20. bousch

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    sit tight help is on the way

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    I have suffered for the love of my country
    i never agreed with the campaigns i was
    involved in Bosnia, Kosovo, Afghanistan,
    Iraq. these places are forever etched in my mind
    the worst part of being a soldier is you cant
    choose the wars your country fights you wear
    the burden for life

    Ode To A Dying People
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OP3rK...eature=related

    The Snow Fell
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YX-F6...e=channel_page

    Tomorrow Belongs To Me
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYldM7lOkn4

    The Road To Valhalla
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GG9TzyO4CWw

     FREEDOM (WHAT FREEDOM)
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QiSJ8nCUams
     
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