so i'm gonna have sex for the first time tonight and i want to know if there are any things i need to know before i go through with this. any ideas for me to try while i'm losing my virginity? i want this to be memorable.

 

Use a condom.

 

I'm no expert, but when I lose it..

It will be slow, with someone I love, and I want to look into their eyes when it happens.

 

Use a condom at all time unless and make sure you start it slow and romantic before sticking it in. Just relax and don't over think it.

Just take your time and you'll have the best sex eva and memorable.

 

Just take things very slow, if its her first time too, be extra careful to be gentle.

 

You just sent a shudder down my spine..............

A girl once held my head in her hands saying "look at me,look in my eyes"

It was her first time.

Thanks.

 

That's hot.
I just think that's important the first time.

 

this is with the girl i love and we decided we're not using a condom. if we have a kid then that's what we want.

 

how old are you?

 

Enjoy the 3 hours a night sleep, cleaning the crappy nappies, endless washing up, feeding, unironed clothes, no more nights out ....
Oh don't forget watching her in pain for up to 48 hours, unless it's a c-section, then more like a week or two

Can I suggest you grow up a little first...for the kids sake

 

I hope you're over 20... cuz once you have a kid, your life is about over. Your life as you know it anyway.

 

i am 21 and she's 22

 

well if i could right now i'd marry her and then have a kid so either way my life will change.

 

that sounds smart,just make it memorable for both of you and romantic.

 

You sound like a young 21 year old. I hope she isn't in the egg dropping part of her cycle. Babies should be planned, not just happen. Use a condom and spermacide.

 

um, we are planning. that's why we're not using a condom. it's what we want.

 

you are lucky

you are lucky to have waited for someone you truly love anyway congrats and good luck and my advice is ... don't make any weird noises lol, it always ruins the moment for me

 

one more thing...

if you think you are about to cum and want to make it last longer, dont be afraid to ask her to stop and take a break for minute!! the longer your first time lasts the better

 

i couldn't ask for a better girlfriend and we truly love each other. she hasn't forced anything on me or vice versa. we both want this and i am happy to start a family with her. we've talked it over several times and we still come to the agreement that we want this.

thank you for the sex advice. i want this first time to mean a lot and last more than a few minutes. i was supposed to do it the other night when i first posted but we were too tired from the day so we decided to put it off for a few days until we found the right day when we both aren't too tired for it. but it definitely is happening soon and i'm excited. i'm going to make it worth it that's for sure. i can't wait to go down too. lol. i told her already i'm gonna do it and it seems to turn her on.

 

Well you know what friend? Life may just come by and slap you in the face. Do you live with the girl? Are you sure you're going to marry her? Are you sure you're going to spend the rest of your lives together? I've heard a lot of naive people say the exact same thing. If this is what you want, good luck.