There is nothing wrong with cheating as long as you never get caught.

 

Good, cause I've been meaning to tell you about your girl and my escapades....but I did send her back, even if freshly fucked and returned wet!Remember son, cheating goes both ways if that is how you roll.

 

Like your lame ass could every pull another guy's girl LOL. Stop dreaming

 

1) No that's not normal
2) You can get your point across without CAPSLOCK. DO YOU SEE HOW FUCKING ANNOYING AND CHILDISH THIS LOOKS. God damn it my IQ went down 10 points for typing that in caps.. ugh.


I've never masturbated to another man, or woman. I've never fantasized about it, thought about it with anything but disgust or even talked about it until posting in this thread which is making me feel queasy for having to talk about this gross subject.

If you need to cheat on the person you're with. You shouldn't be with them. You might not be worth more than that but the person you're with is.

NO this is not directed at her specifically. YES it's directed at the disgusting, perverted cheaters of the world that are going to have a pineapple shoved up their ass upon death!

Some people think that cybering, webcamming and flirting with people is not cheating. If their partner knows about it and is ok with it then fine it isn't for them. But it IS cheating.. and gross. Why do you need to do that with someone else if you want to be with the person you're with? WTF is wrong with people!!

 

Yes, fantasizing is perfectly normal. Even if it's his best friend you think of.

 

I agree with that, but just because you tell him doesn't mean that it's not still cheating... If I were dating someone that told me that she was sleeping with another guy, its still cheating even though she told me, and I think I would have the same reaction to her telling me that she's cybering with someone else as I would if she were sleeping with someone else.

 

Tongue in cheek dumbass, point is she can cheat on you also. That being said I was just talking to a guy who said hts wife masturbates while talking about me fucking her, in front of and to him. I have ties to Savannah and will be in town this weekend, send her over and she'll never want your Lame ass again....loser. Twenty year old boy...don't even have a lady to cheat on.

 

hey

thanks so much guys and girls for the advice

 

so according to the part in red you have never masterbated to porn? because if you ahve then that is exactly what you are doing masterbating to another guy or girl.

as for the OP i wouldnt consider it to abnormal to FANTASIZE about others...just dont act on those thoughts, there are times ive had thoughts and thoughts were probably waht allowed me to not cheat. i have never cheated on a guy, though have been cheated on and because of that is why i would never cheat.

 

Well, I didn't mean to imply that it WASN'T cheating if she told you about it. I was implying that if you both agree it's okay, it's not cheating.

But that's a good clarification.

 

Fantasizing is one thing...but cybersex involves a connection with another actual person, however anonymous he may be. I would say there's a difference.

 

i try not to date someone that i don't masterbate over. if i'm thinking of another guy, i normally leave him and go for the other guy... but that's rare. recently i've been dating guys that i'm extremely sexually attracted to. so, no cheating here!

 

Fantasies are normal. It's when you act them out that it becomes cheating. Then it brings up the question, is cheating ever justified?

 

I think it's safe to say that everyone has an opinion, however, if you feel you need to cheat, chances are it isn't ALL sexually related. I am even willing to bet there are some communication problems. If you are just horny, then explain that. If you just want to try a different flavor, then ask yourself if you really need to be in a relationship...because once you start...you don't stop....and are you forever, a cheater.

 

The reality is that people search for a way to justify their actions when cheating. Whenever a person isn't telling their partner about what's going on, which is the equivalent of keeping a secret, it's cheating. If one cannot be honest, then that person clearly shouldn't be in relationships. I'd equate it with being nothing more than a leech. I definitely agree with the previous responses that stated how it made absolutely no sense to remain in a relationship if you're intending to stray. I also have to agree about the whole hating cheaters thing, too. Look, if you want to fuck around, just do it when you're not in a relationship. This isn't complicated stuff but apparently most people never grow up.

 

I'm not a lady... but as a guy I'd surely be tempted to cheat on my girlfriend. I really do think that girls would be tempted sometimes too. Porter: they weren't saying who did it or wanted to. Also, there can be a point to a relationship even if it's not an honest one, but honest ones are usually better right?

 

No Glitterbug I never HAVE masturbated to porn. It doesn't do anything for me. I read stories for ideas sometimes haven't even done that in a long time. I've NEVER masturbated to a form of porn besides pictures of my Master, videos of him or us and stories that he wrote.

 

I was thinking of starting a thread on this, but, this thread is in a similar vein.

So I'm a pretty monogamous guy. Never cybered, just now, after 4.5 years have started to flirt a little, rarely fantasise about other girls, (or at least JUST other girls... I know, I'm stereotypical mff threesome, sorry.) and otherwise "good". Snoochies has cybered extensively, and has joined an online community recently and started friendships with cybering involved. It gave me panic attacks, even though I knew about them.

Now, is this normal? Or am I really fucking neurotic? I want to be the kind of guy that can be in an open relationship, and I wonder how I can change?

Feel free to PM, or post after me, I'll welcome all feedback. Maybe I'll offer juicy limited edition photos as my thanks.

 

It is required by law where I live that if you were to find a pile of money on the groud, you have to turn it in to the police for a few weeks. Then if it is unclaimed after so long, you can keep it.

I really try to be a good person and I don't know if I could just hand away $1000 if I knew no one was looking. The problem with tempations of any kind is that the same temptation today may not get the same reaction from you tommarrow.

If I saw the money today, I give it to the cops becuase it is the right thing to do and I just got paid.

If I saw the money next week, I might look over my sholder and take the pile because pay day is a week away.


Stairing at a $1000 isn't the same thing as taking a $1000.

P.S.: You are free to add more zeros is 1000 is not tempting...