Personal choice is suppose. Judging by what I've seen on this site, there are LOTS of gals and guys that probably do like it. As for me, it doesn't do anything for me and my wife isn't really into that kind of verbal abuse.

 

You sir, have one hell of a sad perspective on life. Did your mother take away your rattle too soon or did you someone just fire your ass for not performing well. Bitterness is self defeating. Chill out!, not every one is a slut or whore , only those apparently you are associated with, to give you that kind of perpective.

 

i totally agree with you , if it doesnt bother us then why should it bother any one elsemrs d

 

You are absolutely correct in that it is no one else's business and this is why a forum such as this exists. A forum is a platform for discussion and all views are to be accepted but of course not necessarily to be agreed with. The right to keep a position on a subject should be respected as I now respect yours.

I will say, however, and again only from my own perspective of course ,that the term slut and whore has never been used throughout the ages as anything but a demeaning salacious epithet.. It is a tool often used to demean an individual and even in the throes of a sexual embrace remains sublimely so.. It may be exciting to some women as in your case, but I question sincerely the motiivation and intent of the man using it.

In a world today, where we are expected to accept all things said and done without question we must never forget that all words when used have an intent and a meaning and are never used without gauging the impact they can make.

Do have fun and live well, but as you grow a bit older to see what it takes to make a strong self image, being called a slut or whore and accepting it as you do now may have some lasting personal consequences to your inner sense of self worth. This is just a thought and ceratinly not a judgement. Be well and prosper.

 

I'm a SLUT and love KNOW it

Hey nothing wrong with it, I enjoyed it last night when I had my brother,father and cousin fuck,, Dad said I'm a nympho//Samantha xxx

 

You must have a happy kangaroo as pet too. Don't you?

 

LOL, and the brother is 9-year old and they all piss on each other...

 

No! In the outback you don't piss on any body, water is too a precious a resource.
The sadness is I have an absolute fondness for the Australians . She must be newly arrived from some other place. Either that or she is so far in the out back that no one but family is there to for her to fuck. Could be in a hundred years from now, there will be discovered a tribe of dwarfs with kangaroo tails.

 

Yes, but we like you just the way you are, and wouldn't want you to change.

 

Agree with silver2leaves. I watch less and less professional porn movies, because actors often insult their sex partners, pull their hair or spank. I much prefer amateur movies.

 

I must that I do enjoy it during sex, never thought I would before I started having sex. Yet when my husband says it to me its just so stimulating, most of the time I ask him 'Who is your little slut? Whose pussy is this?' and hearing him claim me as his own drives me over the edge. Though as all the other women have stated before, should these terms be used outside of the sex play then I'm kicking somebody's ass.

 

I'll do damn near anything my partner asks me to do. If she wants me to call her a slut, by god I'll smack her ass and call her a slut! ... (it's personal preference) ~ know your partner, that's all I've got to say.

And be honest with your partner. If you don't like being called a slut in the bedroom, don't just play the passive-aggressive game and stop fucking in mid-stream ~ tell him you would prefer that he not say that. If he's a real man, he'll apologize and continue making love to you as the lovey-dovey puppet you so desire.

 

yeah i love that kind of talk in the bedroom, but thats the only place.

 

sounds cool to me

 

My ex loved being called a bitch, or slut during sex. But ONLY then. I would never refer to a woman like that unless during sex, and unless she enjoyed it. She was very verbal, and enjoyed all kinds of dirty talk during sex.

 

Slut can be fun for the guy, but she is right then hand over thecash. If I am a whore or a slut then I am a professional. If you decide to shoot your load on my face or force my head when I am sucking you off then once again you should hand over the cash. I am not a thing. I fuck and suck because I want to. I do it because I like you.

 

talk is cheap

it might just be dirty talk and for some thats what turns their wheel. in porn, they have one job, do or say whatever it takes to sell copies, your job depends on it. i personally dont care for it, it ranks right up there with the C word and i dont talk like that to whomever i'm with. the other thing in porn is that since it's made to mostly appeal to us guys, when the starlet talks like that it's to convince us that we are in control and have that power over the woman we're doing it with. if foul language isnt what your partner is into and you are it might be time to change partners or it aint gonna be too enjoyable for either parties

 

ive never been into disrespect during sex.





...pain is another story, but that has to go both ways.

 

Generally speaking, I agree with you. One of the arguments self-appointed censors continue to use against porn is that it is degrading to women. When the male actors are verbally abusive, that just proves their point. I don't think this is necessary in mainstream porn, and it doesn't add to the experience for me. On the other hand, there is a separate niche for dom/sub porn, where that type of language would be appropriate, and a turn-on to the viewers, since it is after all, about dominance.

 

Personally its kind of a turn off, in videos especially, it takes away the sensuality of sex. Even if its rough I think there is some respect between partners, and degrading either one seems to take that away.