Like I said *shrug*

 

I'll tell you what I think......just from the OP's first few lines in this thread.....and I quote.....

Why the fuck did he marry her???

You can't tell me he didn't fuck her a few times before the big day?

 

Maybe she's a vagitarian..

 

I tend to believe people are backstabbing and self centred until proven otherwise


To Rixer Bunnies eat nearly all vegetables and you heard the phrase fuck like bunnies

 

worrisome

This thread kinda fizzled a bit as I scrolled, I agree with most of Fluffy's remarks.

Some of the worrisome things I got from what you were saying was how bad things are; that suicide (is a word in the mix??); and that you have no outlet.

First place to start is with you. You need to find someone to talk to, who is in your corner and who can give you some sound professional advice. Your sexual ego and self esteem has taken some pretty harsh blows by your wife's disregard for your feelings, emotional and PHYSICAL state.

Maybe this isnt the relationship of your dreams, but it is a relationship. Unfortunately it sounds like a BAD one where needs are not being met, and the communication and trust isnt there to sustain improvement? Some relationships go on and some need to end.

Which goes back to you.... Please seek outside of xnxx forum help....

 

G`Day

Hi all I don`t know whether this is the place to get advice from, after all who on here uses their name as an ID.

Secondly I don`t know whether any thing about this story is true or not, if it is true I really feel for both of them, for in a relationship for one person to want intimacy and the other not to is a horrible situation.

The one who want it feels neglected and unloved and the other feels they are being raped and used.

I do not have the Wisdom of Solomon but I think if this is true ,a councilling for both is in order.

If it were me I would sit down with my partner and quiet;y discuss the issues and work whether the relationship was worth saving.

Other than that I would be happy to chat to either or both partners.

Regards

David

 

i actually lost my virginity at 13 years old on my 13th birthday to my older sisters best friend, by older i mean by about 4-5 years depending on when you ask, i am not lieing, i married my wife because i love her, correct we met when i was 20 we did not get married until about almost 3 years ago.she was 17 when i met her, and one of the things i found intrigueing about her was the fact that she wasnt a ho, like all the others where.

anyway i spoke with my wife last night when she got home from work, she has agreed that for our familys sake, we have a toddler daughter,if for nothing else we should really put some effort into our relationship and our sex life, she admited to me that as a child her step father touched her and her sister and since she has never felt as comfortable in her skin, we found a clinic that deals with these kinds of things, we are gonna make an appointment to see what we can do, i am willing to work with her as long as she is willing to work with me, for the most part you guys have had a lot of good stuff to add to this and i thank you.

 

i'm glad you found out what it was and got her to open up to you. good luck to both of you.

 

Maybe somebody can talk her into fucking you, good luck with that.

 

I'm glad this place could be of help to you Johnnie, and wish you both a happy resolution to your problems.

Keep us all posted as to how things are going, I'd personally love to hear in a few months that the two of you are learning how to enjoy a happy, normal sex life.

Best wishes - Fluffy McNoo.

 

It may seem irrelevant but are you and your wife black? Her behavior sounds like something lots of black women do.

 

In this place can anything be called a normal sex life? lol

 

Fluffy always knows what to say to make a person feel better.

^_^

 

your wife probably having other guys.....you need to have other women

 

*laughing along with Surrey* I wouldn't know truth be told, they're a great bunch of people round here, but I don't know them that well... yet! :mrgreen:

*warmly* Why thank you Silver, that was kind of you to say that!

Bye for now - Fluffy McNoo.

 

Force her over the table and tell her that she is going to take it in the ass and to get used to it from now on....... She'll eventually come to enjoy it. Sorted.

 

Your clever retort is lost on those who originally posted in this thread over 1-1/2 years ago Perhaps a nickname change to "hornydim" would be in order.

 

You might wanna have her see a specialist. She may have some sort of imbalance for having way too less interest is sex.

 

ever thought it aint just "her" fault here. He talks abpout his needs, what about hers? Maybe he thinks hes gods gift to women, but maybe you dont stimulate her enough before sex and it hurts for her, sure her sex drive may be lower but his constant barragement for his needs probably makes sex more of a chore for her rather than anything intimate like it should be.

However you need to tread lightly, make her feel relaxed, help with housework, cook romantic meals, generally make her feel like you see her as an equal partner rather than someone that must satisfy your needs, giver her lots of kisses and cuddles without making her think all you want from it is sex, and if it is leading that way then make sure you go down on her like never before! Maybe then she might feel like sex more often.

As for her being the worst you have ever had...there are ways to deal with that, get some good sex DVD's and learn new techniques together, tell her what makes you feel good and what doesnt, sex is a two way street, maye thats been a problem all along and is the reason why she hides from it.

 

nevermind i should have read all the posts