Hey, so me and my girlfriend just recently had sex for the first time. The first time was a little awkward...and neither of us came. So we stopped, and she bled a little bit.

We both figured we popped her cherry, and were a little weirded out that it didn't hurt her that much.

Anyway, then the second time, i came, but i was really tired and felt bad cuz i couldn't finish her off. :-/

Third time was great, we both came, and i think i made her cum twice. It was the best sex we both had.

Anyway, my question:

Since then, we've had sex like 3 times. Each time i put it in, i get the head in and then it REALLY hurts her, and so i pull out, she goes to the bathroom and she bleeds alot.

...is it possible to pop the cherry more than once? whats the deal?

 

i never had a vagina but i´m confident that doesn´t happen !!!

if any of the girls reply (i´m a fellow), do take her in to see a doctor. but i´m pretty sure that can be normal at the beggining

 

She may not be producing enough lubrication. How frequent are your sexual encounters? Perhaps give her some time to heal. Before you slide into her, try fingering her or licking her to orgasm a couple of times, to enhance lubrication. Then you can go in. If there are still any lubrication problems, use an artificial personal lubricant, I suggest KY.

If you're still having problems, I suggest a quick visit to the doctors.

 

we do plan on going to see the doctors some time soon but:

1. she gets. so. fucking. wet. soooo easily. so whenever i have tried, shes like realllllyyy fucking wet. and so i don't think thats it.

2. our sexual encounters were rather close, like within...4 or 5 days.

so we're thinking that maybe she needs to heal? and that we'll try in a week or so.

but i thought i'd ask here to see if theres anyone who has any ideas.

 

that also may happen if you reach her all the way to the uterum (my inglish is terrible Kinky ).

happens to a girl i know. she is not very ... deep.

 

4 or 5 days isn't close! Thats plenty time to heal. Maybe you have one of those fabled 12" cocks.

 

hahaha.

no.

i phrased that wrong.

we did it every day after the first time

for the next like, 5 days.

 

Hm... This may seem silly, but how big are you?

I'm afraid I don't know what is wrong, go see a doc. Perhaps if you posted pictures of her...

 

haha, i'm 7.5 to 8 inches.

we called her gyno, and she said that that seemed rather normal, to like give it a week or something. and that she couldn't really make a full guess with just talking, she would have to look at her.

but i'm hoping its just we did it too much too often and that she needs to heal.

and no, i'm not posting pics.

sorry.

 

A doctor is really the best idea anyway you look at it. She could have came so hard she ruptured a cyst or a blood vessel. Could also be hemorrhoids or she could be at the beginning of her cycle and you could have "stirred the paint' so to speak. If it's her first time she should be talking to a doctor about options for birth control and needs to get checked out. It's pretty much instinctual for the most part, the mechanics anyway, but all of us girls are different.

 

ah, thats something i forgot to add:

she just started birth control about 2 weeks ago, and her first week was fucking hell. she threw up alot.

 

Info is your friend. Just tell her to go in, it can only help. Even if it's just to calm your nerves. BC can inflame the ovaries, cause break through bleeding and lots of other things that aren't as bad as they seem. Honestly, it will make you both feel better to know. It's clear you care and that should be enough for her to get some answers so you can both get back to the fun of it all

 

she just started birth control about 2 weeks ago, and her first week was fucking hell. she threw up alot.[/quote]

That doesn't sound entirely normal. I'd ask a doc to check that that is.

 

see a dr.

you need to have her see a dr. but with the birth contol it can be nomal for it to take up to 2 or 3 months her it to start working right and some make your body think its pregnant but the bes thing to do is have her talk to a dr and see hers. and give her time to heal just get each other off with out sex. you can still have fun just dont push it.

 

Birth control pill usually take longer to get fully working than just 2 weeks, if she threw up than there is a chance that they don't work at all. At the beginning those pills can really screw up her hormones and therefore can have numerous unexpected effects. I'll would keep it with oral sex or something for a while till she gets fully used to those pills, if the problems stay than see a doctor.

 

What i'm just thinking of, birth control pill prevent a women from getting here period, but if they don't work properly then she can still get here period, so... maybe it is that.

 

Birth control pills normally take a month before they are effective and although some stop periods not all do, if she was throwing up I would really suggest talking to the doctor and if you did come inside her without a condom I would also suggest mentioning that to the doctor in case her pills don't work that fast...

Her being in pain doesn't sound that normal, my fiancee was a virgin when we met and she wasn't in that kind of pain (although everyone is different) however I did have an ex-gf that did suffer that kind of pain even when she was well lubricated and it turned out to be a simple infection that was easily cured (not a sexually transmitted infection by the way, just a run of the mill one).

I'd really recommend going to the doctors or a family planning clinic, etc for some advice and examination to be sure.

 

4-5 days may seem like a long time to heal but it's not for skin down there. if she tore on the inside it could take a week or longer to heel. she might not be in pain after 4-5 days but the tissue down there is thin and easily reopened.

alot of the time when my husband and i have sex he causes me to tear. he is bigger width wise then i am. even when i have tons of lube i still tear. that could be the pain and blood that she has.

birth control pills can make you throw up all the time. the pills tricks your body into thinking that it's already pregnant there for thinking the mourning sickness. i had it all three times i went on the pill. it only lasts for a month or so.

 

I took my girlfriend virginity last year, i know where ur coming from because when u hurt them you feel like shit. My GF bled about 3 times when we first do it but her body got used to it. I would say leave it until she heals abit and maybe she may want to invest in a toy or even some of her fingers just to "ease her in". Going from a virgin to 8" is going to hurt and shes gunna take some getting used to it

I would definatly get her a toy or (silly as it sounds) dont stick all ur dick in until she gets used to u - have fun though and remember SAFE SEX OR CHILD SUPPORT - YOU CHOOSE

 

Yeh, ok You had kids? If i was you I wouldn't bother. It would be a fucking blood bath.