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Just a few ideas on how to get started

 

Why don't you masturbate? It's a normal thing almost EVERYBODY does. It is WAY more unusual that you don't masturbate than not orgasming through intercourse.

Basically, for MOST women, guys diddling you probably won't do it, and neither will intercourse. MOST women orgasm either by themselves, or through oral sex. Both of those methods give significant stimulation to the clitoris, usually sufficient to reach orgasm.

If you have really never masturbated, I suggest you start, it's great fun. And if you have never tried oral sex with your partner, tell him to scan the internet for some techniques and go at it (i say tell him to research because many men are AWFUL at it, and basically think the vagina is an inside out penis, which couldn't be more wrong).

Anyway, good luck to you!

-SOOD

 

I have known three women who were sexually active in their mid to late twenties who have never had an orgasm. In all three, a vibrator did the trick very quickly. That way you could pleasure yourself without actually touching yourself. After you experience an orgasm, you will no longer be shy about touching yourself
BTW, don't let you BF's ego get in the way. If he really cares about you and your pleasure he will help anyway he can. If his ego is too fragile to encourage you to try a vibrator in order for you to experience an orgasm, find a new boyfriend who cares more about you than worrying about not being a good enough lover. He has orgasms, now it's your turn. It's about YOU, not his insecurities and selfishness. Get a vibrator and use it yourself if he is too immature to understand that this is about you, not him!!!!

 

Is this through penetration or oral?

20 minutes of pumping could be quite a bit. haha

I can't even last 5 minutes masturbating without stopping and starting about 15 times.

But then again, i'm a virgin. So WTF do I know?

 

I like this idea. I've never been with a woman who didn't have an orgasm on my tongue.

 

just come find me and i will give you one!!!!

 

Alot of women have a hard time climaxing.It could be that the guys you have been with have been clumsy or unskilled...it could be that your uptight when you are with them...sometimes it just takes a while...but mastrubating and learning about what gets you off is a good start.

 

The Hitachi Magic Wand. Your life will never be the same.

I promise.

 

go lesbo

 

My 2 cents. - If things are always getting better, continue.

 

How do you have a female orgasm?

Well first, you get a female....

Relax. Take the mental pressure off of yourself. Put things that feel nice in holes, specifically your own. Do that part safely. Move them around rhythmically. Repeat. Explore your imagination... this is key because your brain is a pretty powerful sexual organ, so let it show you things. Keep relaxing. Go with what feels right... and then do it faster and harder Repeat repeat repeat oh god erpaet!!!

If this doesn't work. Call me. :rose:

 

You're going to have to become cool with masturbating, that's unacceptable. Once you've done this, sit in a hot bathtub and roll your bean and probe yourself until you feel the "have to pee" sensation coming on.

Then succumb to it. Let me know how this works out.

 

Have you tried masturbating? How do you expect anyone to tell you how a guy is going to make you cum if you haven't masturbated before? Seriously, just find a quiet spot in the library, pull down your slacks and your knickers and fiddle your diddle. :-E

 

Start with a vibrator. Aand watch some of the videos on this site...That should do the trick..

 

easy, start with play, touch every part of each other, your partner should finger u in front and play with your clit long time, he must do it,until u start felling hot, the other hand of your partner should finger u in the behind hole, penis never being put in front hole, when u feel exaited finger should go little more fast and press little bit more on your clit, than he should enter from behind but cently with lot of cream u shpuld use durind the play u will have a good orgasm, u practise it u will have it, i garanty u.

 

I know 4 me my girlfriends strap on along with her playing with my clit works best. It's really trial and error for allot of girls. 4 me if the mental stimulation isn't there it's really hard to have an orgasm. I found out what works best 4 me and keep practicing dif ways to cum. Don't give up, they're incredible!

 

You need to explore your body ro know how and where you like to be touched.

 

If your sexual experiences are getting better, and you keep getting closer, then just keep doing what you are doing. It sounds like you are getting closer, so enjoy yourself.

There are a lot of good suggestions on this site, and you should try them.

But the biggest one is to do the things that are turning you on. If it seems like it turns you on, then go with it. Someone else already said it, but the brain is a very powerful sex organ.

 

find a lesbian for one night always helps me

and if you massage the g-spot that helps too

 

i agree